I am 27 years old. I have been in a relationship for 5 years, our sex is great. Before that I slept with 3 people. And now, after years of seeing them, I'm so ashamed. They look awful and are simpletons. How smart I went with them .. Don't get me wrong - I'm not very confident, but over the years I think I developed like a normal girl. Now that I see what kind of people I've been in contact with in my teens, I'm ashamed of myself. My friend knows one of these 3, I slept with him when I was 17, but I'm so ashamed that I have no words. Now if you see it, it will disgust you. So far, my friend hasn't asked me how I know him. If he asks me, I'm ashamed to tell the truth. I hope he never understands. I am ashamed of my past in a sense, as you understand. I've been in environments where they weren't valuable people, and now I'm ashamed to even greet them :(
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Amy is somewhat normal. in their teens, everyone thinks that "everything that flies is eaten." Everyone has some such "cracks" and everyone has acquaintances who do not want to remember. Like you, I wonder what kind of mind I was with years ago and when I saw what jokes I went with (and I claimed to love them) it becomes funny and I feel like slapping myself: D
... and how effectively you played the "bison" and the nonsense ... Remember it and try to explain it to your children so that their lives are not filled with wrong decisions.
God help the girls to realize more quickly like you and to pay more attention to the guys, not to the jerks, the simpletons and so on :)
It's normal, and I have student performances at parties and here and there where I hope they will never be heard :-) There is a circle of people who know them, but as far as I know they have not left this circle. The "wake up to a crocodile" effect has had it, literally or figuratively. When you think about it, there is no other way, however, over time a person grows (in mind) and it is normal to think naive and stupid decisions that he made before. And don't forget one thing - the fact that one of your exes has failed now doesn't mean that he was like that when you were with him. I have acquaintances who, unfortunately, have degraded a lot over time, but were really valuable people before. So there can be many reasons to come to this result ...
He may be ashamed of it
I just don't understand. How does your friend know a person you've slept with, but you don't tell him that so he knows. OK for others you don't have to give explanations, but for a common acquaintance don't you think it's right to tell him. You can bring it to your guests for a beer tomorrow. How will he feel if your friend finds out after a while? You are selfish!
Extremely disgusting is contemptuous, put it in their place, if someone just laughs at you from the side that you have degraded and instead of giving you a hand, tramples you, provided that you had something more than a relationship with them - oh , or sorry, but you only slept with them for one night? If not, then THEY should be ashamed that they were with you;) nothing personal colleague, but think about it!
I absolutely agree with number 7.
Hahaha, don't worry, that's why you broke up with them. And I'm ashamed of some exes, people change over time, maybe then they were ok, but they are not, they are past, what do you care;) Experience is experience.
And number 1, don't tell me that everyone had such cracks. They have the simple, but not the SMART!