I'm Looking For A Girl

   I advise you to get rid of your virginity to begin with. You come up with a way, but I'll tell you one thing - the virgin man pushes away and is visible from afar. As for the patriarchal girls - you will find them in the village and in the small Rhodope towns and palanquins - shovel them straight. However, be prepared that they are not who knows how many scientists and such a woman you will have to endure for life. Not bad - as a doctor you will probably earn well. If you want a woman on your intellectual level, know that she has her own expectations and pretensions. One of them is, for example, a 23-year-old man to have some experience in bed. Another expectation is for the man to be funny, to have something to say, to be interesting, to have humor and such things ... Such a woman does not stay at home, but makes a career, has interests, friends and hobbies and is critical of the man. to himself, because he is at least at his level. Such a woman will not cook for you, but will expect you to change. She will not clean, but will expect you to clean together or hire a cook, babysitter and cleaner. You choose, there are enough women for everyone, as long as you look. And yet ... even the patriarchal woman does not expect you to be still a virgin at the age of 23. Do something about it! ... as for society - there are women with whom you can talk intellectually, but you will not find them in front of the computer, and as a virgin you radiate a certain degree of insecurity and repel such women. I am sure that all your colleagues have partners and they do not care at all what needs and hills you have. even the patriarchal woman does not expect to be still a virgin at the age of 23. Do something about it! ... as for society - there are women with whom you can talk intellectually, but you will not find them in front of the computer, and as a virgin you radiate a certain degree of insecurity and repel such women. I am sure that all your colleagues have partners and they do not care at all what needs and hills you have. even the patriarchal woman does not expect to be a virgin at the age of 23. Do something about it! ... as for society - there are women with whom you can talk intellectually, but you will not find them in front of the computer, and as a virgin you radiate a certain degree of insecurity and repel such women. I am sure that all your colleagues have partners and they do not care at all what needs and hills you have.

   I agree with number 1, except for that of virginity. One cannot judge a man by how much experience he has in bed, and I personally have never looked for a man to have experience. The more superficial, of course, will probably think that you are crazy if you are a virgin, but a real quality woman will not judge you for this, on the contrary - she will gladly teach you many things sexually and then enjoys the fruits of his training: D There are all kinds of women, there are those who find inexperience and insecurity as nice. Don't despair, you will find your partner too, just don't look for her among the muffins and in the bars and discos. Still, keep in mind the things number 1 told you. With intelligence and education come some requirements. And the modest girls from the village,

   I don't think it's a problem that you're a virgin. For smart and intelligent girls, this does not matter even better. I'm a girl and I wouldn't want the man next to me to have been with 100 women before. This type of girls you are looking for are hard to find because in most cases they are shy or committed to learning or a career, but they are;) The only problem I see is that you say you are short. If you are 1. 60 you will find it difficult to find a girl, because even the short ones like tall men (this is my opinion) (Sign up for volleyball, basketball).

   There is time for everything and everyone. Engage in education now, this is more valuable. You are still young and you have many years ahead of you. Do some hobby and just believe that one day you will meet this girl ... Good luck!

   Author, teach yourself not to care at all about love desires and torments. Study, find a good job, create a solid foundation for a relationship and you will be offered such emancipated women that he talks about 1. But you are intelligent and realize what is the right type of women for a stable relationship - a woman who knows her place, separated from nature. And thanks to the "modern" type of women, relationships break down so often and men avoid serious relationships. Which man did a woman imitate in the behavior of men? If someone wants his wife to drink, to smoke, to swear, to hang out with friends, to make a career and to love me for the shortcomings - he uses it healthily. I do not want such a woman and I prefer to be alone - I will be a hundred times better.

   For starters, why not visit a companion? Now, I know the attacks will begin. Don't mix things up. That it will break a little has nothing to do with learning. And as for the decent girls. There are them. But, we live in a mercantile world and people are like that. Good luck bro!

   You advise him well that the boy should study and develop professionally, but the absence of a woman now will leave him more or less an outsider later and he will have to catch up. Relationships with women are also learned and this is done through time, experience, joy and suffering. If men develop emotionally 2-5 years slower than women, this boy will be even further back and aware of it. So you are not quite right in your advice and the good thing is that he already realizes that this weighs on him and little by little he will improve.

   and what should I do now, I have no money for a companion, I am even poor, I go everywhere with an anzung, do I have to be mediocre like everyone else and wear only adibas and puma to be liked? are they really watching this? appearance is not important, but inner beauty.

