Hello! My story is a little different, and it's not an example at all! I am 21 years old and I am gay. I had a lot of relationships with both girls and women (married and divorced), I know very well that I am like that, but my parents are not. Although I am this age, I have always dominated my relationships, I have rarely been hurt, but I have often hurt, but obviously the day has come when I should be too ... My cousin got married recently, I have known him for a long time my daughter-in-law, as well as her sisters, but with the second sister of the engagement we started seeing each other more often than the engagement, and I fell in love with her imperceptibly, and she is only 13 !!! I did not hide what I have for her, but there is no negative or positive reaction from her. Sometimes she behaves very well, but when she gets closer to her she pulls .. I don't know what to do, she is confused, she is small and for the first time and something like this happens to a girl. I don't want to confuse her life, but I can't stop my love either! How to act ... help me!
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Step away from her. Love in the first place is to want the person against you to be well and happy. She is only 13 - she has hardly thought about her sexual orientation at all, she has not had a boyfriend, she has not dated boys. Let her grow up and choose what she should be without you interfering with her. She's probably happy to talk to you, so she's talking to you, but she doesn't want you to be anything more, so she pulls away. In principle, you can be persistent with a divorced or married woman, but you should not be aggressive and persistent towards a 13-year-old girl. I personally think you're confusing her life and you have to think about her first. As they say in love there is no place for selfishness and if it is best for her to be without you, you will experience it somehow. You will meet another mature woman who will attract you. But if you put it in her mind, being a lesbian can affect her whole life and negatively. Ana
Well, how to react, she is small, and I guess she is not homosexual. It's best to leave her
Leave the child alone, because you are really about to confuse her life. If you really love her so much, you will do it. The other is selfishness.
It rarely happens to me that when I read a story I want to strangle the author, but now my hands are itchy. It is simply not possible for there to be such a mentally ill perverted creature who is outrageously and openly pressuring a child to seek help on the forums. Wow, if you fall for me.
Evalata Number 5 !! :))
Leave her! Don't confuse her with your aspirations! And you are still relatives ...
Chick, you are probably a nice girl, because I was impressed that all lesbians are usually beautiful girls BUT !!! Hello, you are talking about a 13-year-old child, tighten up, girl! Do you realize that you are as intelligent as an automatic umbrella? Think about it, don't become another kalpazanka. And I am of the opinion that you deserve a fart, and maybe you miss the dry bacon ..
Number 5, bravo! This is her pedophilia ... I don't mind homosexuals, but to occupy a 13-year-old girl, are you okay? On this site, I increasingly come across stories in which 13-year-olds are perceived as extremely mature WOMEN? !!
There is nothing more beautiful than a man witnessing two beautiful kissing women, on the issue I am of the opinion as the above comments, both she is small and there is no place for selfishness in love, so it is better to leave her alone.
First I want to tell you that I have never been impudent and insisted I just shared what I have for her. I agree with you that I must stop communicating with her and I will do it, I am not selfish or ugly and brazenly impudent to the girl nor am I mentally ill and perverted .. this is my orientation I have no guilt, thank you all, despite that I thought that things could be mine and kinder, nooo .. it doesn't matter if they are alive and well!
On the contrary. Homosexuality is a kind of disease of the soul. Secondly, you are perverted because you like a 13-year-old girl and you are impudent and ugly because you talked about this thing. Aren't you ashamed. But if your sister finds out what kind of fight you're going to eat ... In general, maybe it's better to have a fight thrown at you so that you come to your senses and don't do such nonsense. Aren't you ashamed!
Isn't he ashamed of the admin who posted the above comment! 12, you attack the woman very ugly. You expose yourself. "Do not judge, lest you be judged"! BM
This is how advice like you is given number 12, this is how people give up the bad, I just have no words ...
Go to a psychiatrist urgently and let them treat you for pedophilia. It is not normal for a person to want sexual contact with minors, and only at 13. It is clear to you that this is a criminal offense.
of 12. I was really angry when I read this story and used sharper words. I'm not the person to judge the girl, I just said the things I think. The author herself admits that she has hurt many people and obviously did not think in this case what the consequences could be, and we do not know how her communication with the young girl can affect in the future. But it's hard to swallow to think that someone's child has fallen victim to such recklessness. Separately, this is subject to jurisdiction, and even if it was not, it is not moral and it is a rupture. I did not seek words to turn to the author for advice, but I wanted to stand in support of an innocent creature who, thanks to his pure and undefiled childish soul, approached with an act of self-preservation, instinctively withdrawing. Unfortunately, this is not always the case, but we do not know in this case what the consequences might be. And no father or mother would want to see her son or daughter with a confused psyche and sexuality, constantly wandering the world.
So, not pedophilia, but fornication with a minor. A crime for which the law provides for imprisonment. Unfortunately, no charges can be filed for such a statement on an anonymous website. Keep in mind that the statement may be provocative and inconsistent with real facts and actions. Which is not illegal :) With such mental disorders, treatment is definitely possible. But no psychiatric examination can release the author from criminal liability, IF the authenticity of her statements is proven. I assume that the Author is a person of a special ethnic type, different from that of the others who have expressed opinions here. :) So, what are you tied to, some gypsy - lesbian :) YD
How is it possible to define homosexuality as a disease ???
It is true that a relationship with a minor is a crime, but someone's sexual orientation should be a disease ??? Be more tolerant. The girl said she did not run into the child.
All of us who allowed ourselves to be extremely rude imagined our own 13-year-old sister / daughter / in the hands of some such lustful, unclean creature. If such a sick woman dares to "just admit" something like that to my child and fill his head with rotten beetles - she will be literally smeared, honestly :) Alas, I'm not exaggerating ... And it's not bad to really realize what it's real your "contribution" to society and why people like you are looked down upon. Say, admit it, this is the first underage girl you're trying. I know not. You have come a long way ....
