I came across this site by chance and I was provoked by the author who wrote about nasty men to answer with my story not only to her, but to everyone else, and hopefully someone will say something out of me, how to heal, how to is getting better. I don't believe it's possible, but who knows. I went to fortune tellers and psychologists - nothing helps! I hope one of you helps! And so I used to love a girl. I loved her so much that I didn't even tell her, ha, ha, it's funny, isn't it It was my first love. When I decided to tell her, I realized that abortion rules were different, in short - she turned out to be a whore. I couldn't love another one since then. I had never seen a woman before, but I was beautiful, an athlete, I played guitar, a good and modest boy, I graduated with honors and I would burst into tears in my eyes in one place because of this girl, my heart was broken with pain and sorrow and grief. Then a real poop (the first woman in my life when I was 22) told me that I was very good and well gifted! Right? And come now you women nasty dirty whores and garbage to see what I can .. And since then I have not stopped. I'm this nasty scumbag now, whore, womanizer, stripper, fucker, call me whatever you want and curse me as much as you want, where he sucks and fucks you nicely, lies to you, makes you fall in love and dumps you .. I couldn't another to love. I'm crippled. I went to psychologists, to fortune tellers - nothing helps. I want so much to give my love to someone else, and I can't. I still love only that beautiful and sunny girl - the whore. Ironically, I met her quite by accident! Married, happy with two children. I said everything, and she doesn't believe me, denies that she was ever bad and thinks I'm bothering her! She doesn't want me at all, and I have no right to ask her for anything - she is married and happy in her marriage. This is my unrequited love. I blame myself, of course, because I was the one who didn't fight for my love then. I had to tell her everything then, to accept her even if she was the lowest, even if she had children, and I ran away from her like the last mold without even telling her how much I love her. She may never have really been some kind of garbage, but apparently I was garbage even then, I have remained garbage to this day! Here is what I wanted to share here with you, so that my soul is at least a little relieved. And you women beware of me! Do you meet a married man, attractive, with a guitar, very educated, well dressed, with a very good profession and a very high income, well gifted and good in bed - run! I am this! I've been drinking a lot of grief lately .. I'm drunk and now he's fucking with tears in my eyes .. Curse me women and swear at me as much as you want! I'm not angry with you ..
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What an irony is life, you abandoned your love because she was a whore, and at the moment you have become worse than her - a whore and a half. You were supposed to be very indignant, but now you are the same, why? There was a saying - do not judge anyone and nothing because you will become what you condemn. Well, that's what happened to you. By the way, this way of life will not help you at all - just do not hurt yourself. Even then you had to either explain yourself to her or forget and find another decent girl. Now what's going on - she has a family, she doesn't care about you, and you're stuck in a meaningless life. Who is the loser in the case. Think about it and change until it's too late. Otherwise, it is clear to everyone that big women or whores have deep psychological problems and it kills them in this behavior.
Author, it made us cry, but I don't feel sorry for you - you're a weak person, but at least you pay for your own mistakes, but your wife - I don't believe she deserves someone like you. I just hope you don't have children. And not that? cheating and hurting you right makes you a monster, and the fact that you're with a woman you don't love and you've even married her, promising? to be with her in good and evil without thinking it. It's good that you met the girl. Think about it - if she was the woman the "benefactors" brought before you, would she be able to create a stable and happy family? Yes, you are a great fool and you are unfortunate because you do not know how to love unconditionally. You deserve your destiny. I just hope your wife is some kind of muffin-gold digger to suit you, but if she's a good and kind woman - woe? and hard? to love a monster like you, unable to love, to give joy and love. I don't think you've ever loved her otherwise, whoever loves him, he doesn't let human words stop him, you just haven't touched her and that ruins you. If you had received it, you would have hurt and destroyed it, as you did with the other women in your grayness.
