I'm An Introvert.

   I'm more or less like you, but I'm more experienced and will allow myself to give you advice. The biggest mistake you can make is to oppose yourself and try to be who you are not. Just assume you're a turtle and you can't be a racehorse. And any attempt to be a horse will be a failure. Better accept that you are a turtle and take advantage of your turtle qualities. Today's society has laid down some stereotypes for us, according to which being an introvert is almost bad and you must become an extrovert. But society likes to frame everything and everyone, and we humans are not framed, everyone is different and his power is in something different. If you are an introvert, be an introvert and accept yourself as such. There is nothing wrong with this. Read Quiet: The Power of Introverts and you will understand how to reach your potential as an introvert. Introverts are better leaders and more committed to their ideas, their careers, their families, etc. Compared to extroverts, a higher percentage succeed. Bill Gates is an introvert, so is Barack Obama, Meryl Streep, Joan Rowling. There are professions in which introverts are insanely successful - such as writing, science and more. Find your calling and being an introvert will only benefit you, instead of trying to swim against the current and succeed where you don't have the strength. Introverts are calmer, do not react at the first sign, are rational, think, plan, are more organized, are more responsible, have a sense of detail, have a tendency to introspection, which helps them. Nowadays, the only downside to introverts is that from an early age they are taught how bad it is to be an introvert and they start going against their nature. to lie to themselves in an effort to be extroverts (supposedly better). But there is no good or bad here, there are just different people. We MUST be different in order to complement each other. If we could all just make bread, it would be pointless since there was no one to make flour. Precisely because we are different and have different roles in society, we complement each other.

   My husband is the same. He is wonderful with me, but he finds it difficult to let people in and this affects our social contacts. people think of him as strange, conceited, shaky ... It is difficult to live with such a person.

   Everyone is different, often people want you to be something you are not, I am also one of the silent people and I really hate when someone always wants to make you someone else, not everyone can be the same.

   Well, it's as if you described me. I really like such people, not only because we are similar, but also because I would get along better with such a person than with someone who is just looking to get drunk, go to a chalgoteka and be different every night. Don't worry, you're neither crazy nor weird, it's just that people nowadays perceive the different as something terrible, and if you don't fit into their company, it's as if you're not human. I like to be alone, I always say that I don't need anyone, because most of them are hypocrites and apart from nonsense, they don't talk about anything else. Most of them either consider me an outsider or think of me as very arrogant, which is not the case at all, I just don't like certain people and I prefer not to talk to them. You don't mention how old you are, but if you have the desire, you could always change your lifestyle at least a little bit, as long as you want to. I think that if you feel so good, you should not change it, especially because of the opinion of others. Don't worry, there are others like you. I am personally glad that I am not the only one and from what you have written, I understand that I have something in common with other people, which is good, especially nowadays.

   Dude, you're the perfect role model for a self-made person. Be sure that you will not have contact with a muffin that would ruin your life. Stay that way, a real and sensible woman will surely appreciate you. Don't blame yourself for anything, you're a serious person, that's you. And I run away from the slimy city life, where the complexes manifest themselves.

   Well, I'm the same, it's not just you.

   I think it's perfectly normal, do we have to find a problem?

   Emmy and I are like you, with the difference that I easily make acquaintances and I'm talkative, otherwise it's different like yours :) I listen to dynamic music and I love extreme experiences. From what I have written, I see that you are a person with values ​​and for sex and friendship 1: 1 I share your way of thinking. You are a normal person in our abnormal society :)

   I'm an introvert too. I am constantly alone, although I try hard not to be, but it is clearly not enough. I'm ignored, if I invite someone out, I feel like I'm some kind of annoying intruder and I'm going to apply Chinese torture to the other person. Even people I've let in don't want to go out with me, but prefer the company of someone they've known for weeks. I am constantly neglected and used because I am very good. I am a separate loyal and faithful friend, but these things have lost their value. Anyway, the important thing is that we are not bad people, we just are not like the others.

   You're interesting, I would definitely meet you if I had the chance.

