Hello people! I'm dying of fear and I'm constantly thinking about it and I don't dare to share it with anyone ... I know it's early and that maybe it's not right to think about it from now on, but .... I'm a girl of 16 ... From about 3 years i have menstruation / cycle. Not very regular (sometimes skips by a month) but this is another topic .... My question is ... I haven't stopped thinking for about a month - what if in the future when I want to have children I can't get pregnant! ?? I'm terrified! I'm a virgin and I'm pretty tight, I can't even put a finger in it. There are cases of absolute infertility in our family - cousins on the part of my mother and my aunt on the part of my father ... I'm starting to worry .... does this with the cycle mean anything and do infertile or problematic women have regular or. ... Oh, I'm going crazy,,,, And I always have a very painful period and even on the days of ovulation !!! What to do! ? If you have questions - I will answer in the comments. I apologize if there are mistakes, I write by phone ... Please publish my story ....
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If the problem is just the irregular cycle, you have nothing to worry about. Your gynecologist can generally set him up to come when he decides, and getting pregnant shouldn't be a problem.
Every woman is tight before having sex. And you just go to the gynecologist. They understand things best.
It is really too early for you to worry about such let. If you really have such a problem in the family please do not despair, think positively. You can go to the doctor, I think this is the best solution. And if by chance it turns out that you can't have a child, know that adoption is an option and at the same time a good thing.
Hi, I want to reassure you that I was just like you. Always with irregular menstruation and always very painful. I was in pain every time, for hours. Only aulin helped me. And I was also very tight (and still am). And just like you, for some reason, I had suggested to myself that I would either not have a child or it would be, but very difficult. I had been told that I had polycystic ovaries, which completely confirmed my fears ... Because I read a lot then that with this problem, getting pregnant often became difficult. But one day, we did it without a condom (for the first time) and I got pregnant. Everyone told me that I ate more than before, but I didn't pay attention to them because I had ruled out the possibility - pregnancy. Until I had other symptoms and took a test. The two dashes appeared immediately. Now my child is 4, alive and well. My story is very interesting, a lot of "miracles" happened after that ... But that's all there is to it. In general, I told you briefly that I was like you and with the same fears ... But fate knows its job. Don't worry, you will have a child or children. You have nothing. And if you look at heredity - my mother gave birth to a dead baby (her first). There was no such thing with me. Just don't worry unnecessarily, I'm telling you, from personal experience!
it's like reading "Unborn Ivancho" - the same hollow watering can. a whole galaxy of fears will follow you for life, the only way to overcome them is knowledge.
H8 - great, thanks for the insults! H7 - thank you sincerely! I calmed down a bit. To be alive and healthy - both you and your child! And thanks to the others for the answers ..... - from the author