Well done, you've wasted your life taking revenge on various chicks who have no idea. as I look, you have not become happier. and the commenters are right: just because a girl has an abortion doesn't mean she's a whore. you just believed some rumors without making sure you understood the truth. you fucked me yourself, no matter how good, successful, rich you are, as soon as it keeps you drinking from grief, you have failed in your personal life. to curse you, you suffer enough. if I can give you advice, it is: look at what you have - family, children, relatives and try to appreciate it. leave the past behind where it belongs. you can't bring him back, and you can't know what would have happened if he had talked to her then. she might not like you, she may not have feelings for you, and even if she did, it might not work out between you. does not matter, because you can't know that. focus on what you have, otherwise you may lose everything because of a stupid mistake from the past. especially with drinking be careful, you can sink very tightly. F41
Hi, I'm the girl of 19 from the other topic ... your story is very sad and although I haven't experienced anything like that, I would advise you to find strength in yourself and move on. Stop with these frivolous things, look around you, maybe your love is waiting for you there, very close ....
from the topics "I'm 19 and he wants a family" in "Love" and "There are bad parents" in "Family" .... I hope you find the love and peace you deserve !!!
Only the fact that he said at the beginning that you were a "good and humble boy" is something I can't agree with, because I haven't seen a modest sentence in history ... Otherwise there is a saying: He who lives in the past has no future.
It made me cry ... I hate men like you because you're WEAK. Life will bring us down, but we will choose whether to stand up or not, why didn't you stand up, why did you allow yourself to get here, people like you are only unfortunately. To hurt others, you play with their feelings, but here you come back, are you happy? I will give you the answer, even if you say 1000 times now that you are happy, you will only be deceived ... Those who loved you, who would do the impossible for you, are unhappy because you stabbed them in the back, but do you know YOU ARE UNHAPPY;) Go on if you want to ruin your miserable life, and I can only tell you one thing, I'M SORRY FOR YOU! Yes, my life has not been easy, I have been through a lot, but I do not blame it on others, I would never hurt someone innocent, because the wounds of my past have not yet healed. Others will forget you, will find the right person to EVALUATE THEM AND WILL LOVE THEM AGAIN, THEY WILL BE HAPPY AGAIN, AND YOU, YOU WILL REMAIN US THE UNHAPPY. You have money, a good profession, etc., but if you don't have money, if you don't have happiness, isn't that so ??? If I have to be honest on the one hand I feel sorry for you even when I read your story there were a few tears on my face and on the other hand I find it funny what is the point of hurting if you yourself are not happy. If I hurt you because of my past, how will you feel, pff, I don't even care to waste my time writing anymore ... And yet I hope you find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the broken ones. hearts how will it allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol ******* Others will forget you, will find the right person to EVALUATE THEM AND WILL LOVE THEM AGAIN, THEY WILL BE HAPPY AGAIN, AND YOU, YOU WILL REMAIN US THE UNHAPPY. You have money, a good profession, etc., but if you don't have money, if you don't have happiness, isn't that so ??? If I have to be honest on the one hand I feel sorry for you even when I read your story there were a few tears on my face and on the other hand I find it funny what is the point of hurting if you yourself are not happy. If I hurt you because of my past, how will you feel, pff, I don't even care to waste my time writing anymore ... And yet I hope you find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the broken ones. hearts how will it allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol ******* Others will forget you, they will find the right person to EVALUATE THEM AND THEY WILL LOVE AGAIN, THEY WILL BE HAPPY AGAIN, AND YOU, YOU WILL REMAIN THE US UNHAPPY. You have money, a good profession, etc., but if you don't have money, if you don't have happiness, isn't that so ??? If I have to be honest, on the one hand I feel sorry for you, even when I read your story, there were a few tears on my face, and on the other hand, it's funny to me, what's the point of hurting if you're not happy yourself. If I hurt you because of my past, how will you feel, pff, I don't even care to waste my time writing anymore ... And yet I hope you find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the broken ones. hearts how will it allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol ******* AND YOU, YOU WILL REMAIN US THE UNFORTUNATE. You have money, a good profession, etc., but if you don't have money, if you don't have happiness, isn't that so ??? If I have to be honest on the one hand I feel sorry for you even when I read your story there were a few tears on my face and on the other hand I find it funny what is the point of hurting if you yourself are not happy. If I hurt you because of my past, how will you feel, pff, I don't even care to waste my time writing