Hello! If you are in an unspecified relationship with someone (not in a relationship yet), but you are interested, what would you do if you fell ill just before the meeting? In fact, it is possible that this act also means a lack of interest and a tactful refusal. Please write under the comments if you are a man or a woman.
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If I have a high temperature and I am very sick, I will cancel the meeting. But then I'll call for a new one to see that it's not an excuse. I don't justify myself with diseases like a mouse. But many people do.
Years ago, I was 22-24 for sure. I had a meeting with a chick I was stocking. I had recently contracted angina. I was supposed to be well, but I still had a persistent cough. We sat in a restaurant, ordered something to eat, and as the food intensified my cough, there was no stopping, bro. I blushed, coughed every few seconds, and could say almost nothing. Apart from the antibiotic and the medication, I looked awful and started sweating. In general, the whole situation was super confusing. I have not made more such mistakes.
I personally would refuse, letting the lady know that I have an interest and my refusal is really due to health problems. I would keep in touch with her and when I recover, I will invite her again. If one of my colds refuses, she obviously doesn't like me very much anyway and it doesn't make sense.
I will call to cancel the meeting and explain why, but I will explain that I definitely want to see you and either I will arrange a date in a few days when I should be fine or just as soon as I feel good I will look for him next meeting will be on my initiative.
I am a woman. Depends on how sick I am, if it's a mild cold, I'll go, if it's more severe, I'll call to apologize and make another appointment as soon as I'm interested in this person.
It has happened to me more than once that a person comes to a meeting with a viral infection, sneezes and sneezes and coughs at me. Not only did I not accept his coming as a sign of attention, but I also hated him for infecting me. I consider him extremely irresponsible, selfish and rude. There was no second meeting. And if I feel sick, I tell the person I have an appointment with that it is possible to infect him and that I prefer to postpone the meeting, and they have always agreed. Nobody accepted it as a refusal on my part to see each other in general, on the contrary, I think they appreciated him because it is a concern for themselves.
At the time when there were no mobile phones, and landlines were a rarity, my parents met. They went out - to a restaurant, to the cinema, for a walk. Once my father bought theater tickets and positioned himself to wait for his boyfriend on the sidewalk in the middle of winter. My mother arrives with a temperature of 40 degrees and pale as a mortal. There was no way she could call that she was ill. My father, of course, took her home immediately, but then he said to himself, "This girl is obviously extremely correct and she will make a wonderful wife." And so they get married. They were, in fact, extremely devoted to each other all their lives. Today, things are completely different - you can always call and explain the problem. If it was a personal commitment, that's exactly what I would do. But I'm currently writing from my desk at work. I caught a terrible virus and I have a temperature of 39 degrees, pain all over my body, vomiting and so on. But it so happened that one colleague was on leave, another had to travel urgently, and in the morning I almost crawled home, because there really was an urgent job. Sick of a love affair, I wouldn't go for three reasons. The first is that a person who is ill simply does not have the mood for conversation or anything and everyone has a boring time. Second, I don't look my best. And third, if it's a virus, I can infect a person. And one more thing: this seems pretty desperate. You're kind of ready to crutch with crutches just so you don't miss his empty cavalier. because there really was urgent work. Sick of a love affair, I wouldn't go for three reasons. The first is that a person who is ill simply does not have the mood for conversation or anything and everyone has a boring time. Second, I don't look my best. And third, if it's a virus, I can infect a person. And one more thing: this seems pretty desperate. You're kind of ready to crutch with crutches just so you don't miss his empty cavalier. because there really was urgent work. Sick of a love affair, I wouldn't go for three reasons. The first is that a person who is sick simply does not have the mood for conversation or anything and everyone has a boring time. Second, I don't look my best. And third, if it's a virus, I can infect a person. And one more thing: this seems pretty desperate. You're kind of ready to crutch with crutches just so you don't miss his empty cavalier.
TO 9 Well done to you, now there are rarely such correct and loyal people. Unfortunately.
Up to 9 and 10 Brava, again, but to know that if you go out with a temperature of 40 degrees in the cold at night, you may not reach your destination ...