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I'm Alone And I'm Looking For You!

By cassinelli October 02, 2020 19 answers Last updated October 02, 2020

I can't tie the knot. Why am I alone I have an apartment. I maintain it myself - clean, cozy, warm, I just don't have a car. But I can't find a woman with whom to shake hands and whatever is written for us in the future. What do I miss? I don't know - I hope to find her. Is it somewhere?

Answers 19

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dvo_anzoategui answered · October 02, 2020

   And I'm looking for an answer to that question! A few days ago I read on this site the story of a 16-year-old gay man who, in addition to making oral love, was dating a girl! Apparently everything in this country is perverted! Some of my acquaintances do not work, they have boyfriends who, unlike them, work, and at the same time they go and break them, in fact, most of my acquaintances do. I don't know how their girlfriends tolerate them. And when I go to talk to a woman, they either bite me or have no desire to talk at all! There is no logic!

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milantbm answered · October 02, 2020

   What are you telling me? Women have become so that they seek only the material. I'm 19 years old and I'm going to take down a 17-year-old girl, having a drink at the disco, and she asks me what kind of car I have. Emmy, what are we talking about? I'm just amazed. Can there be so many materialistic people. Not to mention that every day I see my colleagues walking with 15-20 years older men - with a lot of money and nice cars, and they have a young lover, just for sex. What else can I say? It so happened that at the age of 19, I found myself in a world where I saw that money was the most important thing. I can't, I still think that somewhere I will meet my partner, with whom we will build some family values ​​that I am used to in my family.

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carol_allen answered · October 02, 2020

   I have a girlfriend who I thought was very vulnerable and good. We shared everything - about the problems, especially. He told me two months ago that he had a friend who was divorced. And she is married. I also wished everything good in the new relationship. However, it turned out that her new relationship was with a friend, and intimate. I'm shocked! Everything is degenerate! Are they all the opposite already?

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blacknikes answered · October 02, 2020

   Not only you have such a problem, alas! Read "Where are you?" in category "Family" ...

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valerymaxy answered · October 02, 2020

   For this one piece of advice from me, when you meet the man of your life, don't ask too many questions, women's past is like a lot - the more you dig in the car, the more it stinks (I apologize to the one who was offended).

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inkedupdoll0712 answered · October 02, 2020

   Yes, there are such people. Many such people. But there are others. When we begin to accept people as they are, without judging them, no matter what they are, whether we agree with their way of life and whether we approve of it, we will live much better. Everyone makes their choice. The fact that a person is superficial, looks only at the money, judges the things on the package - he hurts and devalues ​​himself much more than the people around him. Don't let such people poison you by paying attention to them.

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lovesexdreams answered · October 03, 2020

   But who do you think you went to judge? Why don't each of you think about what it is? Are you normal? The fact that most of you can't admit what they like and what they want is your problem! Why are you like I can't understand? From where to where will you determine what is right and what is wrong? This is because most people are horses with caps, and because they do not do what they feel from within, but comply with social laws created by themselves, they are unfortunates who do not know why they live! Think about it and then judge! You, how many men / women have you slept with, how many times have you intrigued someone, how many times have you hated yourself for not being able to do what you want to rise in a fictional society. SEE YOU FIRST, SEE YOUR THOUSANDS OF DEFICIENCIES, and then finally realize,

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assico answered · October 03, 2020

   Well, I personally do not have this problem! So far, since I had a friend, I haven't harassed him for almost anything. We travel with the city transport and at most I get ice cream or beer, nothing more!

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hornyantony answered · October 04, 2020

   If I am so narrow-minded and limited, please explain to me, one day when you have a son back, how you will accept him. How do you accept that in Bulgaria such creatures as Azis and the like are shown more and more on TV and magazines, whether your son will determine for himself what he likes or they will beat him in the fragile brain that he has to do what he wants like the others. No, some restrictions have a higher purpose, upbringing and culture. So I think it's appropriate to ask you what do you live for?