   The ugly truth is that nowadays one looks at appearance. There are exceptions, but there are very few. A matter of luck. You should not despair, but even if it becomes a fixed idea, it is still not good. Develop as a person, build a career, and the other is a lottery. In my opinion - meet more people, go out more, so the chance to meet the dream lady will be greater. :) Good luck! :)

   There are some, but they ran away to study abroad: D: D: D I just wonder if the emoticons are suitable for me, but it's just somewhat funny to me ....

   PS and also, since I did not pay much attention to the topic and now I read in the comments, number 1 is very right. You contradict yourself. You want a woman with patriarchal values, even if she is at your level. A woman who wants a career just like you is too busy, she needs a lot of sex, believe me, stress is enough, and what better "cure" than sex. There are many other things, but I can't explain it, I think you are a smart person and you will find the answers you need.

   I am the same as the author, of the same age, with the same problem. However, I do not agree with him that there are no decent girls, there are, they are all around us. I realize that I am to blame for the situation I am in. I have a nice appearance, there were a lot of girls to show me that I am not indifferent to them, but my empty shame ... Oh, here, I will soon turn 24, and I have never felt what it is like to be loved, all this it's definitely starting to get worse for me. No one around me assumes that I have such a problem, after all, a good boy studying a good specialty, already having a good job should not have a problem with women ... I want to tell the author and those who have a problem like ours - don't blame the girls, they really aren't to blame, the problem is only with us. There are many intelligent women who are not mercantile, and who are not only interested in money, appearance and so on. I realize the problem and I try to change things, do it too.

   I had not read duller comments. Some even laughed out loud. I will only recommend the author not to bother reading them at all.

   Author, as well as the other boy who wrote in the same situation. There are decent and good women, but they are either already married with one or two children, like me, or enslaved in a long relationship with the wrong one, from which they do not dare to run away, or do not realize that their relationship is inappropriate. So it happened to me. I am now 26 years old, tied to a man who does not love me, but lives with me only because of the children and who does not respect me and mentally harass me just because I am intellectually smarter than him. Unfortunately, I do not work and this gives him the right to harass me. He tells me that I am rubbish and I have a university degree equal to his. I just look after his home and children, and he pays me back with that. So the chance of finding a good wife is small, because today's decent girls - the pigs eat them and finally eat them all the way in. But don't despair and look.

   15., do your best to leave it with the children. Ask for help from relatives, friends, I don't believe there is anyone around you who can't lend you a hand. Just share your grief with someone like here and help will come from where you least expect it. The hardest part is taking the first step, then it's easy.

   "Appearance is not important, but inner beauty. '' ------------------------------------------------ ------------------- How can it not be important? I'm not saying you have to pretend to be a jerk, but at the other extreme - with a suit? Who wears a tracksuit outside the gym? Now there are cheap clothes, traces of discounts in the mall and you can easily change your wardrobe in a few months. Otherwise the girl / boy comes when you least expect it. :) Tested. Pixie

   Well, there are still decent girls who get along with decent boys. I don't know why everyone is enslaved to this cliché that couples form right / bad. There is no such thing as any luck, that's it.

   What kind of virginity was my boy? This miracle is present in women, and you have nothing to break. And falling in love is not difficult, it is difficult for them to fall in love with you (applies to boys). You will have to look for ...

   Sorry, but my friends and I are partying, so you won't like it and I don't spare my words. Besides, I like to be tall with tiles on my belly rich in nice cars to pamper me like a queen.

   Just to say that I don't agree with virginity. Soon I was with a virgin boy for the first time and I had never experienced such pleasure before!

