Hello! This topic, which I will share, is always relevant and I hope you just express your sincere opinion. So ... I'm in love with a boy of THREE years. We do NOT know him and we will probably never meet him. He's graduating from high school this year, and I know I won't see him again for sure. I don't know what happened to me. I liked him from the moment I saw him. I haven't stopped thinking about him since. I haven't had a chance to talk to him, but I like everything about him ... the radiance, the posture, his sweet, slightly shy smile, the lovely eyes, and when I heard his voice, I just melted away. No one will understand me if I tell him this ... they will consider me crazy. I tried not to think about him, but for those three years, as we passed each other in the school corridors almost every day and when I looked at it everything inside me turned upside down. I know it's naive, I know it's impossible, I know I'll probably forget it one day. But the feeling of being constantly attracted to me drives me crazy. Please tell me that this annoying madness will pass ... or will remain an eternal bitterness ...
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Hello! My advice is to tell him exactly the things you wrote while you can still spot him somewhere. Tell him you mustered up the courage when you realized you might not see him again. It is not at all impossible to actually start one way and not prepare for the end :) Think about it, if by chance he is not intrigued, what do you lose? Then you are saved from all regrets. At least. And how much you can earn ... Look, the worst possible development is to look at you in surprise or not to believe that you have noticed it for so long. But in any case, he will be pleased and will remember you. So many people have passed away out of shame ... Don't do the same. It is not known whether if you get to know him you will still like him, but at least try ... Otherwise you will wonder for a long time what it would be like. And as for your last question - I was in the same situation with the difference that we had exchanged a few lines and added it to Skype. I was super happy, but it was over when, from the first discussion, he invited me to dinner and hinted that he would expect us to go to bed. And then we were 14 and I was shocked. We never wrote again. And yes, when you are disappointed it passes. But when you haven't tried at all, I don't know. Write how things develop, success: *
Well, I didn't burst out laughing, honestly.
You say yourself that he is shy. Why don't you try to talk to him? You lose nothing! He may like you too, but he's just ashamed to admit it to you! Be insistent, there is nothing wrong with that!
My story is similar. But my crush is not from school but from kindergarten. No, I don't like it from the nursery! They just spotted him ...
I'm more or less on the same path, jump boldly because life is short.
I'm in the same situation, only he's from a different city. I've been liking it for about a year. And I don't know if it's even possible to fall in love with someone you don't know, but I haven't felt anything so strongly about someone else. We met in many places. I catch him looking at me a few times (because I watch him all the time) and I'm always hopeful that he'll write to me or talk to me or whatever. But nothing. He's pretty shy, so am I. And I just don't know what's going on. XD He even literally ran away from me on the street once because I happened to walk behind him. I don't know what to do, how to react ... And I've already given up, I'm not waiting for anything. It just doesn't make sense.