Hello! I will tell you a little about myself to get an idea. I am an 18-year-old girl for 12th grade. I have been preparing for the entrance exams in medicine for several months now. For me, learning comes first and for as long as I can remember I have ignored many things because of it. For my appearance - I am 165 cm tall, I weigh 63 kg. I look a bit like a mulatto because of my full lips, golden complexion and Brazilian ass. Now my story: When I was 16, I met a 24-year-old boy on the Internet. from the other end of Bulgaria. We were very similar in character, we had many common interests and the same views on life. We discussed various topics - music, games and much more. It has become an indispensable part of the day for us to write and talk for hours. He thought I was cute and liked me, but I was adamantly against having something because the age difference was big. A few months passed and imperceptibly we just started to perceive ourselves as boyfriends. I didn't notice the age difference anymore, I forgot it and fell in love. And so I had my first boyfriend. In fact, I'm his first - strange as it may sound. He left for England for a year, during which time we kept in touch via Skype. When he returned to Bulgaria, he came to see me for the first time not long after. Because I am staying in the city where I study, I live alone. When he came for three days, it was wonderful. I flew from happiness and love. But when I left, I kept crying. Ever since he left then, I have always missed him and I did not feel the meaning of my life without him. I had no reason to smile. For a year and a half (almost two) we saw each other every two months for 5 days. There have been cases in which and for longer. We came up with all sorts of ways to see each other. We have been deciding for a long time that when he starts 12th grade he will come to work in the city where I study and will live in a dormitory so that we do not separate anymore. And that sounded wonderful. But something changed in me a few weeks ago, I don't think I want to be with him anymore ... Here are the reasons: He is 27, in November he will be 28. Isn't he old for me? He graduated in public administration and has no realization. It works things that can be done without average. He does not have a driver's license and has no desire to earn. It's just ... I'm struggling to become a doctor, I'm going to find a lot of new people along the way. I mean, I could find someone better, someone better for me. He wants a serious relationship and is ready to live together as soon as I go to study. But don't you think I'm too young for such a serious relationship? That I have never seen anything in my life. And something more personal ... Sex doesn't work. First that his is so small that I do not feel anything and ends in 3-4 minutes. I leave aside the fact that he is 1.80 cm tall and weighs as much as me. Oh, it's hard for me because he really loves me and has told me that I am the meaning of his life. I'm sorry to dump him, I tried to do it, I explained to him how I felt and so on. And because I was fighting to break up, he started crying, it's really the biggest tragedy for him to break up. Then we got along, simply because my heart wouldn't let me hurt him. I still have some feelings for him and I don't care how he feels. I am very confused about what to do. I have memories with him of how well we had. He was my biggest support, no one has given me as much courage as him, and indeed I will have a hard time surviving the separation. But since things are getting very serious, I have to make a decision now - should I stay with him or should I dump him and look ahead? Please help, share your opinion sincerely, I need valuable advice. I guess it depends on my decision how my life will develop in the future. What would you do? Thanks for reading my story.
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Nothing can stop true love! Except for the little cock and the lack of realization of course. xD
First boyfriend of a man of 24? Either he's cheating on you a lot, or he's rubbish that the women around him who know him personally don't like. ;) You decide.
Drop it immediately! Don't stay with him out of pity. I made this mistake and the consequences for both of them are huge and negative. Always put yourself first! He will find the real one for him, which will not be with him out of pity, but out of love. You have ambitions, you are young, you are not for each other, he just takes advantage of your good heart. Break with it now, better severe pain once than constantly hurting yourself for years. He may be kind and good now, but if he gets power and money in the future you will see the other side of the coin. Run!
So, for you, love is not important, your vanity is important and he is a "promising" provider?
My opinion is that you peed. First get into medicine, and then explain to me how "different" you are from every average person you meet. The boy has a university degree and you don't yet. Frankly, I doubt you can even get in. The fact is that nowadays the universities accept lame, skinny and crippled, even in medical ones. But you are functionally and punctuation illiterate and you explain your pseudo-intellectual claims here? Like I said - pickle ... Break up with him. This will help him find his true soul mate.
Abe this "women" will never understand you. Some complain on the site that they can't find a "decent" man, and others that they want to change their current boyfriend / husband with another. My advice to the author is to do as she feels! We are not fortune tellers here, what awaits you in the bright future. There is no panacea for happiness !!! Today you can be in a wonderful relationship and everything is fine in every way, but after a while everything will turn upside down ... :) PS - And yet in search of the perfect / prince /, the years go by imperceptibly ... >> M. 32d = <<
Break it! The age difference is not much if you look for and watch the same things. Now is the time to go out, party, study and develop, not pretend to be a husband and housewife. You will miss an awful lot of life and maybe one day you will be very angry. Why would you live with someone, go home to his apartment, have obligations to your home, when at this age you can not go home at all? At 27 and a child will want. Not now, but in a year or two. Are you ready to give birth at 21? Going with someone and living with them are radically different things.
Either you love him or you don't ... You're still young, if it's not love, break up, if it's, stay with him. As for sex, take the initiative .. Make him lick you, maybe fisting, then let's see if you will not feel anything hd.
Look, the difference in your age is not big, up to 10 years is normal, the truth is that you are small, only 18 years old. If he was 24-25, and he was 33-34, you definitely wouldn't mind the difference, but you're 18! My advice is to leave him, no matter how much it hurts and it hurts you, you will do him a "painful favor". If he is a decent guy, he will find another one and you will find another one, he may be gifted from below, but he may be a hollow watering can at the top.
Drop it! The reasons you have listed are good enough in themselves. But the most important thing is that everything that has been said shows that you no longer love him and do not want to be with him. In this situation, nothing else matters much.