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mintsungrace answered · October 04, 2020

   My son or daughter will one day, God forbid, be raised by me, not by television, because as far as I can see and know, the upbringing comes from the parents! And if he is the opposite, I will accept him because he is my child, because I will love him as he is, because I will want him to be happy and to feel loved and also to know that he can count on the most sacred thing - the family. and especially to his mother. I don't mind Azis, I even like him because he does something different, and scandalizes people like you / to clarify, I don't listen to chalga / I can't understand why Azis bothers you, and the Camel who cleans the snow naked .... .with the phrase "Here is this fucking I was waiting for" - no, and in the most watched time ?! How will you explain this to your child, maybe you will answer the question: "mom / dad, why is this aunt in her pants" with "well, that's how the snow clears" ?! Maybe the naked ..... Emilia's all summer is better than Azis's photos? I don't know why you were so offended, obviously because it's true! The herd does not accept the different and rejects them. And why do I live? Well, I live so that I am not from this flock, a flock of people who have no opinion of their own and are like sheep - where the first one goes, that is where everyone else goes! I live to make someone happy, and for myself, I live to be free, I DO NOT LIVE FOR THE HERD, nor for his opinion! I think the most important thing is to be happy the way you are, not the way you 'HAVE' and unhappy all your life! Well, think about it, if everyone is like you - such 'super perfect' with the same orientations, the same thinking, the same clothes, the same lifestyle, the same car, the same name, etc. etc. What will be nice and interesting? Well sorry but for me you are not only you, but everyone else, a narrow-minded person who is afraid of being different is scary, for whom the most important thing is 'what people will say' and 'the worst' - what the neighbors will think '! And yet I do not judge anyone, especially you, because everyone has the right to choose and no one has the right to judge him for it! I remember that my grandmother once told me that a person can learn a lot from the silent and the stupid and the reckless, think about it because it is so! I think it's time to shake off this mentality! LET'S LOVE EACH OTHER, LET'S BE DIFFERENT! especially you, because everyone has the right to choose and no one has the right to judge him for it! I remember that my grandmother once told me that a person can learn a lot from the silent and the stupid and the reckless, think about it because it is so! I think it's time to shake off this mentality! LET'S LOVE EACH OTHER, LET'S BE DIFFERENT! especially you, because everyone has the right to choose and no one has the right to judge him for it! I remember that my grandmother once told me that a person can learn a lot from the silent and the stupid and the reckless, think about it because it is so! I think it's time to shake off this mentality! LET'S LOVE EACH OTHER, LET'S BE DIFFERENT!

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sarah__marlow__ answered · October 05, 2020

   Long exposure to your views is not necessary to convince someone of your rights. But because I'm not so old and stubborn and I do not argue just to persuade, I will admit that I like the way you think. There are only some omissions that escape you. It is true that parents bring up, but up to what age - up to 7,10,12, and then hop puberty, I guess you have already passed it, you know - self-criticism and sick ambitions and a lot of nonsense are spinning in the head of a teenager. I don't see what you like in Azis, let it be what it wants just not to show up, this is what I am against and very much. And Camelia must be his friend, so you better not oppose them. NO! ON THE CHALGA, but there is no way for the sheep you are talking about, the chalga is a part of being, these are the sheep you are talking about, not me. You don't know me, I live like very few people in BG, I'm not offended, but I'm having a pointless argument, that's it. Rather, it will be interesting for me to tell you how you differentiate yourself from sheep and what you do differently? How do you dress, what music do you listen to? You will see that you are no different and like you there is a LOT. As for the person in the society, I like the maxim "don't bother me so that I don't bother you", but unfortunately in BG it says "I will bother you, and you will be fine". Ok, let's love each other, but please, whoever interferes with something different, better not manifest his personality.

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pr1nc3z answered · October 06, 2020

   OF COURSE, THERE IS. DON'T WORRY, BUT IF YOU ARE NOT WAITING ANYMORE, YOU NEED TO EXPAND YOUR CONTACTS. I DON'T KNOW YOU, BUT IT SEEMS TO ME THAT YOU ARE A NORMAL PERSON. STILL SUCCESS !!!

