I constantly come across various videos about what men want - some sexy girls undress, they voyeur, etc., various forum topics in which sexy ladies are discussed, etc. At the beginning of my relationship with my husband, he had a collection of naked women on his computer, and now they are gone, but he doesn't want me either. We rarely have sex, and if I want two days in a row or to make him French refuses. Even if I'm naked, he doesn't notice me. I start joking that I will find another one, but he takes it as a joke. I work a lot on myself, on my hair, on my figure, but he just doesn't see me as a woman anymore. If we have sex it will be two to 3 times a month. I start looking at different men from the internet, I start dreaming that someone is in love with me because I miss him. There is love, there are many gestures, but not sexual love, I don't know what to call it. she doesn't see me as a woman. He never told me I was sexy, except in the beginning. What to do :(
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He may be under stress in his daily life - work, study, lack of sleep. Therefore, he should be physically or mentally tired and therefore not in the mood for such things. We don't have sex very often with my current partner either, but this is due to the fact that we are both busy - I study and work, he works and when we are together we are often tired and prefer to cuddle and watch a movie. Think you're exaggerating ...
To offer you French and sex and to say how far we took her to me to refuse such things guarantee something your computer is damaged. Hector
Self-winding in women is almost always a consequence of a man's indifference. What are we expected to tell you?
For starters, you can stop telling him you'll find another one lol. You see him taking it as a joke, but hardly. He may not feel safe with you because you are threatening to find another.
If he has a good character, don't leave him. There are times when sex is great, but as people they can't stand it. Think well.
You instill in yourself, you just want to quite often. :) Relax
Well, it's just that after you're not happy in a relationship (and you're obviously not) you leave it. This is - no need for more explanations!
Put the question directly in front of him. Try to find out where the cause is and eliminate it. But this must be done for a certain period of time, not indefinitely. It may be that he has a mistress, for example. And even if he doesn't, you can't put up with three times a month forever, and he has to invest something if he doesn't want to be replaced. Think about it, if he was in your place and you in his, how long would he last and whether this would not be his first excuse to fuck someone. Strange things are men sometimes - he is not interested in his wife, he will not have sex with her, and the world ends if she assumes that she is looking for what is missing in another. Exactly the same thing he would do in her situation. First speak frankly and then decide how to act.
Predispose him somehow. Massage him ... cook him something tasty, dress him provocatively ... Talk to him dirty ... but undress in front of him and start masturbating. He is unlikely to be indifferent to the sight, but if he is - he may be gay :( or not arouse him for some reason. Maybe there is something that is not enough for him? straight text.