I'm a girl who likes boys usually. When I pass tall, slender, handsome boys, I always look at them. I'm starting to imagine being with the boy I like, but it's always a short period. Rather, I perceive boys as support, friendship, as they will always keep you. But I have never suffered because of a boy, the strange thing is that I have suffered because of a girl. I recently met a girl, and I thought we might meet because I don't have many friends, and I'm more lonely. At first I thought we were friends and I don't know what happened to me, but something kept me chasing her. I didn't talk to her because I doubted that something strange was happening to my feelings and I was very ashamed ... Over time, I started to imagine her more and more, to get up and go to bed thinking about her, she became my only target. I don't know what was going on, but I realized that maybe I was in love - with a girl! It was awful, my thoughts didn't leave me alone, I did everything I could to stop this, but it didn't work. I fell in love with her even if we didn't talk once. I imagined kissing and hugging, nothing more. But when I think about sex with a girl and I don't feel very happy ... I wouldn't do it. My love for every principle is platonic - no sex, just kisses and hugs. But it's been a long and difficult year since I fell in love with a girl, now it's over, but no matter how much it hurts, because I haven't told anyone about my feelings, I still want to be in love, but with another girl. I don't know why this happens, I'm burning with desire to meet a girl who really loves me and I love her ... I know I would, but let people write here, who won't make fun of it because I'm going to cut my veins after all because I'm bisexual ? I'm ashamed of myself a lot, so I can't easily relax in female company, because I know what I am, but I wouldn't tell anyone. I'm not crazy, but many times I wanted to kiss a person of my gender, as if I was terribly curious. And it never occurred to me to tremble and my heart beat fast when I saw the boy I liked, but it happened to my girl every day. I would never press a girl to push us, but when I think about it, if they offer me, I would not refuse, as long as I like the girl, because I like blue-eyed people ... Has anyone been in such a situation? that's why I can't easily relax in female company, because I know what I am, but I wouldn't tell anyone. I'm not crazy, but many times I wanted to kiss a person of my gender, as if I was terribly curious. And it never occurred to me to tremble and my heart beat fast when I saw the boy I liked, but it happened to my girl every day. I would never press a girl to push us, but when I think about it, if they offer me, I would not refuse, as long as I like the girl, because I like blue-eyed people ... Has anyone been in such a situation? that's why I can't relax easily in female company, because I know what I am, but I wouldn't tell anyone. I'm not crazy, but many times I wanted to kiss a person of my gender, as if I was terribly curious. And it never occurred to me to tremble and my heart beat fast when I saw the boy I liked, but it happened to my girl every day. I would never press a girl to push us, but when I think about it, if they offer me, I would not refuse, as long as I like the girl, because I like blue-eyed people ... Has anyone been in such a situation? which I like, but it happened to my girl every day. I would never press a girl to push us, but when I think about it, if they offer me, I would not refuse, as long as I like the girl, because I like blue-eyed people ... Has anyone been in such a situation? which I like, but it happened to my girl every day. I would never press a girl to push us, but when I think about it, if they offer me, I would not refuse, as long as I like the girl, because I like blue-eyed people ... Has anyone been in such a situation?
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"And it never occurred to me to tremble and my heart beat fast when I saw the boy I liked, but it happened to my girl every day" ... Then why do you think you would? Or just for the consolation of the fact that you can't accept yourself as a lesbian ... You don't say how old you are, namely your age will show whether you are mistaken or it's about real feelings ...
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Tell me how old you are. In my opinion, everything depends on the psyche. If you start thinking you are, you really will be. There's nothing shameful about being that, but I don't think you are. It happened to me too, but for a moment I didn't think I would. I mean, I met a girl. With such longing I waited for every meeting with her, but I knew that I just felt so close to her and that's why I felt more special. Do not despair, but say how old you are! And head up! You should never be ashamed of who you are! Success!
Do not worry. I don't know if you would or just confused. When I was 15, I also liked a girl .. I fantasized about various things .. I never told her. Then I went out with boys, but I always looked at their boyfriends ... I never had sex with a woman, nor did I kiss, even though I wanted to. But I know I'm not either. I am more attracted to men ... Well, at least I haven't fantasized about sex scenes with a woman, but I'm with men .. To this day I still see women more often .. otherwise everyone thinks I'm a lover and a flirt. I'm braver with men ... I don't know.
What does "I would" mean? You are nothing, but you are looking for tenderness and love from another human being, which is completely normal, but unfortunately already a disappearing feeling. If you do not have sexual appetites for your gender, do not give in to it. Everyone is born to love and to be loved, this is normal. Do not succumb to the delusion that you have to have sex with a person of your gender - this is abnormal. Sex should not be confused with love - the real one, which springs from a person's heart (this is how it is set). We all had friends of the opposite sex with whom we felt wonderful and were inseparable (as sisters or brothers), we shared a bed and all sorts of joys and sorrows, but without any sexual attraction and abuse - just another human being who you can count on everything. Do not succumb to the curiosity to try unnatural things, but believe that when the time comes you will meet your true half of the opposite sex - and God forbid you understand the truth. One regrets mistakes made in one's youth, but if you have the will you can resist the "temptations" and follow the truth. In other words - if you are ashamed of these thoughts or actions - just do not do them and others will not approve.
Well, some women who really don't know what they want, it's no wonder they see it often. I ask why it should always be so complicated with women? When they offer you something, you either like it or not, why do you always say the opposite, both you want it and you say I don't want it and then "why". And as for pretending to be inaccessible and then wondering why he wasn't more persistent, I liked him, but he gave up very quickly, how do you know which one you are, where he cuts it and it suits a person. One will be right on the inaccessible, the second, the third, the fourth will be tied and that's it. Then you just won't say nonsense like "decent men are gone", and decent people are here and different peasants are here and everything is the same , but you do not give decent men a chance to prove themselves as such.
I'm 15, but I'm not a lesbian because I fell in love with a boy. But the same thing happened to me with a girl. And these strange feelings towards my gender appeared soon and I am very afraid of it ... I would never have sex with a woman, it does not attract me, it rather repulses me, but at the same time I am not against kisses and hugs.