Hello. The topic may seem strange to you (especially to the male audience), but it is from it that I want help. Of course, the ladies should be included as well. It's about the fact that for several months I've been communicating with a "boy" (at 22 if it matters). And just as it was just a flirtation, I began to have feelings for him. But he didn't help either, in the sense that he was giving me signals for the same. So, even though something inside kept telling me that I wasn't the only one talking sweet talk, I put that aside and took it for granted that something could happen between us. And just as he wrote to me yesterday that he couldn't wait to see me and explained to me how beautiful I was, I saw that he was heartily commenting on a photo of another girl, and she replied with the same. He's not his boyfriend, I'm sure of that. But let's not go any further, you realize it sucks, and I'm pretty upset that he's been playing me all this time, and I'm pretty angry about the time and nerves I've wasted on him. No, blocking it and moving on is not an option, at least for me. That's what I'm writing about here. I want it back. I know she's not my boyfriend and that's not really cheating. However, peace does not give me the thought that he played me all the time and for that I want to take revenge on him somehow. I know he can't be so bad if he doesn't have feelings for me.
But if I have to, I'll keep going crazy just to get it back. That's why men, boys and anyone who has ideas on how to act to feel at least half the way I do right now will be happy to hear them! blocking it and moving on is not an option, at least for me. That's what I'm writing about here. I want it back. I know she's not my boyfriend and it's not really infidelity. However, peace does not give me the thought that he played me all the time and for that I want to take revenge on him somehow. I know he can't be so bad if he doesn't have feelings for me. But if I have to, I'll keep going crazy just to get it back. That's why men, boys and anyone who has ideas on how to act to feel at least half the way I do right now will be happy to hear them! blocking it and moving on is not an option, at least for me. That's what I'm writing about here. I want it back. I know she's not my boyfriend and it's not really infidelity. However, peace does not give me the thought that he played me all the time and for that I want to take revenge on him somehow. I know he can't be so bad if he doesn't have feelings for me. But if I have to, I'll keep going crazy just to get it back. That's why men, boys and anyone who has ideas on how to act to feel at least half as good as I am at the moment, will be happy to hear them! that he can't be so bad if he doesn't have feelings for me. But if I have to, I'll keep going crazy just to get it back. That's why men, boys and anyone who has ideas on how to act to feel at least half as good as I am at the moment, will be happy to hear them! that he can't be so bad if he doesn't have feelings for me. But if I have to, I'll keep going crazy just to get it back. That's why men, boys and anyone who has ideas on how to act to feel at least half as good as I am right now, will be happy to hear them!
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Boys, men - that's what they do, EVERYONE. They write to many women / girls, waiting for someone to "tie" them. If you "tie" him - he may stop, but if he is fickle ...
You've been in touch with him for a few months and you haven't met yet? I have no idea why you have played it so far and not met him, but if you think that someone will pray or roll at your feet just to be happy to look at him, you are wrong, you see for yourself that there are others who do not "fly in the clouds." How to get revenge on him, but go to bed with a close friend of his and I know, you may feel satisfied and revenge. With this high sense of superiority over others, you will write here for a long time and seek advice, but you have already been advised how to take revenge on them, act boldly
ie he is not your boyfriend, but you want to take cruel revenge on him for an alleged infidelity, for which you have absolutely no evidence, except a heart under a photo? Does it only seem to me that you are a complete hook, who, having nothing to do, wonders what simplicity to create?
Don't be with him. Tell that girl not to get burned. Stop writing to him and he will be annoyed. You'll fuck up if you become a boyfriend with this one
And how exactly are you going to get revenge on him if he doesn't care about you? And yes - try in several places. Bad for you, I admit, but you really have no relationship and you do not owe. I understand why you feel that way, but there's really no point in "pretending to be crazy to get revenge." Ž
This is natural behavior. If you do not want to be with him, then he will continue to look for a partner.
You can live for yourself and try to be happy, or you can live for him and take revenge on him. But revenge will only punish you. He does not care. Nor will you be relieved. So take a lesson from history and leave it in the past. It will be best for you, and there is no greater punishment than indifference.
It is very likely that he did it on purpose, because he knew that you would see him and get annoyed accordingly. The boy is testing you right now to see how confident you are. The only right way to react is to reduce your communication with him to 50%, but without looking offended or resentful when communicating, but as you normally behave. But don't answer him so often, and sometimes don't answer him at all. If you really like it, you will take action as well. k. a. will stop with these things. If not, whatever you do - benefit. Don't fall so low as to take revenge on him, this is extremely unfortunate behavior and I guarantee you that he will not give you the expected results.
Once the topic is open to everyone, I will allow myself to give advice. He is: learning his lessons and preparing for graduation; if you learn a foreign language in the meantime, it will be very good; if you find a hobby - even better; make a list of books and read it; if you have no idea what to read - ask. And so on. Facebook is not real life. This guy is de facto just as real as Mickey Mouse. Some name and photo on the web. Come down to earth, because if you don't, life itself will land you. And very soon. PP After understanding the nature of your "problem", I was amazed that your spelling is so good because it's really good; so you have a mind that can be useful to you for far more constructive things.