It happened more than a month ago, we were at sea together! She didn't overwhelm me with her appearance, we overwhelmed her modesty. The problem is that I have a health problem, she has two children and I feel that she lies to me about many things she shared with me and behaves a little like a child, she doesn't know what she wants, she just turns me on. I'm in love with her, but my brain tells me to dump her! Please advise what to do!
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Hi, we have many similar stories. Even if you put an end to it, which is the most reasonable thing, if it is written, fate will still catch up with you. And for your health problem, I don't think it matters (unless you've been told that you have a little "DON'T GOD" left) Then, if I were you, I would do what my heart tells me, not my mind.
Once you "feel" that he is serving you, why not make sure he is? I can't understand - why are people afraid to speak openly ?? What are they afraid of? It is unlikely that such a conversation will lead to an international diplomatic scandal! As for your health problem - I don't know why you mention it without being specific. Hardly anyone here has the ability to guess. One "health problem" is caries, but it definitely can't be an obstacle in a relationship. See, if you need special care is another. Or if you suffer from a disease that is genetically transmitted or that you are learning to live with (diabetes, for example). Nothing tells me this "the problem is that I have a health problem"! Holly
What is the obstacle "your health or the fact that she is divorced with two children". If you think about your health, discard it. Two children are difficult to look after, and health costs a lot. Besides, there is no other obstacle. There are quite a few divorced and married a second time, one of them is me. When I met my wife, she was divorced with one child, now we have two.
I just want you to say listen to your head, not your heart. In time you will realize that love goes away very quickly. In your case, I would not listen to my heart so that I would not suffer more later when it was too late
Thanks to everyone for the advice, I will listen to your head! My disability is a little physical cerebral paresis. At this time it is difficult to look after two children.
Hey, what happens in the end is that divorced women with children have no right to happiness. They had to leave them to their husbands for them to think.
Apparently that's how it turns out, I imagine the author's self-esteem. I'm lame, but she's below my level. I guess you think how many beauties you have curled up, and you deal with the divorced.
make your own choices and do not listen to what they advise others do what your heart desires success
By no means sacrifice yourself for her sake! Living with her and her children is a sacrifice.
I don't know what it has to do with being divorced, it's an accent in the title, and it's not even mentioned in the story. For me, the focus is on her numbers and maybe your health problem once you share it. w 29
once you feel that he is lying and spinning you, you have nothing to think about, it is not for you. however, this has nothing to do with modesty :-) I suspect it's a pose to impress you. 6, no one summarizes for divorced women in general. in this case, however, I do not think that if he reunites with the author, he will be happy if he himself says that he is lying to him.
The "smart people", who are agitating about how ready you are to take an aunt with two children and watch them, have started attacking you because you are disabled and you have nothing to choose from. Draw one for them and end your relationship, if you have one, with the lady. There is no point in sacrificing yourself for strangers. And as for how "modest" she was, and how she lied - another proof that you should not fall into the trap of such tricks. I am a woman and of all such aunts who caught someone beating their children from another, I have not seen either modest or honest. Their goal is one - to twist someone and beat their children.
And you number 15 pour out your malice in a more controlled way, you are so bad that you comment on a story from 7 years ago !!!
to 16 - And you are so "good" that you answer me in a topic from 7 years ago. I have no malice. However, I have seen examples of men who have pushed themselves into such a stench - an aunt with foreign children, and then beat their heads. So I warn the man to spit on his heels until he sinks.
aunt, stink - aha there is no malice, nothing! You are the one who hates divorced children so much, and all such women on the planet, that you dig up archival topics. Funny and pathetic.
17, you have malice and how else, and fix your "seen" to seen, because you are a man who pretends to be a woman!
to 18 and 19 - and you must be some scumbag, wondering who to try what someone else did to her?