Hello Please help me in 5 days I will give birth to my child the father wants the child he is divorced and his wife is in another country and does not let him see the first child however he is very unstable and unreliable I know he will take care of the child but flies a lot in the clouds even though he is 30, he behaves like a child, he lives with some great dreams, here the child will be born and he doesn't even have money for the birth because he always relies on some things where they don't happen, he doesn't really look at things and so it turns out that he will be in another city until he returns the money he holds, and I will look after the child, it is not known how many months it will last, but there is another boy who is from me before and loves me a lot and is ready to take me with the child, he is stable, he has a job and an apartment. with him I will miss nothing, and think only of me, while the first is selfish I do not know which to choose,and I don't have time I see that they both suffer and it's hard for both of them ... I realized that neither of them is my great love ... nor even who knows what kind of love the truth is that I was in a hurry and I still didn't know what to do and there is no time now
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I don't know what to advise you. You made a terrible mess. Is this true?
It is natural to worry in this situation. Secure the future of your child, and you will have security with the second. The one who flies in the clouds will never come down to earth and really take care of you and the child. Great love may never come to you. Maybe you will love the gentleman with the apartment and the opportunities because of the kind attitude and care for you. think of yourself and the child.
Eee..well, now you remembered to think that! ?? Until now, where have you been !? My, don't commit to anyone as it is not in your heart, the father will help and so on ... look after your child, meanwhile your great love may appear.
it's true yes I don't want to hurt either one or the other the other from before he wanted to have a child but we broke up because I wasn't in love and now he sucks that I'm expecting a child and he hasn't met anyone yet
Did the man write that last? There is no gram of foresight, that's what I call him to fly in the clouds. Children are not seen as a flower in a pot, with two drops of water and lots of sunny smiles. Choose material insurance and give yourself a chance to become a good and close-knit family. If it works, enjoy the happiness of the family, if not, try to get back on your feet in the meantime so that you do not depend on anyone.