   Virginity is not a bad thing, it shows that he has reserved for the right girl. I'm 19 and I hadn't kissed a boy until a year ago. I have a serious relationship now. Don't worry conscious girls are everywhere you may just not notice them because almost every one is made as a pale replica of a "model" but more like a braided damajana smeared with 3 buckets of foundation;)) good luck;)

   Author, falling in love does not come by order. But you can force your luck by meeting your future lover in the following ways: 1. go to places - in the real world and on the Internet, where you can find a woman with your interests - for example, love of history. So once you find one suitable for you, you will have at least one more thing in common besides sex. 2. Understand what "patriarchy" means. If you have been expecting women to obey you and be at your service for the rest of your life in this violent emancipation for years, it is only natural that you will not find one. You can try in Arabia, but there they hardly look at foreigners with a good eye, so you better rethink this part of your speech. 3. Have you ever wondered what a medical student will offer the woman next to you? You are preparing for a doctor or at least you will be a part of the native healthcare. Your free time will be short and you will often be tired. That's why you need a woman who is busier than you. Otherwise she will often sit at home, feel lonely and think why not find someone freer than you. 4. Learn to decipher women at an elementary level. No one is an expert in this field, but it would be good to know at least when an acquaintance can not grow into something more, because otherwise you waste valuable time courting a woman who has no intention of starting a relationship with you. 5. Be proud of yourself. Do not be obsessed with your possible shortcomings. For example - you are not too short, but you are compact and do not hinder the movement of birds in the atmosphere. You are an excellent student not because you do not have a social life. You're just a perfectionist and you do well what you once did. You are not a virgin because something is wrong with you. You are simply not one of those people who give particles of themselves to the left and right, but only to verified persons of the opposite sex, etc. The above statements may sound funny or even strange, but the smallest problem in your head works to women as a huge illuminated sign saying "I have no job here!", and this is important for your cause. Have confidence, but don't overdo it. Know your place in the universe and do not allow either women or men to tell you where it is, because you have enough mind in your head and you can determine it yourself. because something is wrong with you. You are simply not one of those people who give particles of themselves to the left and right, but only to verified persons of the opposite sex, etc. The above statements may sound funny or even strange, but the smallest problem in your head works to women as a huge illuminated sign saying "I have no job here!", and this is important for your cause. Have confidence, but don't overdo it. Know your place in the universe and do not allow either women or men to tell you where it is, because you have enough mind in your head and you can determine it yourself. because something is wrong with you. You are simply not one of those people who give particles of themselves to the left and right, but only to verified persons of the opposite sex, etc. The above statements may sound funny or even strange, but the smallest problem in your head works to women as a huge illuminated sign saying "I have no job here!", and this is important for your cause. Have confidence, but don't overdo it. Know your place in the universe and do not allow either women or men to tell you where it is, because you have enough mind in your head and you can determine it yourself. but the slightest problem in your head acts on women like a huge glowing sign, "I don't have a job here!", and that's important to your cause. Have confidence, but don't overdo it. Know your place in the universe and do not allow either women or men to tell you where it is, because you have enough mind in your head and you can determine it yourself. but the slightest problem in your head acts on women like a huge glowing sign, "I don't have a job here!", and that's important to your cause. Have confidence, but don't overdo it. Know your place in the universe and do not allow either women or men to tell you where it is, because you have enough mind in your head and you can determine it yourself.

   Author! There is no reason to worry. Watch yourself and your own growth. You're too young to dramatize the lack of connections. There is time for everything, and if your peers are idiots and live for the party, you emphasize medicine and what you like as a hobby (history). Glad you're not in contact with people like number 20, because they're about to land either in a escort agency or be dumped by a mother's child (which they've been able to fool) after a failed marriage. You were born in a generation that lacks a price system and you have it. Anything with your time and don't try to pretend to like those you don't really like. You will only waste your time. As you grow professionally and develop as a character, you will understand that what you are worried about now was another nonsense caused by the society in which you live. Be yourself and the real one will find you someday. By the way, I'm one of those who number 20 and her friends like, but they are just another number, from which in time I will not have any memories.

   And I'm cat number 20 just like that

   In post 15, I want to say that he is right, but unfortunately my own mother and father are influenced by his opinion. Since he came home, he has ruined their attitude towards me. There is no one to share and no one to help me. My parents take his side, and they don't know him at all like I do. The bad thing is that they obviously don't know me either. I got married a little and now they think they know the idea of ​​me that he has built in their heads ... They don't support me for anything. I want to study for a master's degree, something completely different, and they tell me I'm an adult and I'm 26 and a half. The master's degree is about art, where age really matters, but I don't believe that one can't start later. It is important to do what you love. Life is given once. I don't want to live as they tell me ... But I don't believe I have another choice ... No money ... No job ... Even if I work, and I have worked hard in this direction, I still can't leave it. He will just take my children and I will have a serious problem. I'd rather endure it than be left without my children ...