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I'm In Love, But Are Our Feelings Mutual?

By immeme_official October 07, 2020 17 answers Last updated October 07, 2020

Hello! At the beginning of June last year on Skype I met a man ten years older than me. We wrote to each other regularly. He is married to me too. We met in early November. I liked it. We started seeing each other often. Just for coffee. It so happened that he introduced me to his family. One night in the chat he told me that he likes me very much and after each meeting I leave something in it and little by little he falls in love with me. I was honest with him and told him that I liked him a lot and I was happy to know him. A month ago we were having coffee again and he offered me to go to a hotel, I accepted. We both had amazing moments. I don't know why, but I have the feeling that I have obviously disappointed him with something, and I may be wrong. After our meeting at the hotel, he did not offer me to have intimacy between the two of us again. See you but less often. He keeps telling me he has a lot of work to do. And when he's online on Skype, if I don't write to him, he never writes to me. He told me that he did not want to write to me so as not to cause me problems at home with my husband. Please give me advice from the sides whether it is worth being with him or it is better to stop seeing and writing. I don't want to intrude on my presence in front of him. YES, I'm in love with him, but I don't know if our feelings are mutual. And I don't know how I can tell if he has a thrill for me. I don't want to intrude on my presence in front of him. YES, I'm in love with him, but I don't know if our feelings are mutual. And I don't know how I can tell if he has a thrill for me. I don't want to intrude on my presence in front of him. YES, I'm in love with him, but I don't know if our feelings are mutual. And I don't know how I can tell if he has a thrill for me.

Answers 17

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jasonmraz answered · October 07, 2020

   You don't seem very smart, do you? Divorce or be rubbish. Isn't it clear to you that he has lost interest ...

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evergrey answered · October 07, 2020

   Well, your feelings are not mutual. Just good sex.

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Petitefuck69 answered · October 07, 2020

   Drop it! This is a countman and you, darling, have caught the line like a caracuda. I tell you this from personal experience, because I have applied it myself and they have always caught on. I do not brag about it - on the contrary. I saw what destructive actions a lie in a chat can lead to, and I vowed to be honest. Otherwise, there is nothing wrong if the feelings are mutual to continue

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jeffiniowa answered · October 07, 2020

   This is just a countman, he moved on to the next carp. So just don't think about it. But to cheat is obviously something lame in your family. Take a look at what it is. Because it is disgusting to have a misunderstanding in the family and it is disgusting to be divorced. I know it from personal experience. Many idiots think that if a woman is divorced she waits to jump on top of her. I have left my job twice because of the aspirations of my employers.

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coachdwatkins answered · October 07, 2020

   Those who tell you that you are a caracuda are fools because they are not in your place and do not know what you are feeling. I understand you completely because my story is almost like yours I can't give you advice I know it's right to tell you leave it, but the feelings are stronger but try not to think much and whatever happens

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rtvmaipo answered · October 07, 2020

   Aren't you unclean and disgusted? For most men, this is the most disgusting thing, and if a woman disgusts them, it's forever. Or he is just a countman, he has caught the prey and it is already uninteresting.

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chocolatedivah answered · October 07, 2020

   One mind from me. Fuck the next man first and then write to him. Even on our site, everyone is lying.

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Wuyny answered · October 07, 2020

   HE JUST WANTED TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER, TO DIVIDE HIS BORED LIFE. YOU ARE THE ACCIDENTAL HIT. THERE IS NO LOVE FROM HIS SIDE.

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girlsdeluxe answered · October 07, 2020

   He just wanted you to sleep together and he left you! It's not worth suffering for people like him!

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aizashake answered · October 07, 2020

   I think he just wanted sex ... but I don't know, maybe not, I don't know now how he treats you Because Apparently before he wrote to you Often but now after having sex he stopped writing to you so often Ask what has been applied ... and so :) Good luck

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maria_amoros answered · October 07, 2020

   11 ... the fortune teller;)

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scubboner answered · October 07, 2020

   Maybe when he came home they had a conversation with his wife and maybe for that and maybe he thought about whether he is married and you are married or because he is older (older) than you .... by the way do you have children ? Does your husband know about this?

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PrettyDimples answered · October 08, 2020

   Girl, he uses you and when you get pregnant from him he will leave you and you will only waste your life in vain, you better beat his jester and be happy with the man with whom you agree very stupid think I'm 17 and you're much older than me.

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adellaftlia answered · October 08, 2020

   Drop it.

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bonez187erz answered · October 08, 2020

   I am a 17-year-old girl and I fell in love with a 23-year-old boy when I saw him, even in a photo, I could feel something in my stomach. We met last summer in Burgas and this summer we were together again. Because my mother was against it, I tried to forget about my feelings but it didn't work. He told me that he wanted us to be alone, but my mother kept moving with me, so I persuaded her to leave me ... Last summer, and this also hung out with me in a very nice way. All my friends say I like it. I don't know how to show him that I like him too, I don't know what to do at all, and I like him very much.

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BarbieSinsXXX answered · October 09, 2020

   Hello! I'm Miglena at 12. I know it sounds like she's teaching you less. This is far from the case. It is not my purpose to teach you, but to help you, to give you advice. It is better if you are very much in love with someone to express your feelings than to leave them to yourself. You know, he may have the same feelings for you, but he wants you to take the first step. Do not hide the love for your loved one for yourself. If he doesn't feel the same way about you, he doesn't know what he has lost. Don't hesitate to express your feelings at all!

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KarenCougar answered · October 09, 2020

   People, why are you cheating at all? This is the last thing I would do.