Hello, I am a boy of 17, I have been living in Germany for a year. I study German but not perfectly, there is a girl in the school where I study, an Iranian has been in Germany for over 10 years, as it is supposed to speak perfectly! From the moment I saw her, everything just turned upside down, I'm in love with her and very much so! She also noticed me, whenever we meet somewhere in school she doesn't take her eyes off me like I do from her, she smiles at me, but we don't even know her names and she also has some sympathy for me, can anyone show me give some advice on how to talk to her what I say, etc. I will be very grateful! Basically, I'm not shy or closed, but now I don't know what happened to me when I see her, I lose my mind and my words, I'm just crazy about her, I'll be very grateful if you give me advice or something. I will ask the moderators to approve what I have written: ) Thanks! :)
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Hello! Obviously, after you have strong feelings for this girl, you want something to happen between you. But in order to get it, you first need to get acquainted. You can just say to her, "Hello, what's your name?" / try to ask her about her social networks to continue the conversation, but do not move on to this question immediately /. Another option is to create a situation ... To make someone push her while she is carrying textbooks, for example, and help her collect them ... Then you will talk and you will reach the situation above, which is something like a basis. . In fact, you may run into her yourself, apologize, and help her. Ask your friends for advice. I hope I have been useful to you.
Just invite her for coffee
Author: Thank you I will listen to you somehow do something!
When you look at her and it's nice, she smiles at you, she's probably expecting you to do something. Don't wait because it may be too late. If she's spotted you, she probably won't rule out an acquaintance.
Author: People, I'm confused, I don't know why it works like that or why it happens like that, two days ago the girl in question passed close to me, and passed very close that she pushed me on purpose, and today I saw her as she did me, but it was done that he doesn't see me as if I wasn't there, suddenly out of nowhere he ignores me, I don't know why he did it, I'm confused ..
Man, meet her! If you just keep looking, it will stay that way until you're done. Is that what you want? Tighten it, the girl also noticed you, pushed you, smiles at you. Do you see the green light or do you need glasses? Greet her, ask her name and offer to come with you for coffee during the holidays. Ask her why she moved to Germany and if every new beginning is difficult. Ask her to help you with her tongue. In general, if she really has an interest, everything will happen so easily and pleasantly that you can't imagine it. Nothing personal, but I feel an inhuman desire to somehow push you towards her and try your luck. As long as you wait, activate. This is great, man, you have the opportunity to do something new, to get out of the comfort zone and I hope you really experience something wonderful. You just have to be scared, and then we'll see what happens. Don't stay in one place, you can't do the same and wait for a different result. Find her on social media, it's best to ask her for a profile yourself. Get to know her, this is a small step for you that can bring you happiness. I may be wrong, none of this may happen, but at least you will try and you will not ask questions.
It is possible that she refused, due to the lack of any initiative on your part, to talk to her. Maybe he feels just like you. And it's more complicated for her, because the boy has to take the first step. We can only guess, but I think so.
.... because, waiting for you to act ... ah, you don't do it ... because, she has shown you that she has an interest in you ... ah, you don't do anything but watch her ... don't waste time ... act ... go to her, talk to her ... do something. If you "burn" so much when you see it, write a note .. when you pass and pass it ... for example .. "you have a beautiful smile .. and your name .. I don't know, you can write a lot of things to her. But something short, playful ... just do something ... because she's waiting for action on your part ...
Author: Thank you very much for your comments! You gave me courage and I am also ready to do something! I am writing this on Thursday, tomorrow is Friday, I hope today they approve my comment, tomorrow I will talk to her and I will write you what happened, thank you very much!
I'm in exactly the same situation, only from a girl's point of view. I ignore the boy because I'm uncomfortable, not because I don't like him. Talk to her.
I'll tell you from a girl's point of view. I was in the same situation. And I've shifted my gaze, I've ignored it, especially when I like someone. Most girls become anxious when they like someone. So go ahead, she's probably expecting you to talk to her.
Author: If anyone is still reading my story, I want to say that two months later we are with the girl, thank you all for your support! You helped me a lot!