First I want to ask for the story to be uploaded to me. I'm afraid I'll be alone for the rest of my life. I'm 15 and I'm from a small town. There are about 150 students in school and all the boys hate me, they constantly kill me, they make jokes with me, they constantly tease me that I'm ugly and that I don't have a girlfriend and that's why no girl wants to talk to me (not that I like any of them), but last year a new girl came, she was not beautiful according to the others but I immediately liked her. I'm quite shy and because of the hint that I'm ugly, incompetent took me a long time to gather the courage to invite her to go out to see. When I invited her, she refused because I was ugly and they told her that I was a couple and that I constantly insulted the girls, and that's not because I don't even dare say a word to them, and I wouldn't kill a girl. And so the only girl I had a chance with didn't want to talk to me. There aren't many girls in town who don't go to school, and I don't dare talk to them because I don't know them. I don't have many friends, my only friends sometimes kill me, sometimes they are good with me, especially on a test in the teacher. That's why I'm afraid I'll be alone forever.
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Nonsense buddy, don't listen to them children are especially cruel to each other and when someone is different they try to hurt him in the most cruel way possible without thinking about the consequences and that things can turn around one day . As for the one in question, since he believes in people's stories and fucks and "his friends too", it is clear how much they respect him when they are only looking for control. In that case, it's better not to have friends than to be with users. At school, I helped a "friend of mine" and after we graduated, I didn't even know before, I saw how much she "respected" me. Study, get good grades and when you're done, get out of this city, enroll in a good specialty, and let's see in years to come what these idiots will say about you!
You will not be left alone, start going to the gym and boxing or wrestling, learn a foreign language and you will see that you will have self-confidence. In time you will leave the city, you will meet new exact people. But this is a useful life lesson, judge people, do not trust easily, because you want attention can easily manipulate you.
Don't worry, you won't stay alone. As n 2 told you, when you finish run to a bigger city and you will get tired of the genre. When they find you, you will ask how to repel them without hurting their feelings. You will see. Hahah, maybe I can take you :).
When I was exactly 15 I had the same problems but then I changed school things got better don't be sorry that you go through this you will become stronger and in combat start playing sports now it's best to start when you get stronger you won't get hooked and learn this is the most important thing to find the subject you like and learn more about it and then follow with it
Do not worry and in no case do not let the opinion of others determine your life. They are just complexes and I don't believe they are better than you at all, that's why they insult you, and even more so when they see that you are silent to them. And I'm a bit like you, I used to be hated a lot, but it was because they think I'm crazy, otherwise there were no insults for appearance and it was until 7th grade, now they still can't look at me, but they only comment on how to avoid them and I don't talk to those in the class. Otherwise, I don't care at all that someone thinks, for example, that I'm ugly. 10 people may think so, but not one. You have to find this one person who perceives you differently and sees your true nature. Look, you're still 15, life is ahead of you, but the world won't end if you don't find a girlfriend. Do you know how many people are alone, but are they still happy? I know people who have preferred loneliness, do not poison their lives and live as they want without regard. Well, there are those who are aggressive and as if the world is to blame for being alone, that's why they kill their complexes. Nowadays, in order to be in someone's company and not to be ridiculed, you have to be open, to be famous and even if you don't get up for anything, you will still like them. My advice is not to change, the only thing you need to change is your attitude towards people ... don't let them crush you, don't give in to them and don't listen to them at all. As for the girl ... she doesn't have an opinion of her own at all, which is very unfortunate, she did the wrong thing by listening to what others were saying about you and she didn't even try to get to know you. But rest assured, you will find the right one, just despair. I'm sure you're not ugly, but you just have to stop caring about other people's opinions. The important thing is that we like each other. I would personally meet a person like you, one that we look alike, another that I would be interested.
You will not be left alone unless you want to. Most people go through this period of self-doubt, but then everything changes ... You will see this for yourself, but until then - believe in yourself and do not listen to the children's league, which by the way are also insecure and kill complexes on your back . If you have the opportunity - do something sports, and if you do not like it - just dress so as to blend in with others, but not inconspicuous. You will have girls, but it is not a question of number but of quality. If you think one is for you - give it a try. Be brave and yourself, and those who can not appreciate you - they lose. Good luck. :-) Emanuela 25y ..
Well, nothing can change if you don't change first. Instead of asking your parents for some nonsense for a holiday gift, ask for nice clothes, pay more attention to how you look, how you smell, whether you are clean. Overgrown (I bet you haven't until now)! It is very important what your hair is like, if you can't maintain it, cut it short, because believe me, it's awful to see a person with greasy and tousled hair. This is from me.
You can always take a cat or a dog :)
Calm down. At university, things will change a lot. Suffer a little more, fate knows its job.