Hello! I am writing here because I have nowhere to pour out my soul. This is the only place where I can safely say everything I generally would not. I am a student, 21 years old and at first glance a completely normal girl. I have a rich social life, I eat healthy, I play sports, I study and my perseverance gives excellent results at university. My life seems perfect, but it's just a thin lining of the horrifying reality. When I was 14 I started to feel the constant need for sex, that's all I had in mind. There were times when I cried because I felt disgusted in my own body. In the evening, when everyone fell asleep, I spent hours groping. Then I decided that I would be complacent and not in a hurry to sleep with a boy. In the beginning, I could exercise some control over myself, but this did not last long. I didn't feel full, I wanted more and more. I couldn't stop. I lost my virginity at 18. Then I slept with a man who was much older. I felt such indescribable pleasure that there are no suitable words to describe. Yes, it was fun, but after we finished I wanted more ... And from that moment on I lost all control over myself. As soon as I get up, my first thoughts are about sex, when I go to the gym it's just in my head, even falling asleep these thoughts do not leave me. I can't get enough of the male body, I always want more. My libido has no bottom. All my connections failed for this very reason. The men enjoyed it only for the first few months, and then more came to them. I went to psychologists, but nothing helped. I feel like a prisoner in my body, I feel weak and helpless in the face of my primary passions. My life has been off track for a long time and it's so hard to hold back. I have a brutal hunger for sex and nothing else. I have tried to refrain, but this only happens for a short period of time, and in the meantime I am nervous, aggressive, sour. I have morals and principles, but there is something stronger in me that I allow to lead me. I've done terrible things, things I wouldn't dare say out of shame. I spent so much time masturbating in front of the computer. I have the feeling that I am spinning in a circle from which I cannot escape. I am tormented because I know and realize what I am actually doing. And it is precisely these thoughts that crush and humiliate me. I tried to take my own life, because I hit the bottom a long time ago and lower than this step ... no! I decided to fight and I will fight it, no matter how crazy it sounds!
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Find a job and you won't have time for nonsense.
You have already taken the first step, although most likely without wanting to - sharing, if you want anonymously (in this case it may be preferable). Next - find a MAN with whom you enjoy and talk, share, argue. It is unlikely that sex will escape the equation, but I guess at the moment it is hardly your priority when communicating with men if there is anything else to do / say to yourself other than sex. And it will help not to think only about sex. And if you manage to find activities that keep your interest a bit in the sides of sex, you are almost cured :) In general, nymphomania is not very different from all other mania / addictions. Once you realize that you have a problem, it is not so difficult to take appropriate action. You just need a little more perseverance and proper advice.
Have you tested your hormones?
Ohhhh cat, I'm the same as you, since I've been dreaming of finding her as dissatisfied as you, but I'm still hitting a rock. That's why my ex is my ex, I constantly wanted sex, 6-7-8 runs a day and she ended up a hell of a lot, noooo "a lot came", right and the way!
Hi, Maybe you should look at it from another angle - it's not a vice, but a gift from the gods (figuratively speaking, because I'm not a believer). You need to find a polygamous friend :) You haven't hit rock bottom at all, but maybe you need to be careful not to hurt the feelings of the people you are intimate with. Most men in our latitudes are quite jealous, so you need to look for someone who fully understands you, knows what your desires are and likes you, even adores you - the way you are. I am sure you will find your man and you will be happy. Don't change - you are not a criminal and there is nothing wrong with your desires, as long as you do not hurt your partners! M, 39
Try intermittent fasting, it should regulate your hormones.
Come to me and look at the building! In the evening you will fall asleep like a bathed baby, you will not even remember to touch your kitten.
Why don't you start working as a prostitute, with 15-20 clients a day, maybe your desire for non-stop sex will be blunted !?