   Daaam. It is painfully familiar to me. My friends get drunk, roll their butts on the chalga, and I sit inside us and ... Sometimes I thought if I should start like them? To go to discos, to drink, and maybe to smoke weed ... At least that's how I'll be able to find a boyfriend. I won't be ashamed of anything, but I can't, that's not how things are. I have principles and norms. I don't know anymore ... Boy 17

   I think we look awfully alike, which is rare. Except that I am more impulsive and when hypocrites and liars continue to harass me, I warn once, the second time I cut brutally and thus I ensure the absence of such individuals around me. But I am a lioness and it is natural for me to have a more fiery character. I like you.

   I'm an introvert too, but you just have to learn to appreciate the few people you've let in. It is :)

   You're a great dude. I would be very happy to meet you, because I am like you.

   I really liked what you wrote, mainly because while reading it I found myself in every line and every word (except the part with the musicality, I still play the piano: e). I don't think there's anything wrong with being like that. According to it, it is even far better. The boys in my class are the complete opposite of you, which is why I can't stand them. Extremely vicious, lying ... scoundrels. Be proud of the fact that you are such a person! :) F, 16

   Thanks for the positive comments, I am the author. Number 4 I will soon be 21 years old, and who want to meet - I'm pleasantly surprised, but I do not know on this site how it can happen.

   Well, I'm a 27-year-old woman and I'm like you. I'm just not like the others to constantly make any loans, I like to analyze like you, I like good movies and books, music, photography, painting. I don't like discos and other similar places for posing performances. I hate the banal, I hate the false, the hypocritical. I love peace and quiet, I really hate talking about everyday life - especially about food, politics, work, smartphones - it's just that I can not be an introvert :), but it does not weigh me down and I have no motivation to change this fact, maybe because I have no deficiencies of a material nature, and if you think more many women, and some men, this is exactly what motivates them, although they hide it well, even from themselves in some cases. Well, if someone shows up who can reassure me that they won't disturb my emotional comfort,

   To number 1: Where can I buy this book?

   Merry Christmas! An interesting topic! Let me tell you, it was as if I was an extrovert as a teenager - quite crazy, I lived for the party, alcohol, women, marijuana, new acquaintances and big companies, all sorts of things. But then I saw it and now I've become an introvert - I can tell you that I have a strong empathy for people and I'm a good-natured, believing person, but I often keep quiet among them and listen to them, think, laugh at jokes and feel them, but I very rarely get involved. I even feel serious discomfort when I feel that all eyes are on me. In general, the main factor that made me an introvert, in my opinion, is that I am too wise for my age, I just already have enough knowledge and experience on how to act and I do not need any advice. The events also made me like that - I watched the intrigues and the clowns talking behind my back, which only become for making the tables laugh, or the carpets, which do not cost 5 stotinki. I feel disgust and contempt for Facebook, which I cannot describe in words. Very often I look, listen and feel people and I am glad that I am what I am - a deep soul philosopher and intellectual. Because every day I feel the bestial ideals of this people - to fuck, to get drunk like a ram, to tell fat nonsense, to tune your car and to buy a new plasma or smartphone. To kill such individuals. I will never give up and I will not live like a mouse and become like them. I have proved it in my life that I do not give my ideals for anything, but I am getting closer to them. It's just that my words have lost their meaning, I rarely communicate with anyone at all. No one will listen to my advice. I feel the loneliest person in the world. But at times, when I feel God's grace in my life, this is true happiness. On the contrary, the moments of true hell - these are the moments of doubt and remorse - then you die alive. I prefer my inner dialogue and the pictures in my imagination to various other images that society pushes at me. People like me will never become bureaucrats. People like me can change the world if they believe in themselves enough. I wish success to all and be alive and healthy! if they believe in themselves enough. I wish success to all and be alive and healthy! if they believe in themselves enough. I wish success to all and be alive and healthy!

   18, It is available in all bookstores - Silent. The power of introverts in a world that does not shut up.

   The strangest thing is that only in sites like this you can find so many people like you :)

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   And I like the more homely type, I'm not a big company. But I don't think that only an introvert or extrovert gives you any guarantees. You need to consider what is good for you. It is bad to instill in yourself and strive for other people's dreams and to accuse yourself of not being like someone else.