Hello, I want to share with you my fear and if someone has been through the same - to calm me down or give some advice on how to deal with it. The story is as follows ... I have a friend of 7 months and I love him very much. I am sure that he feels the same towards me, but for about a month a fear arose in me ... that I would not lose him. I think that when I experience this, I really have serious feelings, but some time ago this fear was gone. And now ... now he is so strong that even 4-5 times it happens to me to dream how he falls in love with another girl, I dream that he has become indifferent to me, and I beg him to love me .. Or how we are in the trolley and his eyes remain in someone else's and he starts talking to me in front of me ... That night I dreamed, how through tears I begged him to stay with me, and he refused ...! Please tell me how to understand all this, dreams are born of my fear or are they a hint that we will soon part ... P.S. I'm 18, I know I might have more relationships like this, but I love him very much and I prefer to keep our relationship ... I don't care if he's with me or not.
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I had similar dreams with the girl we were IN LOVE with, she often told me how much she loved me and that she wouldn't look at anyone else .. And hop ... after a month or so (we were together for a year) and suddenly she wanted to break up I see that I'm already indifferent, she doesn't want us to see each other, she doesn't even want to write to each other ... and I realized that she has another one and she lied to me, and she was so in love with me and promised.
Your dreams come as a result of this fear. If you love him, understand that man cannot be possessed. Leave him free. Otherwise it won't be good ... he feels it ... sooner or later, he will feel it if he hasn't already. Don't obsess over him, don't be afraid that he will leave you. If you maintain and nurture such fears, it will eventually happen. I don't wish it on you, but if you want things to go well, you have to change that.
I'm not very experienced with relationships, but I can still give you some advice. Way 1: Don't take everything so seriously because it's just a dream! :) Way 2: If they bother you so much these dreams do so so as not to happen this way as in the dream .. Way 3: Talk to the boy. :) I know I didn't put a lot on you .. Good luck!
Here - http://sebepoznanie.com/psihologiq/tylkuvane/ and http://sebepoznanie.com/psihologiq/zagadka-synishta/ find out what dreams mean from here and don't worry so much, calm down, what makes you think, that you can lose it ?????
Watch Star Wars, mainly episodes II and III - it shows very well and clearly what the fear of losing someone (or something) leads to!
This is paranoia, it will pass, don't worry .. !!!
I'm 21, I also dreamed of such things, it obviously meant a lot to me, after a few months I left him because he didn't go between us at all ... he quarreled with me a lot and didn't make any compromises and the nurse told me that there was another and hop turned out to be true ....
This is an inner feeling that is not to be ignored. In my opinion, however, ... but there is an option to be a temporary confusion of hormones that makes you feel doomed .... Try to sift through what is true in this case.
You need to get this fear out of your head. So I ruined my relationship. I guess you're jealous. STOP. Think positive no matter how hard it is. And what is written will already happen.