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geekdolls answered · October 06, 2020

   I'm sorry you misunderstood me, I don't want to convince anyone of something, especially since I'm not sure about it! For my long exposure .. due to the fact that when I write I get carried away and do not notice how a novel happens :)! Anyway, to be honest, I personally have reached puberty without much parental control, it's about bans and punishments - my parents are the most intelligent and broad-minded people I know! I've seen a lot of things, and I'm young, I didn't want to see them, but they taught me and now they help me! And let me tell you, as I see it, I haven't failed, I even think I've outgrown a lot of people my age! The bottom line is that a person is what he is, whether Azis shows up, and yet he doesn't shout 'get back'! Man is either the opposite or not, a poster cannot make him become one, and one child aged 12-13. you should just think! This sounds to me like the topic of drugs - someone had shoved a drug in his child's mouth and the poor thing took that he became a drug addict..hahaha SHEEP! ... I'm sorry I missed it :). I don't know when I watch and listen, maybe only Bulgarians are such people, some envious, some disinterested, some nasty people! Just don't get me wrong - I love my homeland and I love Bulgarian, it just irritates my mentality! I'm different in my thinking about life, and that's enough for me! To have people who think more or less like me, but they are also different, there is even an author who is great for me, because he writes exactly about this: "that a person should live the way he likes, and does he him, so he is happy, and if he is happy, he will not hurt anyone, yes, he will bother someone, precisely because he is happy, but obviously this is life ..

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naughtyanallovingchris answered · October 06, 2020

   As I look, I think we came to an opinion, because I agree with the above, I'm just wondering if I should offer you to meet :) This is good, it shows that people can still understand each other. I also believe that the experience of youth then helps, not the other way around. This seems to have something to do with the drugs you're talking about (I agree again), but let's not go into details. Just did not understand the name of the author and his work?

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hotcuteboy1712 answered · October 07, 2020

   I haven't written for a long time, you ask me what the work is and who the author is ..... it's been a long time, but this is the truth we live in and unfortunately we don't realize how equal we are and how our life goes in performing more. the things listed below and notice how real they are, and how we live with them without thinking. Just to clarify that the word 'Zahir' translated from Arabic translates as something that slowly and unconsciously takes over your thoughts and you can not think of anything else. 'Almighty Zahir seems to be born with every human being and reaches the heyday of his power during his childhood, imposing his rules, which from now on must always be observed. People who are different from others are dangerous, they belong to another tribe, they want to take over our lands and our wives. We have to get married, have children, to continue the human race. Love is small, as long as we love only one person, and, notice, any attempt to claim that there is room in the human heart for another must be condemned. When we get married, we get permission to own the body and soul of the other. We don't like our job, but we have to do it because we are part of an organized society and if everyone starts doing what they like, the world will not move forward. We have to buy jewelry - through them we identify with our tribe, just as people with piercings identify with another tribe. We must be witty and ironic about people who show their feelings - it is dangerous for the tribe to allow its members to express what they feel. We should say 'no' as rarely as possible, as the fashion magazine tells us, to have sex willingly or unwillingly, to kill in the name of borders, to want time to pass quickly to retire, to choose politicians, to be dissatisfied with the cost of living, to change our hair, to rebuke those who are different, to go to church every Sunday or every Saturday or every Friday, depending on our religion; and in the church to pray for the forgiveness of our sins, to be filled with pride because we know the true faith, and to despise the other tribe that worships a false god. Our children must follow in our footsteps, after all we are older and we know the world. You must have a university degree, even though you will never be able to find a job in the field you have been asked to choose. You have to learn things which you will never need, but which someone has decided is important to know: algebra, trigonometry, Hammurabi's laws. You should never make your parents sad, even if it means giving up everything that makes you happy. You have to listen to music quietly, speak softly, cry secretly, because I am the almighty Zahir, the one who dictates the rules of the game, determines the distance between the rails, the path to success, the way to love, the significance of the prizes. " 'ZAHIR' This time I was already brazenly extravagant, which I apologize for, but I think this thing should be read by more people! even if it means giving up everything that makes you happy. You have to listen to music quietly, speak softly, cry secretly, because I am the almighty Zahir, the one who dictates the rules of the game, determines the distance between the rails, the path to success, the way to love, the significance of the prizes. " 'ZAHIR' This time I was already insolently extravagant, for which I apologize, but I think this thing should be read by more people! even if it means giving up everything that makes you happy. You have to listen to music quietly, speak softly, cry secretly, because I am the almighty Zahir, the one who dictates the rules of the game, determines the distance between the rails, the path to success, the way to love, the significance of the prizes. " 'ZAHIR' This time I was already brazenly extravagant, which I apologize for, but I think this thing should be read by more people!

