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I'm Depressed, Help

By xxx_lena_xxx August 05, 2020 2 answers Last updated August 05, 2020

Hello! I am a 14-year-old boy and lately I am depressed and full of terrible thoughts. I'm at sea right now, but even there I can't relax. In about 20 days I start school, but in another city and I will be away from my family. I'm afraid that I won't be able to cope without them and that they will harass me like in the previous school, because I'm different. I don't go out very often because I stress around others. I also keep secrets about myself from my family because I'm worried they won't accept me. I am writing this article to ask you for advice on how to feel better

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augustburn answered · August 05, 2020

   Relax and be yourself. When you worry, others feel it and feel more than you, but it is not. Keep a high head and self-confidence, and to improve it find a hobby such as fitness, etc. If you find it difficult to communicate, look for a psychologist is not ashamed, there is also online.

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wadders99 answered · August 05, 2020

   Hello, author! You know that I often dream of inventing a time machine and being 14 years old like you :) School is important to you, BUT grades don't make you human and nobody looks at them because they are not a guarantee of success in life - do not worry about school. Don't worry about your depression either, because it's all in the mind - how we perceive the world. There are also black and white. There is balance. If you lack balance and see everything in black, then I offer you the following solutions: 1. Hobby (I fill the gap by learning new computer programs) 2. Music (music is the language of the universe, learn to understand it) 3. Start self-analyzing what you are interested in and turn it into a business in the future (this motivates me in the job, which is terrible at the moment, BUT I collect money for business) 4.