I've never had friends or girlfriends, I don't have a job, I don't have a car, I don't have a driver's license, I don't have my own home, so tell me later that I'm up for something? I don't want to justify why it came to this, I obviously have to accept that I was born garbage and I wonder why I even exist when I haven't achieved anything in my life, and I'm already 26? I think it would be best to throw myself from somewhere and not struggle, and my mother and father will be relieved and will not struggle with me. They have always given me money, they carry me on their backs, instead of living their lives, I think they will be better off alone than with a child offspring and failure. They have friends, they built a house, they raised me, they go on vacations abroad, and I can't step on their little finger. I don't deserve them. And they don't deserve their child to be such rubbish as I am. If I got up for something in 26 years, I would have a house, a car and support myself, not wait for ours. It is!
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There are people who were 40 in the same situation. It is best for parents to be alive and healthy and not despair. There is no person who is useless. These things he listed are a plus, but they are never a guarantee that you are a commodity. Accordingly, the possible absence is not a guarantee that you do not get up. It is good that you want to change some things, but let this rigor motivate you to act fruitfully. Good luck and don't unsubscribe.
You have great parents, some don't have that, and that's very important. You are too demanding of yourself. What is your house for, they built it ... Life doesn't happen like in a textbook, as you think. You are glad that you have such parents, and the sick ambitions leave them
He is looking for a job. Whatever it is. At 26, you have to support yourself. Sometimes parents try hard to give everything. Give them a lot, step on it and move on. Hello, you have a family and only a little will on this side and things will happen. Yours is not worth it after all you have done to write all this. They love you.
Why do you think that all 26-year-olds are completely on their feet and have no problems? Your age is fragile, you are still very young. I personally do not know 26-year-olds who have built / bought a house completely on their own. Life is different for everyone. Some meet love at the age of 20 and already have a child at the age of 22, while others do so at the age of 30-35. You think a lot about problems and work a little to solve them. To throw yourself from somewhere and as if to escape from all difficulties, instead of overcoming them. You can tell yourself that you are a failure and stop here, or you can try to get out of the vicious circle and achieve at least one of your goals. Prioritize and start with what you find easiest to achieve. Find a job, meet new colleagues, raise money for a few months and move out. Here - you live and support yourself, having accumulated some social contacts. In practice, this is how you fulfill three and a half of your goals - work, friends, to support yourself, not to live with your parents.
Why are you talking about yourself like that, darling? Don't despair, don't think that way. I'm on the same page, I'm even thinking of posting a topic (at 25, I live with ours, I don't work, everything is ready, few friends, no boyfriend, virgin, on antidepressants, without self-confidence, angry, antisocial, and beauty, mind and the diploma does not warm me). But I'm tightening up. It all comes from not loving yourself, you have no self-esteem. And from electronics. This electronics must be banned by law! So you're not rubbish, you're depressed. Maybe you are more emotional, sensitive, spiritual? I notice an influx of people like us. It is possible that you got stuck somewhere in your childhood. No rubbish and losers, remember! These terms are fascism. There are no people who can't do anything! There is no age limit for love and achievement! Big deal, your parents built houses, the others got married! Someone marries at 40, everyone decides how to live their life! You will write a novel! Admit it honestly, do yours tease you? Darling, building a house or having a child is not the eighth miracle! You are a treasure in itself! And I can't do anything, I can't do anything. Every person is spiritually developed and carries potential, mission, karma. Start loving yourself, going out, reading spiritual literature, going to yoga, keeping notebooks with goals and plans, enrolling in a course or studying. The important thing is to love yourself! All my life I believed that I was useless. I've been told all my life that I'm rubbish. I fell in love, and I stopped wasting my days. People, there is no rubbish and nothing! We must stop with these words. There are unloved ones. You will write a novel! Admit it honestly, do yours tease you? Darling, building a house or having a child is not the eighth miracle! You are a treasure in itself! And I can't do anything, I can't do anything. Every person is spiritually developed and carries potential, mission, karma. Start loving yourself, going out, reading spiritual literature, going to yoga, keeping