She answered a few questions: 1. Did they bully you at school as a child? 2. Did your mother or father abuse you? 3. Do you squirt? 4. How much older was your first husband and how did he treat you? 5. Imagine that you are giving a blowjob to an old, fat, sweaty, dirty gypsy ... Would you do it, would you get excited about it? I'll come in soon to see what you wrote
Girl, try pills. Believe me only this helps, suppresses libido, makes you calm. Olanzapine works for me. Yes, he is very strong, but I drink a little. Otherwise it gets fat. Then you will see what true peace is. You have high levels of dopamine and it suppresses them. I do other nonsense. Because of one sex, I deal with men who brutally harass me. My life revolves around sex. If I find someone to have big and strong sex, end, I fall in love, I want a relationship, and he just has sex. I try not to see the world in black and white, but it doesn't become a man who doesn't have sex, it's rubbish for me. I haven't had a relationship in a hell of a long time. My life is hell. I want a relationship, I get humiliated. Because I can't build a normal relationship. I'm afraid of losing someone. They only want me for sex. And they don't even seem to want that. Only I look for them.
Author, your story is painfully familiar to me. Since I have experienced, read, etc., here are the solutions: 1. As everyone says in basics, find a man who also has the same / similar libido. 2. There are men who not only don't mind cheating on them, but get aroused. Search for hotwife / cuckold lifestyle. As a last resort, a combination of the two can satisfy you physically and emotionally. And don't worry. Just because you have a lot of libido doesn't mean you're broken. You are great. You just need someone rarely a super person to estimate exactly how much. Wishy, 28.
From the Author: There are things I haven't shared in the story for the simple reason that I didn't want to mention them. But from such a kind and extremely intriguing comment, I decided to say them. Obviously, if you have a problem with your body and its own needs that you can't control, it can be interpreted as laziness. My admirations! I have been working since I was 16 to help my mother, who was struggling from work to raise me and my brother. My father ... he left us many years ago. Since then I have not stopped working - I earn my own money, help my relatives and I have never left my mother. I went on brigades in England and Italy and all the savings went to one place. When I had the opportunity, I went to two places to earn some income for my personal needs. I took out loans to pay for my education. I took care of my grandmother (her light finger) and at the same time I worked and studied. The only thing I'm really proud of is that I was able to help people who needed help and yes, I have an awful lot of sex, but never for money and material goods, but simply because I have a brutal hunger. I want to thank the kind and intelligent people who got involved.
Start as a prostitute, that's what you'll make money from. In my opinion, you are currently without a husband and some time has passed in which you did not do. That's why you're writing nonsense here, because you're having sex. The other discrepancy, supposedly from a 14-year-old nymphomaniac, and you lasted until 18, come on. To have your desire.
Some of the products for intimate hygiene irritate the genitals, in this case the clitoris and there is an urge, a desire for sex.
And let me ask the author - is it over. One of the manifestations of nymphomania is the lack of orgasms and therefore there is a constant urge for more and more sex. The other option is hypersexuality, which is expressed in / titsat /: - Obsession with the thought of sexual intercourse, to the extent that interferes with other activities; - anxious, excessive, literally tiring, masturbating; - constant search for visual stimulation of sexual arousal; - genital hypersensitivity; - many sexual partners; - sexual intercourse without selection on the spot; - sexual contact without regard to safety; - sexual contact without the use of protective equipment; - emotional imbalance, self-hatred, sadness and hatred directed inwards; - alternation of depressive and manic emotions, low self-esteem and demonstrations of high self-esteem; - sexual behavior, contrary to personal moral norms; - often as a result of hypersexuality there are sexual deviations such as exhibitionism, masochism, etc .; - as with other addictions - the belief that they can stop on their own and many disappointments.
Not all women who are hungry for sex are nymphomaniacs (thank God). Libido is different. Various exercises for the pelvis are also affected, the blood supply there is improved and arousal occurs. Especially if it is accompanied by fantasies about a favorite image.
In my opinion, this is not a psychiatrist, but a purely hormonal problem, but a somewhat capable doctor, most of them are useless moles and who cannot cure themselves, but I am sure that if you look you will find someone who is successful in this field. , maybe a sexologist.
