Hello! I have been with a man for about 6-7 months. Everything is more than good, we get along perfectly, and for three months we have been spending every day together in his house and I only go home if I need some luggage. We have raised the issue of living together, but there are some side circumstances about his apartment that do not depend on him and will be resolved around New Year. Besides, I'm staying. At the end of September, my contract expires and in fact I either have to renew it or terminate it. I really want to live together from the beginning simply because I know this is the person for me and I can't imagine spending a night without him. So far, however, I have not raised the issue because I am worried about how I will be understood. This month, however, I no longer have a choice, but I am still postponing. Should I raise the issue at all and if so? -How? Or just to extend my contract and not create tension.
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Just extend the contract and wait for the natural course of events.
Just mention it to me more often: oh, I have to remember to extend my contract now. In his place, I would suggest that you come to me. If there is no reaction, prolong and wait for things to go naturally.