I've been waiting for this moment for almost a year ... it was all just a dream. A dream that suddenly came true. It was like a real miracle. I always wanted to be with him and now we are finally together ... The problem is that we are quite different. I like him a lot, but he hardly finds anything in me ... something to attract or impress him. I do whatever he wants, I'm so naive and compliant. He knows I like him, but I don't know if he feels the same way. Sometimes I doubt it. For example, when we hug, he hurries to let me go; he keeps telling me he's busy and he won't go out. I'm afraid that if he really avoids me, it's my fault. I can't afford to lose him, simply because I'm not perfect myself or not what he wants. He can use me and play with me, or he can suggest, I don't know. I'm afraid of losing him ...; (
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Love by force does not happen! You adore him, yes, but if you make sure he doesn't feel anything for you, then he's just playing. You will be with him against his will there are people who are made for each other if you feel you are not for him or that he is not for you just leave him. I know that it hurts a lot and it will be difficult for you to experience it, but in life it is so! Tell us from time to time about the situation between you so we will get an even bigger idea!
I had not the same, but the same case ... The boys are just like that, they can't express their feelings ... and I'm tired of his attitude towards me, although I put up with it for a long time. We went for two whole years. We went out when he felt like it, very rarely. I thought I loved him, I was obsessed with him until I realized I couldn't keep torturing him. Yes, to torment myself, because I suffered a lot from the fact that he could not show me his feelings ... And after 2 years of compromises we broke up and believe me so I'm much better ... Now we are just friends .... I wish you success, whatever you decide, but my advice is do not waste your time with him ....
The author: to separate, it happened exactly as I was afraid it would happen and as always everything was my fault. I lost the most precious thing I ever had, but I realize it only now, 4 months later as in the beginning when we left, I could not realize that such a thing is happening to me ... the most important thing is that I am not alone betrayed even more and once my dream came true it can come true a second time ... Believe in your dreams I will only say this :)