Hello. A 46-year-old woman writes to you. I have been divorced for many years. The children grew up and each went his own way. I also had relationships and cohabitation, but something is wrong with my relationship with the opposite sex. Two days ago, I broke off a one-year cohabitation with a man I had very strong feelings for, but ... I think I was meant to be alone. I was tired of him lying to me, insulting me to play a double life / me and the other / and I said "end". Now I ask myself the question "And now where did the girl grow up". I don't look bad, I have my job, but I miss friends, friends, company, even for coffee or a drink and a chat. I am immersed in my work, I work with the same people, going and returning from work I follow the same route. From work at home and back. I feel awful ALONE. I'm scared. I don't feel like coming home
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ohh :( I understand you very well. Despite my young age (26) I feel the same way. At the moment I see no way out of the situation. I am sure that everything depends on ourselves. I am working on the issue of looking at life from the bright side and I hope this brings me success. The more negatively we look at things, the more negative things will come into our lives. I hope we both get the happiness we deserve.
Which is the other? If she's his wife, what did you expect? Find a man who suits you. Don't be very demanding. Once he's human, everything else doesn't matter. There are no ideals. You're not perfect, are you? Believe me, even though I'm not perfect!
To N 2 - No, she's not his wife. He has no wife, he is divorced. And as for what I expected, I will tell you: I expected what we talked about, I expected him to fulfill what he promised, that we would live together without lies, without infidelity and a bunch of other things.
I'm number 2: Beat this jester. What is it that allows himself to behave like that with you? Get rid of it! Have you not found life on the road?
I'm also 46 and I feel like you only I don't have children. If you want, give me an email so we can talk.
I'm still divorced, but I wouldn't live with a man anymore. I don't think that there will be someone at this age / 39 / with whom we can fit in and present it to our children and live happily as in fairy tales. I have focused on non-committal relationships and I feel perfect. Anyway, I manage in life on my own. If you can handle all the other things yourself, you just need a man for pleasant experiences. It sounds rough, but it's true. Call old friends or make new contacts and things will work out.
The author to N 5 and all others who want to write to me, my email is: [email protected]