Hello! I think that everyone should decide for themselves what to do with their lives and make responsible decisions. Lately I have a lot of torment on an issue that I plan to share with you and hear other opinions ... because I am very confused ... About a year ago I had a big disappointment in love. I found it very difficult to overcome, sometimes I even feel sick when I remember ... It's just very difficult for me to say "fuck it" and move on, and I always go back in time. Unfortunately, it's like that ... This moment affected me a lot mentally, it gave me a lot to understand. Since then I haven't fallen in love, as they say - I haven't felt the feeling that tickles you under the spoon :) It's hard for me to believe someone again, to trust him ... At the moment there is a boy next to me with whom it's nice to communicate and has many qualities, which I appreciate, but the problem is that I have no feelings for him. We are good friends with him, I know that he has feelings for me / he told me in a discreet way / ... In fact, I need to have someone by my side, but I am afraid to take this step with him because if nothing happens which is very likely I'm afraid I'll lose our friendship. Have you ever gone out with someone and subsequently felt feelings for them? Thank you in advance for your help ... Have you ever gone out with someone and subsequently felt feelings for them? Thank you in advance for your help ... Have you ever gone out with someone and then felt feelings for them? Thank you in advance for your help ...
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What you have experienced before should not determine your life in the future. In my opinion, you should relax with this boy and try to forget the pain of disappointment. And as for whether something will happen between you or not, it depends only on whether you will have the courage to try. I am currently with a boy I loved over time and I do not regret being with him.
Strive for something different, try everything, and most of all take risks, in the end we live a life. And you shouldn't look back, just look ahead, yeah. If you like someone, and even better ... your feelings are mutual ... give yourself a chance, always where it is least expected to "thrive" the beauty! Good luck ... !
I know it's familiar;) and I was so calm ... and I'm afraid to fall in love ... I'm even worse .... everyone says you'll meet the man but I'm waiting I'm tired already :)
I don't think you've experienced that love ... that's why your heart can't relax for a new one ... You can deny the previous relationship - you can try to deceive others around you - that "there" it's all over, past and you have outlived it ... but you can't lie to yourself ... Hardly - you are already interested in the opinions - judging - that I read your confession quite late ... but let this be advice to others ... before finally and you must have broken up with someone, even mentally - do not start a new relationship, do not give hope to someone - who may love you and will suffer from your relationship ... Especially the girl - I hope she has already found true love and has found peace ...
That's right, don't worry, especially at puberty ... everyone has had such moments, but still LIFE CONTINUES, it is full of risks that we are afraid of and do not want to do, but such is life! You will find love one day and DO NOT allow anyone to roar all night, to feel lonely, abandoned, forgotten, neglected, etc .... HE does not deserve it! !! !! UP HEAD PEOPLE!
The past should not affect the future. Friendship before love YES! but Friendship after love is NOT! . So whether you are with him or not, you will still hurt him. It is better to withdraw from it as a whole, so that it does not become more complicated. But it depends, if you think you could feel something for him and respond to his feelings, try. In both cases you lose the friendship.