Every physical condition is related to the mental and vice versa. Nymphomania is a psychological disease that manifests itself in physical actions and sensations. Even if this is not a nymphomania, even if the author's problem is hormonal, it still affects her psyche. My advice is to visit a psychologist, because even if you are not a nymphomaniac, what you did affects your psychological condition and this is evident in the things you say. Otherwise you can consult another doctor, at least you will understand the cause of the problem and you will know how to solve it. People always forget something important - that preferences in sex are always on a psychological basis, all perversions, all fetishes, even normal things in sex, are an expression of our psyche. What affects our genitals is also related to our way of thinking, the way we accept ourselves and understand our sexuality. Another question is which is first and which is second. These psychological conditions also affect our hormones and physical bodies. It is very strange to me how people divide the human psyche and his physique. Even if it is a hormonal problem, it is still caused by some kind of imbalance and leads to certain mental states as a result of our actions. So do not reject psychologists and psychiatrists. However, the psychologist only talks to you, and the psychiatrist has a medical education and can prescribe the right pills if necessary. Just do not overdo it with them, because this will lead to an imbalance. It is very strange to me how people divide a person's psyche and his physique. Even if it is a hormonal problem, it is still caused by some kind of imbalance and leads to certain mental states as a result of our actions. So do not reject psychologists and psychiatrists. However, the psychologist only talks to you, and the psychiatrist has a medical education and can prescribe the right pills if necessary. Just do not overdo it with them, because this will lead to an imbalance. It is very strange to me how people divide a person's psyche and his physique. Even if it is a hormonal problem, it is still caused by some kind of imbalance and leads to certain mental states as a result of our actions. So do not reject psychologists and psychiatrists. However, the psychologist only talks to you, and the psychiatrist has a medical education and can prescribe the right pills if necessary. Just do not overdo it with them, because this will lead to an imbalance.
The main reasons for this are high estrogen and high histimine. You can test for estrogen for BGN 15-16 in any laboratory. There is a lot of information about histimine on the net.
I hope I'm wrong! It is worth going for a consultation / examination by an endocrinologist. There is no room for jokes - it may be a pituitary tumor.
In addition to hormonal, the causes may be some neurological diseases / Kleine-Levin syndrome, Alzheimer's, brain injuries, and others. /, as well as disturbed biochemical processes in the brain. In addition to hormones, be sure to examine your nervous system and brain activity. I do not want to scare you, but some serious diseases have this symptom. Of course, there may be some types of fungi that irritate your reproductive system and cause constant desire. Hypersexuality is also sometimes seen in hormonal cysts that change the general hormonal background. As you can see, there is a high probability that there is a medical reason for your condition. Choose a good gynecologist, endocrinologist and neurologist, take referrals and act.
I am the author but. 9. You didn't answer me. My questions are completely serious. I found your story interesting too. I'll come in again soon to see what you wrote. Greetings!
Hello! I don't see anything strange here in your story, I'm a man of 25, working and studying. I have been helping my parents since the age of 13, I worked illegally then because there are no contracts for children, and I will not go into details, but I am exactly like you in a male body and insatiable with sex. I've been with a dozen women who liked my desire to have sex, although I tried everything to satisfy my desire and sometimes all I had to do was lick them, but there had to be an act! I have been married for 3 months now, my wife and I have been together for 5 years, in which we got along wonderfully and with a great intimate life and "Again" is not enough for me, but more often I masturbate to satisfy my hunger. The good thing about me is that she already feels me when I have a desire and sharpens me regularly so that everything is normal, she obviously understood me because we didn't talk about it. So I want to tell you that I have found the right person and we achieve some balance! Good luck and write how things are going.
You have to purify yourself and you will not have dirty thoughts. For this purpose you must first stop having sex because you know very well that a pure girl does not think about dirty things or a pure boy .. Maybe an unclean spirit is coming over you and so on ... I have no idea what feelings it can evoke in you after all. I know that it takes 7 years .. Cigarettes also pollute the spirit, the more time passes the more unclean spirits will lose power to you