Hi girl I am 23 and he is 20. There is attraction on both sides. It is just felt in the air that separates us when it is noticed and said by strangers. The bad thing is that at one point he says something that is not even a question, but rather an answer and the next moment - nothing !!! He says something firmly and then does nothing about it. Is it my fault and what should I do? I'm older and I've noticed that it seems to suppress him. Maybe it's my fault that I'm not more direct, but he's not quite direct to me either. There is certainly something between us. I don't know what to do and what to do to find out what's going on. I can't do it directly because it doesn't bother me much. Is there any way I can get him to start the topic?
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The topic is still not understood, what directness, is it about fucking? This does not require talks, but actions! At the age of 20, if he doesn't know what to do and behaves like a student, he'd better find a mature man!
Some time ago, a dude used to play me like that, I justified him by saying that he wasn't sure that he needed time to commit and what not. Eventually, the man caught a boyfriend and they were still together, and it turned out that he was just having fun watching me always respond to his mixed signals. In my opinion, pribteb is something like that.
You can look at each other from a distance all your life, as you have done so far. Either one of you has to activate, or you have to come to terms with the fact that nothing will happen between you. It's a big problem to like someone, but not be sure they like you. Be afraid, in the worst case you will be rejected, do not die from it.
He doesn't like you enough, but he's scratching his ego with you. I'm sorry, I don't think you're wasting your time with him.
There is a saying "Do yourself a favor and accept mixed signals for no". Is this k * r golden? I ride another. I am a man. When I want a woman, she knows it. When I scratch my tongue, I'm bored - she obviously doesn't know anything.
And he doesn't like it, write to yourself.
Well, send mixed ones too - for example, excite him and then leave him to fix himself ...
You don't care, he doesn't care ... So how can it happen? Another question is that from my experience, a man who does not hold on in the beginning and is waiting for you to take the important steps, will not hold on to many things, and in the end you will be found guilty that you did not do enough. So judge for yourself, but if you want something to happen, it's best to overcome yourself.