notebooks with goals and plans, enrolling in a course or studying. The important thing is to love yourself! All my life I believed that I was useless. I've been told all my life that I'm rubbish. I fell in love, and I stopped wasting my days. People, there is no rubbish and nothing foolish! We must stop with these words. There are unloved ones. You will write a novel! Admit it honestly, do yours tease you? Darling, building a house or having a child is not the eighth miracle! You are a treasure in itself! And I can't do anything, I can't do anything. Every person is spiritually developed and carries potential, mission, karma. Start loving yourself, going out, reading spiritual literature, going to yoga, keeping notebooks with goals and plans, enrolling in a course or studying. The important thing is to love yourself! All my life I believed that I was useless. I've been told all my life that I'm rubbish. I fell in love, and I stopped wasting my days. People, there is no rubbish and nothing! We must stop with these words. There are unloved ones. Every person is spiritually developed and carries potential, mission, karma. Start loving yourself, going out, reading spiritual literature, going to yoga, keeping notebooks with goals and plans, enrolling in a course or studying. The important thing is to love yourself! All my life I believed that I was useless. I've been told all my life that I'm rubbish. I fell in love, and I stopped wasting my days. People, there is no rubbish and nothing! We must stop with these words. There are unloved ones. Every person is spiritually developed and carries potential, mission, karma. Start loving yourself, going out, reading spiritual literature, going to yoga, keeping notebooks with goals and plans, enrolling in a course or studying. The important thing is to love yourself! All my life I believed that I was useless. I've been told all my life that I'm rubbish. I fell in love, and I stopped wasting my days. People, there is no rubbish and nothing! We must stop with these words. There are unloved ones.
Batee and I are 26 and I'm coming back from hell figuratively speaking, but for other reasons. I was in debt, only I didn't owe God money. Thousands of levs for a young man ... you remember. Don't ask how I did. I was dumped 100 times by the women I was trying to make a connection with. People I trusted betrayed me in such a way that I still couldn't recover completely because it affected me financially. Over the years, I realized that I had never had real friends with me, and this continues to this day. I have almost no friends. I became a lone wolf, and that turned out to be my strongest asset. That day I almost didn't break my head after an incident and I had to go to Pirogov, I was covered in blood at 3 in the morning in heavy rain. I stood in front of the mirror, looked at myself and started laughing, if you want believe me. I laughed at the whole situation, at myself, of the blood flowing, of not having money, of being all wet, and of having a hole in my head, I laughed at how simple life is because we make it seem difficult, and then we complain about things. Life is not a race, it is given to us simply to live and enjoy, not to race. And yet, man, in spite of all the nonsense, I have not given up hope for something much, much better that lies ahead. I haven't lived with ours for a long time. It's been less than 10 years now, I'm doing a super dumb job for 1000, but don't let that get me far ahead of you with the material. I interrupted my education 100 times and I haven't finished yet, but I don't give up wanting something much more than what I have. Yes, I have moments of great despair, especially when you don't have BGN 1 in you, but then I remember how much I want everything to change and I am overwhelmed by a sporting zeal and anger that motivates me. It doesn't matter what your current situation is, it doesn't define you as a person. You define yourself as a failure. Change the direction of your thoughts. Sit on a piece of paper and write down everything you think you want to achieve in the next 6 months or 1 year. And you immediately start working on it. Prove to yourself that you can change. Fake it till you make it. If you believe in yourself and think you are successful, everyone else will start thinking of you as such. But thinking alone does not work. Crush hard and good luck! Change the direction of your thoughts. Sit on a piece of paper and write down everything you think you want to achieve in the next 6 months or 1 year. And you start working on it right away. Prove to yourself that you can change. Fake it till you make it. If you believe in yourself and think you are successful, everyone else will start thinking of you as such. But thinking alone does not work. Crush hard and good luck! Change the direction of your thoughts. Sit on a piece of paper and write down everything you think you want to achieve in the next 6 months or 1 year. And you start working on it right away. Prove to yourself that you can change. Fake it till you make it. If you believe in yourself and think you are successful, everyone else will start thinking of you as such. But thinking alone does not work. Crush hard and good luck!