Hello people. I would also like to consult your opinion on one issue. So there is a boy (friend), an old colleague of mine. We worked together in a store 3 years ago. Then we went out for a walk from time to time, as I never gave any signals or hopes for anything more. I felt on his part that he seemed to like me, he started to contact me a little differently. In general, I tried to stay away or show only a friendly attitude. When he wrote to me, I didn't answer very quickly, he sent me kisses, I never once sent him so that he wouldn't think there could be something more. He made me go to the movies once or twice, but I tactfully refused. I thought that after 1-2-3 refusals he would feel a little and realize, but alas, he continues. I really only feel it, as a friend and there could never be anything more. I'm confused because I don't know, do I imagine that, for example, he likes me and wants something more, or is he so limited that he can't guess? !? I understand him to tell me so and so, I like you and it's over ... but he doesn't keep making me go out and keeps kissing. Do I imagine that he wants something more or is it really so? Thanks in advance and happy holidays :) that he wants something more or is it really so? Thanks in advance and happy holidays :) that he wants something more or is it really so? Thanks in advance and happy holidays :)
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Well, he wants to, you feel right.
Many men unfortunately do not know that it takes a woman exactly 5 seconds to determine whether she wants sex from you or not, and unfortunately they humiliate themselves in this way, hoping that something they do and the attitude they show will matter. . Alas, it's all biology for women, but most of them just find it hard to accept ... for the simple reason that they have nothing to do.
The other question is what exactly to do if you can advice :) Last asked me when we will see each other and I said after the new year we are now 3rd has not yet written, but I'm pretty sure that by 7th will write and will have to again to invent something :( For the holidays pan kisses, I'm nothing but kind ... I hope he has already felt: x
try it with another boy ... I'm not saying to sleep with someone, but just when you're 2, to show him or tell him about a boy, what he thinks about him, if he likes you, he would be adequately jealous and it would be obvious from his behavior ... this is the easiest way that comes to my mind at the moment ... it is not very positively accepted, and I say it as a boy, but it works :) I hope I helped
What nonsense !? Just tell him that you only accept him as a good friend and have no more serious feelings for him. Is it that hard?
As you can see, men do not understand from hints. So if you tell him directly, look, dude, I don't feel anything for you anyway, you'll see how he'll understand you at once! Don't worry, if he's a man on the spot he'll appreciate your candor. You don't have to like someone just because they like you.