Hello :) I am 19 years old and I have a problem. I'm in love with two girls. Some of you will find it strange or impossible, but it is a fact. I differentiate between liking, falling in love, love, etc., so I know what's wrong with me. The first girl is my ex-girlfriend we broke up with recently. We got along great, but at one point she changed, which led to the end of our relationship. I met the second girl shortly after. She is quite nice, fun and pleasant. The more I get to know her, the more I start to fall in love with her. It struck me that she was quite different from the other girls I had been in contact with. The problem is that I still have strong feelings for the old girl. We have a normal relationship with her and lately I feel that the change in her that made us separate has started to disappear. I need a little mental attitude and everything will be fine when I choose one of the two, but I don't know which one. Is it better to forget about the past and try the new girl? She is also interested in me and I think it will work, but when I think about the former and the fact that there is a chance to continue the wonderful relationship we had started, I stop everywhere. What do you think? It is clear that I cannot decide on my own, and my heart cannot follow it because it leads me in two directions. Crazy thing, isn't it? that I cannot decide for myself, and my heart cannot follow it, because it leads me in two directions. Crazy thing, isn't it? that I cannot decide for myself, and my heart cannot follow it, because it leads me in two directions. Crazy thing, isn't it?
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Well, listen to your heart ... Is the new girl from your city? Because that's important too.
The one for which the little one is happier ... Let him choose .... You rested a little from thoughts and passions;)
The answer is simple - once you are in love with the new, forget about the old. Never let the past play with you.
You better try the new girl. If he really loved the old, nothing else would come of it.
I will tell you that the easiest way to turn the lives of the two girls into AD is to start with the new one before you have completely overcome the previous one. Because very soon after that the nostalgia becomes unbearable and you will jump back, then gossip again at the new one. I know a simpleton :) who literally ruined 2 completely normal girls - he turned them into stunned hens, sometimes with one, now with the other. For one girl I do not know what happened next, but the other fell ill with an incurable disease. I witnessed him writhing in a crushed ego, but he couldn't and couldn't get over it. He didn't look particularly happy either, though he found a side chat patch next to the two. So before you go wild and jump from bed to bed - think carefully about the complex perspective. If you respect them and don't just want to - leave them for a while,
don't worry too, but my old woman is cheating on my best friend
Dear boy, comment number 5 is very accurate. Growing up, you should build some principles about what kind of person you want to be. You are selfish right now. You get attention from two girls, and you play with them. This is very mean. Think about it, if they both knew what was in your head, how they would feel. If you are a real man, the best thing you can do is take a break. The standard rule is that after a separation a person should be alone for a while precisely because the feelings cannot disappear (and the fact that they exist does not necessarily mean that these people should be together once they have separated, so there was a problem). Sometimes overcoming takes months, even years (in old age). My own theory is even, that two people, in principle, should not hurry with sex until they get to know each other as characters / because sex brings a lot closer, and in my opinion, feelings are born from sex /. But what do they do when they find out something is wrong but they are already in love? Love dramas ... So if you think you are old enough for a serious relationship with a girl, be responsible and faithful. And at the same time everything is up to personal choice !!! If you don't think so - just be with different girls, but without making any illusions, everything should be clear from the beginning what it is - just sex or a real relationship. Be the right person, so you won't have any problems. that you are big enough for a serious relationship with a girl, be responsible and faithful. And at the same time everything is up to personal choice !!! If you don't think so - just be with different girls, but without making any illusions, everything should be clear from the beginning what it is - just sex or a real relationship. Be the right person, so you won't have any problems. that you are big enough for a serious relationship with a girl, be responsible and faithful. And at the same time everything is up to personal choice !!! If you don't think so - just be with different girls, but without making any illusions, everything should be clear from the beginning what it is - just sex or a real relationship. Be the right person, so you won't have any problems.
Well, why don't you explain to both of them that you like them a lot, but there's another one; and see what they will say.
Can I just ask what city you are from, please? Otherwise, my advice is to choose the 2nd girl, if you have strong feelings for her, because if you loved your ex-girlfriend, you would not wonder which of the 2 you would like to be with. And if you're so confused and complicated, you can just take a break from relationships.
number 9 - darling .... No, she is not from your city, this is not Him and you are not the second girl ... Do not hope in vain, this is a kind of paranoia :))
And I was in love with 2 boys when I was about as big as you. One was my boyfriend and the other just a fan. I realized that the admirer is not worth it as a person and I chose my boyfriend. After many years of relationship with my boyfriend, our relationship cooled down and I fell in love with another. When I met this other one and realized what a pig he is, I chose my boyfriend again. In the end, good always defeats evil :)
FROM THE AUTHOR: 1., both are from my city. 5., I'm not the type of guy who jumps from bed to bed and I can't face such a serious situation. Otherwise you're right, yes. 7. I don't think I'm selfish. If I were like that, I wouldn't think and ask for advice. I agree that it's good to get to know people first. My ex had sex with me after the 3rd month. I reject this with the different girls as an option because it is complete nonsense. Better dry than poisoning my life with light and simple girls. 8., this will be quite a big mistake. There's no point in doing that, because I'm not in a relationship with either girl right now. 9., from a town in Southern Bulgaria Many of you advise me to take a break. I want to do it too, but I'm afraid I'll miss this new girl, which is really worth it. Otherwise number 3 said something which made me think hard. I see that most of you are of the same opinion, so I will listen to him.
You want the new girl because the thrill is stronger .. there are new emotions everything is different than before .. Experience this new relationship .. after all the only way you forget an old relationship is with a new one;)