Pederasty, for example, is a disease and it is obviously a mental illness, inadequate thinking. A man who experiences himself as a woman and wants to be treated like a woman. Objectively, he is a man and thinks of himself as a woman. If it is considered a canary, what is it - the right to personal choice? :) AND WHY be tolerant of someone who is NOT normal. And if the abnormal ones become more and more, what does that change? If everyone gets the flu and do I catch the flu, out of tolerance? Or to think and say to myself that the flu is not a disease, since so many people have "chosen" to be flu :) And what should we be tolerant of? Let the children make them fagots, lesbians, or whatever they want, someone or someone !? Well, yes, that's why we have these children, to leave them "tolerant" to all kinds of freaks. The law does not prohibit the choice of sexual orientation, but categorically prohibits the influence of the sexual orientation of a minor and especially a minor without the consent of his / her parents / guardians. More than once I have condemned various ones, ONLY for the fact that they TALKED to a minor on the topic of sexual orientation. Qualification is an "attempt to commit fornication." Any lawyer would be happy to win such an elementary case. So, being pedals and lesbians is your personal choice, YES. But talking about it with a child is a matter of simple court proceedings. YDYD that they TALKED to a minor about sexual orientation. Qualification is an "attempt to commit fornication." Any lawyer would be happy to win such an elementary case. So, being pedals and lesbians is your personal choice, YES. But talking about it with a child is a matter of simple court proceedings. YDYD that they TALKED to a minor about sexual orientation. Qualification is an "attempt to commit fornication." Any lawyer would be happy to win such an elementary case. So, being pedals and lesbians is your personal choice, YES. But talking about it with a child is a matter of simple court proceedings. YDYD
You are a great moralist. Prosecutors. And do you know where they are and what your children are doing at the moment? The girl asks you for advice, and you turn her into a comrade. The problem is that 99% of people can't say NO. And the other main problem is that you don't read what the authors have written, you start with your stupid comments and idiotic reasoning. After the author shared with the 13-year-old how she feels about her, it would be logical to cut her off at the moment. Such contacts must be terminated in its infancy, categorically and precisely. Why didn't she do it? No one can give a meaningful answer to this question. Maybe she liked being courted, even by a girl a little older than her. She continued to meet her and give her false signals and vain hopes. Fear, shame, anxiety, insecurity, lies - feelings that, it is difficult to control a teenager. In my opinion, there is attraction between them, but the fear is greater. Nothing will come out of this relationship, but that is my opinion. Look for someone 2-3 years younger than you. I wish you success.
Number 22, We do not discuss at all whether or not there is a mutual interest, but that it deceives the little one and gives her food for thought over impure matter. And if, God forbid, the child is impressed or responds - this is the corruption of a minor! In general, the aunt should have kept quiet, but she was too tactless, unfortunately ...
I look and I can't believe my eyes. People, you only clung to one of the whole story - homosexuality ... It's tragic. !! I asked a rhetorical question. I'm sick of it. As soon as the author shares, it means that something called "CONSCIENCE" is called in her. How many of you commenters know the meaning of this word? !! Another rhetorical question. My advice to the author is: of course you have to leave the child. Emotions are hard for women to overcome, but one day you will surely fall in love. Do not lose hope. I'm in a situation because I'm 24 years old and I'm in love with a 49-year-old woman and it's quite difficult for me. I don't want to comment anymore because it's painful for me. I will be grateful to you for sharing your experience with the married and divorced women you mentioned. Do I have a chance? Share if you can a little more, it will be useful to me. In your case, I told you- JUST DON'T LOSE HOPE :)
When I was 12, a boy, almost a man of 19, dragged me to bed and had sex with me, believe me, until the last moment I had no idea what was happening ... Then he said that he explained everything to me in detail ... I didn't understand anything about these things, I was shocked, amazed, desperate and raped, of course ... I liked the boy in question, a man, but not for sex, I didn't know what it was. The case with the lesbian lady in question is the same. People aged 12-13 are only children, no matter how mature they look on your perverted brains. And whoever liked such a child for sex, believe me, HE DOES NOT KNOW WHAT HE DOES! Don't think that it responds to your signals, it's just inexperienced and confused. The law made it clear - imprisonment and punishment for adults trying to mislead minors.
Find one over 18 because otherwise it's perverted.
I hadn't seen so much hatred in one place in a long time. I have no words to express my regret for the author, nor am I here to judge the haters or anyone else, but I will share a piece of advice with you, the author, because I feel obligated to do something. I know it's been 9 months and I hope you're okay and read it. I am 19 years old, and I, like you, have experienced different kinds of feelings towards different people and ages. I used to have fantasies about girls younger than me, and now I have fantasies about women older than me. But thank God that the first was just a fantasy .. She is just a child, still confused, at this age do not know what world they are in. I do not deny that your love is, or has been, strong, but look around and you will see in front of you many other people who will seek and want your attention and feelings. It is at this age that children begin to search for and get to know themselves, and this is a path they must take on their own. When she grows up and has discovered herself, and your feelings have not yet faded, you can now decide together what to do. But for now, just forget it. Give me time. And meanwhile look for love in others, you can meet something stronger and more real. I know I'm only 19 and most people think 'What does this one know about life', but I've experienced love that few can think that a person at this age will live, so I have more or less experience in this field. My advice is to move on, for now. And you never know what surprise life will bring you in time. As for haters, threatening someone and calling them a pervert does not solve the problem at all. I never said that this thing is right and I know what you feel when you think of your children, but that's just not the way. The woman wanted advice. "If I see you, I'll fuck you" is not advice. Nor is it a solution. May you all be alive and healthy. Good luck author, and if you need to talk to someone, you can contact me.