Hello! I hope you will publish my story as well. I am 14 and I was completely desperate. I have a "best" girlfriend for 5 years. We are now in 7th grade and she has changed a lot lately. She wasn't like that before in the sense that she was known to the whole school for her simplicity. Whatever he hears and repeats, he becomes very confused. It used to be different, he didn't smoke, he didn't drink (now he occasionally drinks a beer at the bar). We were very good friends and we share everything to this day, but lately a lot of things gossip about everyone and I wonder what to say to her. One child is in the family and is falling asleep, but hers has no end. My mother never forbids me to go out with her, because the parents only talked about her. With another friend who is good, we both decided to tell her that what she was doing was not right, that she was going the wrong way. She is Turkish and a mother and cries a lot, but the woman is no longer strong and is constantly ill. I talked to our people about her and they told me to find another friend. I'm afraid I won't be left alone at one point they said no, but I'm still afraid I don't know what to do please give me advice!
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You will not be left alone. There are probably other people who don't like this girl. It can only get you wrong. After all, you are only 7th grade, you would be affected ... Get rid of this garbage!
I wouldn't call your girlfriend a scumbag like the man in the previous comment. I can't tell you what to do, provided I don't know you or her. You have to decide for yourself. But I'm older than you and I can you clarify the situation briefly. What happens to your girlfriend is called puberty. Now she is trying to look grown up, significant and somehow stand out from the others, ie. does these things to be noticed, to be of the "cool". Being "slimy and gossiping" she in one way or another attracts the attention of other peers. That's why she does it. She smokes and drinks because it feels great and grown up, you know? I guess she has started to have a problem at school as well - lower grades, unacceptable behavior, running away from classes. She wants to fit in with others as a "cool and bad girl".
From the author: Thank you very much for the advice. They will really help me :))
But you are a large part of the young people, what is your self-control? try to do well and not like most schools in soybeans that have totally failed and after passing 8th grade you will change a lot now just watch it and sometimes intervene even if necessary and slap just to don't do what she intended and so otherwise after you go to another school a lot of changes are not a fight as long as the school is good and not a hole
I am 12 and all my friends smoke and drink .. and as they say, the way you go out, you and I start smoking but a little to drink .. they make me run away from classes, but I only from the visual and physical running (these classes are not useful for education in my opinion: D) our people still do not understand about it but they understood about my absences and I always lie to her that these are only due to delays but how long it will last but it does not matter. ... you better give up on her because you will start doing what she did :) as it happened to me :(