anymore ... And yet I hope you find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the broken ones. hearts how will it allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol ******* AND YOU, YOU WILL REMAIN US THE UNFORTUNATE. You have money, a good profession, etc., but if you don't have money, if you don't have happiness, isn't that so ??? If I have to be honest on the one hand I feel sorry for you even when I read your story there were a few tears on my face and on the other hand I find it funny what is the point of hurting if you yourself are not happy. If I hurt you because of my past, how will you feel, pff, I don't even care to waste my time writing anymore ... And yet I hope you find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the broken ones. hearts how will it allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol ******* but you have * and the money, as there is no happiness, ISN'T THAT ??? If I have to be honest on the one hand I feel sorry for you even when I read your story there were a few tears on my face and on the other hand I find it funny what is the point of hurting if you yourself are not happy. If I hurt you because of my past, how will you feel, pff, I don't even care to waste my time writing anymore ... And yet I hope you find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the broken ones. hearts how will it allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol ******* but you have * and the money, as there is no happiness, ISN'T THAT ??? If I have to be honest on the one hand I feel sorry for you even when I read your story there were a few tears on my face and on the other hand I find it funny what is the point of hurting if you yourself are not happy. If I hurt you because of my past, how will you feel, pff, I don't even care to waste my time writing anymore ... And yet I hope you find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the broken ones. hearts how will it allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol ******* And yet, I hope you will find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the hearts you have broken, how it will allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol ******* And yet, I hope you will find happiness one day, even though I don't know your guilty conscience because of the hearts you have broken, how it will allow you to do it ... You deserve to be alone !!! Carol *******
Don't worry, you're just playing your part in the lives of the women you meet. There must be bastards like you so that decent men can appreciate it. About the words whore and whore - you use them a lot. And it is possible, not on purpose. Nobody knows if this girl was a whore or if it was just in your head. Or, as someone said, well-wishers did not envy you. Having abortions doesn't make her a whore. You think very simply. Just because you knock left and right doesn't necessarily mean you're a whore. Maybe he subconsciously punishes women. Concerning that you are married, as long as you have judged him, writing colleagues ... I know many women who have got married so that there is someone to take care of them, so that they do not have financial problems, or because they want to have a home and children. . It's the same, albeit with other dimensions, but in both cases it's unfair, regardless of the motives. I wonder why you wrote here? What do you expect us to tell you? I have the feeling that you enjoy what you are. And you blame some mirage for that. I wish your wife to see from a deep sleep, if she has not already seen, and to find a nice man with whom to spend her days here.
Author, except that you are great (or only you think so), you do not mention anything about your happy marriage and your happy wife, then your idyll would be complete :) And if you overdo it with alcohol in the morning you should smell like a barrel. Do you date drugged women?
The author's story is quite common. For me, things developed in a similar way. I come from a poor family and in my teenage years money was a nook, I didn't have money for cool clothes, cafes, discos, etc. Not that I didn't go, but I could rarely afford it without relaxing at all. There was no question of cars and vacations. When I was a student I worked, but everything I earned went to study and I still had no money for almost anything. In this regard, you probably remember that I did not have many girlfriends at that time, except for one or two short-term relationships and I was not interesting to women. And I was so naive in the beginning, I thought that infidelity and sex for money are only in the movies. I dreamed of having a girlfriend with whom we could love each other a lot and always be together, from school and so on until the end. However, this friend still did not come, I got up at 16, 18, 20, etc., and I continued to stand alone. I was neither ugly nor stupid, nor did I behave vulgarly. So time passed, I finished my higher education and started working in my specialty. At first, of course, my position and salary were nothing, and accordingly my old way of life was almost preserved. Gradually, however, I got up, changed jobs and started making very good money. Naturally, the women around me felt this and from being completely uninterested, I became extremely sought after and attractive. I had a lot of fun, but at the same time I was disgusted. It even got to the point that one of my few ex-girlfriends, who had dumped me years