I'm ashamed to wear shorts and skirts. I am a 31 year old woman. I live in Sofia, where every day I miss beauties who do not have a part of themselves that they have not taken care of. I'm an ordinary woman, I don't go to the beautician, I don't go to the beach or the solarium, my skin is white. I'm afraid to show my legs, but at the same time my summer is getting so hot that I can barely stand it. I wear black jeans all year round. I can only afford summer open sandals. I have a barrier and I don't think it will look good on my bare feet at this age. I don't look good with a dress because I'm so weak and they look like gifts to me. I only like tight-fitting dresses, short ones, but I only accept them for a wedding, not for everyday life and to outline everything. I have like Eva Longoria's legs - they become narrower at the bottom of the ankle and I am not very tall - 165 cm. The difference with her figure is that mine is feminine, I have a normal female hip, but narrower shoulders, while she is wide and up. But she has beautiful skin and everything fits. My legs are squirrels because I never burn them. My face and hands are darker. Because I never wear anything other than black jeans, I don't know how to dress and I have no sense of fashion. What to wear in the summer? Give me advice.
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Cheer me up a little, your worries are completely unnecessary, but I can understand you and sometimes I don't feel confident. Your feet are white because you do not expose them to the sun. You can see for yourself, your face and hands get tanned, but you don't hide them. Wear skirts or dresses up to the knee or just above it. It's not vulgar or too naked. Summer is just such a season that sometimes the heat really doesn't allow you to wear jeans. I did it before, I had worries and did not show my legs at all, but I did not like sweating. Shorts may not look so good or you can't combine them for work, but dresses are perfectly acceptable for a 31-year-old woman in the summer. Another option is to get jeans with a length of 3/4. You will be both cooler and you will not be fully on display or feel uncomfortable. In my opinion, this is the solution. Avoid dark colors in summer because of the sun. As you described the structure of your body, it doesn't sound bad to me and you have no reason to worry.
Obviously, elegant clothes seem formal to you. Have you heard of an elegant style every day? There is a difference between a fitted dress made of jersey, straps / sleeves and the most simple seams and cut, and one made of satin, for example, with elegant seams or hidden seam, with very fine straps or some twisted sleeves and neckline. And the cut-out dresses in a more casual style are just crowded on the market. As for white skin, if you have any spots or bruises, then it may be naughty, otherwise there is nothing wrong with it. Something clicked on me this spring and I decided that I liked the creamy white skin more and it was going to be smeared with the 50th factor, as it could only leave a little bit on my legs. And when you start going out without being covered, like an Arab, you will have a tan in a few days. This year the sun is strong early and catches immediately.
Honey, this is a typical female trait, you invent flaws, and others want to be in your place ... There are many examples - blondes dye their hair black, brunettes burn their hair to become blond, women with straight hair curl it, women with curly - they stand up, the light ones wonder how to darken, the women with more tan want to be lighter and so on indefinitely ... It all comes from self-confidence, don't think that if Eva Longoria walks with her head bowed, sullen and complex will make such an impression, this applies to every woman. And what years they are chasing, not to be 80 ... 31 years is a wonderful age in which every woman can look attractive, as long as she has a little desire. One tip - very stylish sit lengths below the knee or around it, you do not need to walk barefoot, especially if you work in an office, you will look frivolous in such an environment, and there are requirements somewhere. Even with long pants you can be cool, depending on the fabric - a linen pants is an ideal solution for warm days. There are beautifully brighter colors on white skin, see which ones suit you and experiment boldly. And please - DO NOT go to the solarium, it is terribly harmful, be proud of your white skin! Many men die for snow-type women, with lighter skin, sitting gently and femininely. Love yourself, be confident and you will see how people will feel it. Even if you get a biting comment, it will be from an envious colleague, so you don't care :) You answer that you like yourself that way, period. If you write with what eyes and what hair you are, I can advise you about colors. Start appreciating yourself more, buy a new outfit, bet on a fresh color, work on gait,
You have to break, you're neither old nor anything. Experiment. There's nothing wrong with being thin, there are a lot of full girls who show off in shorts, and you're thin and don't want to show off your figure? Just go ahead, don't care and live your life. Believe me, many girls and women would envy you.
Good job - people go crazy with fitness and diets to have and be able to finally show what you have for granted, and our people are ashamed and do not know how. Well, the first step - replace black jeans with light and colorful skinny pants, where they are more adequate for summer. If you are ashamed to wear a short skirt or shorts directly, then start slowly - first with pants up to above the ankles, then 7/8 - they look super fresh, look good and no one will care that your legs are white! I don't understand how the dress options are either tight-fitting or fitted to you - there is such a variety of cuts and patterns that I can't believe that for a thin slender person, only one type of dress suits him. The dress can be on the body without being soaked - maybe you just haven't tried enough. Also, nothing prevents you from wearing knee-length skirts in the summer, that and longer, after you are ashamed to wear short. How can you tighten up in black jeans in the summer heat, isn't it unpleasant for them to touch your skin and sweat? You need to put your comfort first. And what does "at this age it will not suit me" mean - you are 31, you are a young woman and with the figure of a girl, you are not a grandmother.
even when you write, you should be ashamed, in my opinion ...
Yes, I have a problem for you. My mother is 49 years old and wears shorts, and we live in the center of Sofia. Do not set such barriers. You were only 29 recently. I have a bigger problem than yours. I am 20 and I have terribly thick thighs, thin ankles, weak arms and big shoulders. Half my body is like a weak one, half like Kim Kardashian's, but at your expense I have a tan by birth. My advice to you is to buy skirts above the knee and combine them with a platform sandal to become at least 170 high, but not too high platform. You can combine it with a short-sleeved shirt for a more stylish look or a silk blouse. If you decide to be more sporty, you can take shorts again above the knee, a tunic in black with some inscription or picture, and down you can with sandals or sneakers with holes that are summer. I personally combine this with summer platform boots. I advise you to go to the sularium from now on, because the ugliest thing is white bare feet. Like cheese. Sularium is super cheap, so it won't be a problem, depending on how white you are, they will tell you how often to walk. You have to become as dark as Eva Longoria you look like.
There are super comfortable, beautiful and thin summer overalls made of fine fabrics, as well as long pants, which make you feel naked and cool, but in fact do not show an inch of skin. And also long dresses and skirts - there are many current models just for summer. An option are the wedges, imitating denim or with different prints, which are very thin and comfortable for walking and everyday activities.
That your legs are white is great! I'm white as cheese and I'm proud of that! In the summer I run from the sun like the devil from incense and apply various lotions to avoid even a slight tan. You don't need any tan, you are of the best race, and you are ashamed of whiteness? !! Strange ... We have enough braziers, don't get up from them either. White is beautiful, not black, it is even disgusting and repulsive!
Just like for me! You go to the children's store and buy some very shorts. You pull a counter on your legs, get into your pants, and put on some sunglasses. In 30 minutes, take a look at how many men will drool when they see you. We've seen all sorts of legs. You have nothing to be ashamed of.