Hello everyone here, let me share what weighs so much on me. I thought for a long time before turning to advice, but in the end I decided I had nothing to lose. My story is as follows: my friend and I have been together for almost a year now, we have a very strong and beautiful love, I know he loves me, but lately I've been catching him in lies, he writes to other women in the chat, etc. Once, when we quarreled, I couldn't stand it and told him everything, he apologized and promised to change, but alas, everything is the same, I don't know if this man is worth it at all. I just don't want such a relationship and I don't stop thinking that there is a boy out there who will make me feel loved and happy. What to do I love it, but I'm not happy about it.
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Honey, don't think much of him ... You say to yourself, "I love him, but I'm not happy about it." Well be happy without that relationship. And loving someone doesn't mean having physical intimacy with someone anyway. I have personally heard a few stories about this, but I will write you only one, and I hope it helps you make the right decision. "If you love someone, let him go. If he loves you too, he will come back ...." Good luck!
I advise you to seek your happiness. This relationship of yours is already doomed in its infancy, why waste time and nerves? You realize it yourself, so act! It may hurt in the beginning, but the longer you endure, the worse. I wish you luck and love! Chile
Because I have fallen into this trap - communicating with other people on Skype, I know how difficult it is to completely break away from it. It's not about dumps. Getting to know other people, sharing interests or even problems, the desire to be liked, are inherent in normal people. This is not bad. It's bad when this kind of communication pushes real life into the background, communicating with people who are really close, caring and loving, like you are. I am not in favor of issuing ultimatums, but there are times when things are so out of control that they can only be stopped. I don't know what to advise you. Maybe you are not in a hurry to give up your relationship, but to think about how to revive it a little (basically speaking, I do not know how it is with you), to look for a way to meet your friend's need for this kind of communication.
There is nothing to think about. Put your personal happiness above everything else! If you are not happy, just leave him. You are young and you have many options. There is no point in sitting with a person like him.
Number 1, a very nice saying. I had forgotten her, I will try to remember her more often, because she is very true :)
Thanks to everyone for the valuable advice, I want to turn in particular to number 3. I tried to talk to myself about the topics he talked about, that is, about sex, but it didn't work out, otherwise I ended this morning.
I'm number 3. I am glad that you made a decision and implemented it. I wish you more luck in your next relationship.