I am 21 and I have a girlfriend with whom we have a particularly complicated relationship. We have been together with her for several months now. If we are together, it is not because I want him, but because she likes me very much, you can even say that she loves me. I feel that I offered her. I don't want to disappoint her, I'm my first love, and I've had so many others. Our relationship is based on respect and a desire for both of us not to be alone. We had been together for several months when she decided to introduce me to one of her high school classmates. She said she wasn't very close to her, but she was a great chick and an artistic person with many hobbies. When I first saw her friend, the world turned around. She was phenomenally beautiful — possessing grace and sophistication in her perfect being.
She looked like a beautiful Colombian - beautiful dark straight hair, matte skin, black eyes ... It struck me that she is truly amazing, a law student, helps in an office and has dozens of hobbies. After our meeting I found her on Skype and decided to write to her. She is really nice, I have never met a girl of such a class. I suggested we go out as friends, she accepted. The spark ignited stunningly fast as my relationship with my girlfriend continued to deteriorate. She told me she felt bad and for good reason. The first time we had sex was great — so tender. I had never felt anything like this before. She is constantly suffering from a guilty conscience and wants me to end my relationship with my boyfriend. He wants you to know that she's more straightforward than I am, and I'm actually the bastard. I've been cheating on my girlfriend with sex for two months. Advise me what to do. To stay with my girlfriend
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You better break up with your girlfriend because the more you are with her, the more she becomes attached to you, the better and say that your feelings have faded and there is no point in continuing. If you don't like her, there's no point in being with her.
Your confession is not titled correctly. It was supposed to be something like, "I'm dating a beautiful girl who turns my head, but I keep fucking one of the many I've been dating."
You acted like a complete squirrel and you are really unhappy ... You better leave the good girl you've been messing with for two months and go to the one - the "straight line"! Tony
Break up with your girlfriend because you don't love her and there's no point in being together! You better stay with the girl you're really in love with!
You are not cheating with sex, but with feelings definitely from what I read you are in love with the "Colombian". There is something else - the world revolves around selfishness - why not do what you like to make something happen that someone else likes, but not you - there is no logic :)
If you want to be unhappy, don't break. You know the answer yourself, it seems, but you just need someone to tell you. Well, I'm telling you. Unable to communicate by any party. Besides, sooner or later things become clear. As much as she loves you, your current girlfriend will realize that she can't be with you. You just have to move things on your own earlier, that's it.
Well, I don't understand that. In general, number 1 says briefly what I think. When you don't like your girlfriend, leave her the best, it's nonsense that you worry about her, that she will suffer, etc. Yes, she will grieve for a month and then she will realize that the world is full of quality men, who will value and respect her, instead of lying to her as you do. I understand that it can happen to anyone to fall for someone, but it is very immature to cheat on the person next to you, and to make excuses for which you do not break this relationship. As for the other girl, I don't see anything straightforward in doing such things behind a friend's back, which leads me to think that you and her are for each other and that you know very well the answer to the question you are asking us. Let the girl be happy without you, and hopefully if you stay with the one you're crazy about now, one day not to replace it with some even more '' phenomenally beautiful-possessing grace and sophistication in your perfect being. ''
Of course, you have to become a boyfriend "with the girl you're crazy about", but don't show this dependence on her very openly .... ZARA 36
Are you all such scoundrels? I can't understand .. break up with the girl or stop dealing with the other .....
Let me tell you, what you have written here is not much to share ... I guess you will be criticized a lot. And as far as the advice I'm going to give you is not to lie to the poor girl, but to tell her the truth ... better that way. Or at least tell her in a more tactful way, which can't happen because what you did is ugly and unreasonable and very mean. Just don't lie to her anymore !!!