ago because I didn't have a car and money, almost fell to her knees to return to her. At one point I got tired of all this mercantile rubbish and I, as the author, decided to have fun, as it should be. I stopped waiting for the princess and started walking around whores. I'm 29 now, I don't have any plans for a family anymore, because I've seen women lying to their husbands in the meanest way, I've seen greedy bitches and all sorts of other rubbish. I agree that not everyone is like that and I do not want to give general assessments. However, I obviously still come across such people. The thrill of love almost disappeared in me. I soon met a girl by chance, in fact maybe a whole year has passed since then, she is pretty, she looks very decent, smart, kind and everything else. However, I don't care anymore, if I had met her a few years ago, my stomach would have turned a hundred times that evening. I don't care now and I have no desire to meet,
The author's story is a complete fantasy ... Or the wife in question writes "if you meet someone, beware" so that the "precious" man doesn't bite her .. Dumb :(
I do not know what to tell you. You don't need fortune tellers and psychologists, you have analyzed yourself. You understand where everything comes from, from that first love. To tell you that you are to blame, you know that, to tell you that it doesn't make sense and you know that. What you don't know is that you are weak. No psychoanalyst will help you if you do not want to help yourself. You asked for advice, I will give it to you. For a start, stop drinking. For a day, two, a week. Go somewhere on vacation alone. On a piece of paper, write what you like and what you don't like about yourself. Increase the positive qualities and decrease the negative ones every day. This will take a long time, but you have to fight it if you want to change. Magicians
You are bad, but not with women, but with yourself. I've been through something like you and I have to tell you that the more indiscriminate sex I had, the more I sank into depression and thoughts. Because those where you fuck them (with an apology) one day pass by and meet someone, and you are left alone. You are to blame for this and only you will suffer from it.
.... honestly, this with your unrequited love seems to me quite exaggerated or rather as an excuse for the behavior you have towards women who allow it, of course ... the man must have the self-confidence that you have, but don't teach me who to beware of .... do you think that all women want you .... it's not serious .... and this with oaths and swearing amazed me .... abe man with what women you communicate .. .. and then you used them .... I'm not convinced .... ZARA
I burst out laughing as I read this finger-sucked stupidity! If by chance it is true, you are sooooooo bad :))
12, don't waste your chance that in a year or two you will write here how you missed your great love. Unexperienced things weigh a lot. I have said it many times and I will not stop telling it to people like you with stories like this. You know the girl is valuable, you like her ... well try it, you don't lose anything. Nobody says you have to go in and reveal yourself completely. Feel the soil, see if it's really worth it and act!
What I see is that men have a much harder time surviving the loss, even though they are supposed to be the "stronger sex." I am currently 32 years old, a few years ago I ended a relationship that was one of those over-emotional, but without a chance to develop for a number of reasons. Now I sometimes meet this man and he has also become a geek and I know he blames me for it. As a person looks back, he misses many good things that are in front of him. To the author: Everything has an explanation, even the behavior of that woman at that moment. Just life, that's it. People come and go. Everyone leaves a mark on our lives, good or bad. You did it yourself, but it's not a reason to castrate the people around you. You neither want nor need it. Obviously, if you realize, judging by what I read. It probably won't be easy for you to get excited that way, even impossible, but if you don't give yourself a chance, it can't happen. Have a nice day and good luck!
I will not judge you, I will only express my regret to you. I wish you to find love or at least to be able to unlock your heart to another woman. Believe it or not, not everyone is a whore and so on. The only thing I ask you for is not to spoil other people. You're broken, that's the truth. I'm broken too. Nearly a year ago, I was with a man like you. He had such love, the strong chick that dumped him and he indulged in fucking and nothing serious. And I loved him. 6 months later I still love him, even though I ended everything between us. But his grief, his refusal to see that life goes on, that I was there next to him with him hurt me. Having sex was the coolest sex in the world that I would probably dream of even after I got married, but I didn't have a soul for it. And I offer mine. And so I live damaged now, because everyone I meet, I went out to drink beer or I'm just talking and thinking about him - let's say X. And he, like you - only told me about his ex and how all women are blood. But I still love it. I have a friend now, but it's not the same. The boy loves me and I'm hurt and I don't feel anything. All I want now is to forget it sooner. Please don't hurt other people, they don't deserve it anyway!