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SelinSwan answered · October 07, 2020

   There is no need to apologize. Indeed, even if one does not intercept or change one, these lines are valuable for self-determination. Which proves how complex the relationship between people is, how there are still so many different people, and society to go in one direction. Proof is this site, where opinions are intertwined and unanimity is rare. P.K. it must be Paolo Coelho, these considerations are in his style: extremely simple (ingenious), but after The Alchemist (very commercially) I have not read anything else, I will correct this omission. But the following question arises: What does a person do who, despite his disagreement with generally accepted dogmas, wants to be full in society, to lead a (normal) social life? Find friends like him? there are hardly so many. To shut yourself in your own world? I do not think; To give up everything what you wrote above makes no sense; Then what? He goes to the countryside, looks after animals and lives fruitfully and fruitfully. I personally am still looking for balance.

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carininio answered · October 07, 2020

   "Man eats to live, but he does not live to eat." If by eating we liken all those joys that life brings us. According to the proverb, we do not live to enjoy life, then what we live for is the question. I think that man, no matter how perfect he is compared to other animal species, is still an animal and his goal is not higher than that of any being, namely: 1. Survival of the individual in order to fulfill point 2. 2. Survival of its biological species. Since there are currently over 6 billion people on earth, there is therefore no threat of extinction due to negative population growth, so the survival of the human race does not depend on a particular individual unless they have access to mass annihilation, which few have. Ergo for man at the moment as a biological species law 1. and 2. are dropped. Which means that life has no meaning or in other words each of us is on a sinking ship that sinks for a time 1 human life according to depends on the ship. So will you play like the musicians from the Titanic when the ship sinks or will you roar like the stuck from the 3rd class. The conclusion is that there is one water for all or in particular a plot of 2x2m. No one will notice if you are or are not alive or if the notice will be as they say "every miracle in three days" selavi. Therefore, the conclusion is the following do not feel obliged to follow the canons of society more than necessary for your survival and spend all the rest of your time playing it so as not to think about the meaninglessness of life! M18 that life has no meaning or in other words each of us is on a sinking ship that sinks for a time 1 human life according to depends on the ship. So will you play like the musicians from the Titanic when the ship sinks or will you roar like the trapped 3rd graders. The conclusion is that there is one water for all or in particular a plot of 2x2m. No one will notice if you are or are not alive or if the notice will be as they say "every miracle in three days" selavi. Therefore, the conclusion is the following do not feel obliged to follow the canons of society more than necessary for your survival and spend the rest of your time playing it so as not to think about the meaninglessness of life! M18 that life has no meaning or in other words each of us is on a sinking ship that sinks for a time 1 human life according to depends on the ship. So will you play like the musicians from the Titanic when the ship sinks or will you roar like the stuck from the 3rd class. The conclusion is that there is one water for all or in particular a plot of 2x2m. No one will notice if you are or are not alive or if the notice will be as they say "every miracle in three days" selavi. Therefore, the conclusion is the following do not feel obliged to follow the canons of society more than necessary for your survival and spend all the rest of your time playing it so as not to think about the meaninglessness of life! M18 The conclusion is that there is one water for all or in particular a plot of 2x2m. No one will notice if you are or are not alive or if the notice will be as they say "every miracle in three days" selavi. Therefore, the conclusion is the following do not feel obliged to follow the canons of society more than necessary for your survival and spend all the rest of your time playing it so as not to think about the meaninglessness of life! M18 The conclusion is that there is one water for all or in particular a plot of 2x2m. No one will notice if you are or are not alive or if the notice will be as they say "every miracle in three days" selavi. Therefore, the conclusion is the following do not feel obliged to follow the canons of society more than necessary for your survival and spend the rest of your time playing it so as not to think about the meaninglessness of life! M18

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Lady_Rose answered · October 07, 2020

   I don't want to despair you, but nowadays everyone seems to be materialistic, be it men or women. But somewhere in the world you can still find the perfect partner !!! Let them love you and like you, don't brag to them that you have a home and what else you are there. Let him appreciate you as you are and with the little you have. Then by going deeper into your relationship you can share with how many properties, fields, cars, etc. you own.

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mariaangel_99 answered · October 07, 2020

   Calm down brother and I am alone at the age of 27 with broken love do not hesitate and find her! She is somewhere there and they are 4! Good luck!