You definitely don't want to be with him. Never be with a man out of pity. Your arguments, though true, are a little harsh. My generation / and I am 28 / had completely different opportunities, unlike the current one. Before studying public administration it was very prestigious and there were only people with 5s, and now with 3s, and from the prom for sure. Just don't judge until you know what it was. Education today and rather the chances are much higher than before. I can't even think about medicine or taking two undergraduate courses. It's just ugly how you judge him for his education and abilities.
The problem is not the age difference, but the lack of feelings on your part. You better be honest with him before he takes a big step - to move to the city where you live. If you are his first love (or at least the first shared), he will experience you even harder. But you better stop this as soon as possible - the more you procrastinate, the more you will both suffer after that. Especially him. It is clear from each of your lines that you do not adore him - you are used to him, you feel loved and you realize that in another city you can meet someone even "better". But so it is with him - leave him, he may eventually meet a girl who loves him as he is - and at the same time motivates him to develop. Public administration is a good specialty, the society needs it, if it finds a good job, it will receive a good salary. If you want to try to keep him for the last time - help him realize -> inspire him to look for a well-paid job or enroll in a second master's degree; encourage him to take a driver's license "It will be great to be able to drive, we will be able to travel around Bulgaria together, we will not be addicted to buses", be by his side ... But this is only if you feel at least a drop of love for him. If it's all over - be honest and very, very careful. Because he tried to give you everything, you didn't appreciate it. This may traumatize him and then he may not want to communicate in girls anymore; or not to pay so much attention to his possible next half, because he has already suffered .... Stay a little alone with yourself and decide. But it's not just how it's best for you, but for both of you. inspire him to look for a well-paid job or enroll in a second master's degree; encourage him to take a driver's license "It will be great to be able to drive, we will be able to travel around Bulgaria together, we will not be addicted to buses", be by his side ... But this is only if you feel at least a drop of love for him. If it's all over - be honest and very, very careful. Because he tried to give you everything, you didn't appreciate him. This can traumatize him and then he may not want to communicate in girls anymore; or not to pay so much attention to his possible next half, because he has already suffered .... Stay a little alone with yourself and decide. But it's not just how it's best for you, but for both of you. inspire him to look for a well-paid job or enroll in a second master's degree; encourage him to take a driver's license "It will be great to be able to drive, we will be able to travel around Bulgaria together, we will not be addicted to buses", be by his side ... But this is only if you feel at least a drop of love for him. If it's all over - be honest and very, very careful. Because he tried to give you everything, you didn't appreciate it. This can traumatize him and then he may not want to communicate in girls anymore; or not to pay so much attention to his possible next half, because he has already suffered .... Stay a little alone with yourself and decide. But it's not just how it's best for you, but for both of you. This can traumatize him and then he may not want to communicate in girls anymore; or not to pay so much attention to his possible next half, because he has already suffered .... Stay a little alone with yourself and decide. But it's not just how it's best for you, but for both of you. This can traumatize him and then he may not want to communicate in girls anymore; or not to pay so much attention to his possible next half, because he has already suffered .... Stay a little alone with yourself and decide. But it's not just how it's best for you, but for both of you.
Chick, I see myself and my situation in you. Look - you're beautiful, you're smart, you're young, you've really never seen anything in your life. You will meet so many people, different, interesting ... If you have doubts and you tried to dump him once, there is no going back, believe me. Things were similar for me - at one point I chose to part with him, but he was moved and dissuaded me. Error. A few more months of torment as I mustered the courage to leave him. I have not regretted for a moment. The future awaits you, pursue your own goals!
Absurd! I love you ... nonsense! Lack of any ambition, whining, stupid, on top of everything and for sex is not possible. He is in a hurry to "live together" and if he has enough ... the thing will hit you with a baby to tie you up. Typically for losers, they run after much younger girls in the hope that they will be stupid enough not to notice important things in the future. You will meet people at your level and age. Don't get attached to his squealing, he knows that it will be very difficult for a woman to tie him up and that's why he is like that. I hate whining impostors!
I see so much wisdom in the comments under another story, I absorb like a sponge. From a professor of Philosophy of Life, you have gathered here, little morons. Looking at your thoughts, I have one request for all of you, with a few exceptions - do not reproduce, do a service to society. "Doctor", don't you think that when you become a doctor and you are a turbo-pro-cool-prestigious-profession ?! During the day, they break your teeth in the emergency department. You all copy as for the world on exams, then you go to treat people. It is no coincidence that the Bulgarian first looks on the Internet and tries to heal himself. But think that you are the future dream throat of half the neighborhood, not bad. Just to ask - for these two years did you not realize that his dick is small or do you drive him to "For God's sake" just when you see each other ?! And for the final - 165 to 63 is not "
Hahaha author, I'm 15, please reread 16 every time you think of being a complex loser. This one will remind you what it's all about. And this one talks about reproduction ... so many monkeys on earth ... Good luck, author!
When you are 16 - he is 24; when you are 18 - he is almost 28. So, if we continue the series when you are 24 - he will be 40 (or in November). I think it's appropriate to mention that, "The monkey and the woman grabbed another branch first and then let go." It came out more promising, didn't it?
I can't believe our stories are getting so close. : D I also have a friend I met on the internet. I'm your age, and he's as old as your friend. He told me that he wants to have a family in 2-3 years, but I have not seen anything in my life and I do not intend to give birth so early ... It is difficult, because with us the love is really great, but if he makes me choose. I can't give up learning just because he wants it and just because he likes it.
Break up with him! You will meet many people, you will experience many things, you will fall in love, share, party, study, you will live. He already wants a family and children, if not now, he will ask too soon. And if sex is not good ..