Dear people, I have been killing myself slowly with alcohol for years and I can't stop. Nor am I going for treatment. First I drank a glass of beer, then two, then in difficult times - a little wine for comfort, etc. However, over time it became awful - every night I get drunk to death. Alone. Whatever I like. During the day I work hard in a big company, I am educated, I look good, I drive, no one suspects the disgusting thing I do. Only my parents and children sniffed me at one point and miraculously saw each other. I'm ruining my life and health and the bad thing is that my character is perverted, I've obviously killed a lot of nerve cells. It's good that I can still think and remember that my work involves a lot of calculations and information. Give advice on how to stop that I have not tolerated for a long time.
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I'm a man Stop !!!!! If there is a decent man next to you, he will stop you, but obviously he will not. STOP !!!!! That day I buried a close friend who was killed by an alcoholic in his 50s. He had a decent woman who put up with him drinking for more than 20 years. Realize why you're drinking, who you want to get rid of this way. Bad memory, unhappy love or yourself. Children will not be happy to bury an alcoholic mother. Write what you miss in this life and what you replace with alcohol / I drink but for pleasure / You will read the opinions of both men and women. Choose what you want, but STOP. Indulge in sex, other vices that, although carnal, do not kill the soul. Even if it seems silly to you, remember what I write! Alcohol is not only safe, but also a transparent death !!!!
Life crushes me so much that I no longer want to live. I have a decent man next to me, but he doesn't even suspect it. And you don't have to. And what is written is not stupid at all. I have witnessed the deaths of several people from drinking. A neighbor drowned dead drunk in a handful of mud in front of his door. I am very well aware of what I am doing, the question is how to stop.
I can share the same about my mother and she does so the best treatment is the support of loved ones more or less it is a mental problem so it is good to seek specialized help
If there is a man next to you, and he is decent, that's fine! Sit down and talk to him calmly! If he doesn't drink, he'll pull you out slowly and calmly, over time! I am a man, I do not drink alcohol at all and I saved a woman this way! No scandals, but a smile! After I didn't drink or keep her company, she stopped drinking over time! We were together for 12 years and we separated, but she still hardly drinks today! If the person next to you is real, he will get you out! Just sit down and talk like great people!
Start with esoteric literature, meditate. I'm 58 years old, just like you, I went with less alcohol. But I got to the point that I got drunk without memory, in the morning I sometimes saw that I was urinating, I peed in bed. I hated myself, I hated myself, but I kept going. Visit the esoteric bookstore located at Angel Kanchev -7 For a start, I advise you about these books: Heal your life Louise Hay, the Silva method, they are three books, and the saleswoman herself will get them for you if they are not available at the moment. Good luck.
I would recommend if you decide to do meditation, not to learn from books, but from someone who already practices in some tradition (Buddhist, Hindu, etc.). There are many books on the market that are umbilical cords and lead to confusion!
I was like you years ago. You have to make a decision for yourself. Other people will not help you, no one is able to help you unless you decide for yourself and do it. Meditation also helps everything, there is no harm from it. I am a 48-year-old woman, I tell you from personal experience
I have the same problem, but for me it is sporadic. If I take just a sip I can't stop and faint for about a month, and then I'm disgusted ....... but until next month. I ask for your help! I harassed my children ......... I accept any advice Thank you.
I'm 1 I don't have a prescription, but try with what they advise and with a lot of will. This person next to you should help you / at least return your desire for life / I will repeat. Realize why you drink, who you want to eliminate in this way. When you understand it you will see the way to stop. SUCCESS !!!!!!!!!!
There are clinics, psychologists ...
Well, I already drink, just for the sake of drinking. I do not know why either. And I don't want to go to the doctor, even though I'm straight to the clinic, to be locked up away from alcohol. But when I go out I will probably catch up. I'm so stupid!
I will recommend Buddhist meditation. There are monasteries of Karma-Kagyupa in Bulgaria, they are under the spiritual rule of the lamas. The Dalai Lama seemed to be in charge of them. seek them, heal the souls of men. From Christianity I can recommend to you the monastery of exinocrypt deacon Basil, located in the Rhodopes.
If you have decided for sure that you have to deal with this, visit http://www.clubs.dir.bg/. In the club "Mutual Aid" joined the "Alcohol Addicts". Read from the beginning. You will probably be a little confused at first, but then things will clear up for you. There are people who have this problem (actually it is a disease called alcoholism) and successfully fight it. Read Alcoholics Anonymous's literature and attend their collections. They are wonderful people and ready to help anyone. I advise you - do not be prejudiced against what you will read if you want to save yourself and your loved ones.
You just have to get out. Go somewhere for a long time.
I know what it's about, because at about the same time I was like that. I probably don't know the age, but before that I didn't need to go out to a disco, for example, to drink or to have something at home. Min.year maybe I started drinking ... on my 20th birthday. And because of nonsense - some stupid stories, then every time something happened I drank a glass, for example .. green Sobieski with redbull hah and so on .. However, I began to realize and ask myself "Who am I doing it for?", Because I hurt. on its own, drinking can't fix your life when it's rotten or solve a problem, it doesn't help you feel better, it even makes you worse. It is not a solution. I had really disgusting things in my life, then I didn't drink, but because of some stupid story with a boy, or because of some movie ... Recently my dog was stolen. Then I felt very bad and I bought a drink and drank, not to the point of drunkenness, sometimes I overdo it, but just then it really clicked, I poured the alcohol and broke the bottle. This will not help anyway ... I stopped. I don't drink every day, I've never drunk like that, for example if I go out somewhere ... but it's still very rare, I don't need to drink, except at gatherings, but not every time. That's why I tell you ... You have family, you have friends, you have people who love you. You just have to be strong, as before you started drinking, to live and if there is something that bothers you and subconsciously made you start - to lose it from your life. You don't deserve it, nor do your loved ones. eg if I go out somewhere..but it is still very rare, I do not need to drink, except at gatherings, but not every time. That's why I tell you ... You have family, you have friends, you have people who love you. You just have to be strong, as before you started drinking, to live and if there is something that bothers you and subconsciously made you start - to lose it from your life. You don't deserve it, nor do your loved ones. eg if I go out somewhere..but it is still very rare, I do not need to drink, except at gatherings, but not every time. That's why I tell you ... You have family, you have friends, you have people who love you. You just have to be strong, as before you started drinking, to live and if there is something that bothers you and subconsciously made you start - to lose it from your life. You don't deserve it, nor do your loved ones.
Get treatment from a psychiatrist for alcoholism or go to a traditional healer.
And I have such a problem only with food. what have I not touched to stop eating, but I can't ... when I feel lonely I cram as if for the last time, with problems at work - also / I'm in a managerial job /...I've gained weight, I'm disfigured, I don't look like to myself, but I can't and can't stop ... whatever I tried, I feel like nothingness!