I am 17 years old, I have problems at home and I have to move out, but I don't know what to do, where to go, I have no education, there is no one to rely on for help, but I have to move out. Please give me some options, what can I do. How to start, I really have to get rid of one way or another, so please do not advise me to wait until I turn 18, because it is impossible. I am constantly looking in different directions, I do not want to get where I am headed. For this I ask you for advice.
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Hello, what city are you from? It is best to be from Sofia because that way you will have more opportunities. Before you turn 18 and without an average, I think it's impossible to find a decent job. Your best option may be to serve in a restaurant where they will close their eyes to how old you are. I hope you have an acquaintance with whom you can share the rent of the accommodation. If you share more details about yourself you can give more information.
I'm in Sofia, but I don't think I can do it here, the rents are expensive and I don't think I can do it, I guess in a smaller city it will be easier. There is no one to share accommodation with. I haven't worked until now, that's also an obstacle.
I'm number one. :( sorry for your situation. He said not to advise you, but at your age I had the same problem and then I thought there was no way to stay, but I found it. Try for at least a year (if possible). I'm sorry, but no I can think of no way out :(.
Stay in Sofia, there you can find a job. There is NO work in the small town
Girl, please tell me a little more about the problem! However, if you have a mother - wait! Because of her, please think again!
Aren't you writing a girl and a boy? If you are a boy, you have the opportunity to fall into the trap of drugs and dealers, if you are a girl, you can fall into the pimps and become a prostitute. Dear child, I am much older than you and do not be angry that I call you that, you have to be patient a little more so as not to ruin the wonderful life that awaits you. You have to believe that the most wonderful future awaits you and be sure that this will happen. Please do not rush. MEL
and it seemed like that to me at times but wait a little longer if you're with your mother because this is the closest person you can have and if you do you will never fix the mistake think a little more
If it's so impossible and you really have to move out, find a job first, or at least secure people you can go to in the first place! do not trust random people, do not be hasty, things are difficult, especially in these years! but if you are determined, I would tell you to do the following: 1. without money do not go anywhere! so first find enough money for the first month. at any cost! 2. find where to go. relatives, good friends - with stable people. 3. If possible, however, before you take this step, find a job. Usually in such cases a person is very confused and with low self-esteem - which he likes. so - head up, don't forget that many successful people have gone your way ... when a person goes through difficulties, he becomes incredibly strong, resilient and independent! just the beginning is very dangerous and so I advise you to organize your things! I wish you success! if you want it too, I'm sure you can achieve it! but just beware.
If you leave home at this age, you will certainly become a prostitute, there is no other way out, so think about your future
In those years, our thoughts are quite confused. I ran away with my boyfriend when I was 15. After a week, of course, I came home. We currently have 2 children and mom is the person I rely on for everything. I am infinitely sorry, because she has suffered so much for this stupidity of mine ... After a few years she fell ill with cancer, I felt so guilty for the care I created for her that she simply had nowhere to go. I stood by my head for days on end and prayed he wouldn't die. If you have parents think, share your problem with them, there is always a solution, do not make my mistake. I repeat, the one I ran away from at the moment is my support ... Good luck, people
Behave girl I believe you will be fine