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I'm Afraid Of Myself ... I Became Antisocial!

By spurs01 July 20, 2020 10 answers Last updated July 20, 2020

Lately, I have become very antisocial, insecure, and irritable. I do not know what the reason is. What do I do all day? I watch movies, sleep a lot, eat and just sit at home (unless I have to do some work outside). Somehow I have the feeling that I avoid everyone on my own, but it's as if they avoid me. I don't think anyone cares how I'm doing right now and whether I'm alive. It wasn't like that before (in my opinion). I had friends with whom I could tell myself everything, but nothing is forever I guess. We were a group. I went into it first and then "added" my best friend. Before she joined the group, she was such a good girl. We had a lot of fun and I would bet we both relied a lot on each other. Now absolutely everyone has changed - they have become puffed muffins. And the saddest thing is that my girlfriend and I did not stop arguing about the smallest things. These "friends" of ours did not stop teasing us that we are not becoming best friends. I thought, "Yes, some other person's opinion will divide us," and I told her.

She seemed to think so. One day we quarreled very fiercely. We didn't take offense or anything, but the conversation itself was nasty. We ended up saying that our years of friendship were in vain. We got angry as always and I as I am - I can not be angry with anyone and I forgive a lot and decided to see you and get better. We seemed to be fine, everything was okay, and since then she has been arrogant and irritating. I didn't understand why, since I was a good girl. At one point, I just decided there was no point in poisoning my nerves with her. I stopped writing to her and we stopped going out. Now they are with the group, in the pictures there is that "we love each other" and a similar topic. They totally forgot me.


Since then, I have found it difficult to communicate with people. When I communicate with someone, it always happens that we do not understand something, do not explain correctly, quarrel, or maybe bore a person (this is how I feel). Even at home, the situation is like this - scandals 24/7. When I try to talk normally and kindly to my mother, she ignores me. And when we fight, she tells me that I didn't treat her like that ... "You can't notice that I'm like that if you ignore me." Maybe because our family has a bad trait, we argue and we have difficult characters. However, people have told me that they are fine in my company. I do not understand.


In general, this year is the maturity of my social life. I don't think I will continue like this. If I have to change what do you think is the problem and in whom? Any advice to give me if I am the problem and what to do about it ???

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diaamondd answered · July 20, 2020
You have grown up and understood life. This is normal and understands people don't care about you. Numbers man make child learns works watch family. People are bad and don't care about others.
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zacandstive answered · July 20, 2020
So am I. Don't be afraid. Go to a neurologist. It must be either panic or something. Go out in nature, read books. Do not stand on the computer that this deepens the problem. Look for kindred people to date. Otherwise, you will just get stuck.
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amerigosway answered · July 20, 2020
Many grandmothers-skinny children has told the people! You don't need such hypocrites, look, try to become friends with an elderly woman, especially if she lives alone, what are some things for you that are useless! Don't lick your wounds, figuratively speaking, look ahead, and not so old people are good company, try it, you don't lose anything!
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dirtypigslave31 answered · July 20, 2020
If she had said you were 15 to clarify everything.
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kimberlyreyes_ answered · July 20, 2020
Sometimes it's good to be alone. In general, I am always very careful and tactics, but your people get on your head. A few days ago my girlfriend called me sarcastically picking on me because she constantly has a habit of just coming home without calling. I don't always have the desire, the mood, it drastically changes my plan, it brought me back to the door. I told her and this led to stress and comments. I do not need this. The seemingly pleasant contact becomes a burden and has a negative effect on me. Why? Because she decided so.
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asiangirlandwhiteguy answered · July 20, 2020
Unfortunately, we have become very irritable, impatient connoisseurs who think they are always right. It's not just your family. A feature of the Balkan Bulgarian mentality is to argue, not to get into the position of the other, to gossip about everything they have told us. And so, after a supposedly carefree outing for coffee with friends, we feel emotionally drained, irritated and close in on our shell. Try not to think too much and not be affected by everything that people talk about. Try not to justify your actions and tilt the topics to brighter areas of life. When they talk hot and cold, do not get annoyed and do not oppose immediately. Communicating face to face in the age of the Internet is hellishly difficult.
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dazzaroberts1975 answered · July 21, 2020
It's called antisocial, not antisocial. (study just before you write nonsense) You're not antisocial, you just need new friends. (more normal if possible) Just don't push yourself to find them right away. Everything will be fine gradually. Most people are rubbish one way or another, I don't know what you expected from "your friends".
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sweetpussymilf02 answered · July 21, 2020
I understand you, I noticed that more and more people have this problem. I'm 28. So not until age. Go more, even just on a bench in front of the block. Watch positive things on your computer and avoid news and negative things as much as possible. Success! :)
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bombastickitty answered · July 21, 2020
I bet you're more than successful. Beautiful, both outside and in the soul. Everyone envies, don't be fooled! Why do you think your girlfriend is like that? He envies. If there is a chamber of boys that they like it is more than obvious that it is envied. When one cannot reach someone else's level, one begins to spit on him. If you have a boyfriend, eee, what else could it be? !! If your girlfriend "keeps" the company or you're there because of her and there are guys, who knows, she can set them against you. Don't trust anyone! No brother, no sister, they're all downstairs. But know, that there are those who care about you. Gather with them. There are not many. No one has many real friends, they are few, and many. 2-3, in rare cases more. get along with more people, make friends, but DON'T TRUST ANYONE.
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cherrysexx answered · July 22, 2020
This year is the same for me, family and friends. I read your point of view and I think if you think it doesn't make sense, it won't. Be yourself, do not be influenced by human opinion. I found comfort and inspiration in books and nature. If your family doesn't realize what you're going through, don't bother, I know it won't last long. So first build yourself as a person, and then see how far your friends have come.
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