I'm Scared The First Time, I Don't Know How.

   The question is not HOW - the mechanics are simple and the same for all mammals - we have the appropriate instincts, a monkey doing it and you will not be left behind. The main question should be WITH WHAT and WITH WHOM. I guess you have already decided WITH WHOM, in which I support you - where there is love, there is no one else to interfere with you. But WHAT IS IMPORTANT, namely - WITH A CONDOM OR CONCEPTUAL. There is no other variant of your age (the IUD is for newborns, intercourse with interruption leads in 20% of cases to a baby). In short, not HOW is the problem (it is congenital, as long as you have the appropriate hole) The problem is not to conceive and not to ruin your life, and with it that of your parents, your friend and possibly a baby. It's no secret that the first time is not the coolest time for both, but this is normal - you will have something to laugh at in the old days, but this will neither ruin your life nor ruin the lives of your loved ones, and in the next 1001 nights, God forbid 80-101 years of life, you will catch up with pleasure as pleasure and fun, if you do not shit (conceive) now. Choose condoms or contraceptives - the rest is easy. In addition, I recommend a lubricant (such as Durex) so that it does not hurt and so that you achieve better sensitivity. The special lubricants are water-based and are fully compatible with condoms. In addition, they have a PH of the intimate organs, do not irritate and DO NOT STAIN on clothes, are very easy to wash and do not smell. Do not use other "lubricants" such as knot, oil, oil, olive creams, if you use condoms, because everything is fat-based and DISTRIBUTE CONDOM, make ugly stains on clothes and wash off very hard, smell and rot in the vagina.

   Don't do it in time you will regret. He's just waiting for that, and then he's going to dump you. I guarantee you that after a few times in bed you will start arguing and you will be very sorry after he dumps you. If he needs to go to another. I am a boy of 16 and I can guarantee you that it will happen. Just don't tie yourself up and be careful. If you're not ready, don't, and even if you're ready, wait another two weeks (for example). The body is a temple! I know that. In time, another will appear and you will let him in, and he will plead with you later, and so will the next and the next. Finally, when you tell a boy how many boys you slept with ... I guess what;).

   Do not worry. I guess you've had intimate contact without penetration so far. The important thing is to relax and want it. Let him kiss you and touch you. Protective equipment is also mandatory. And for easier penetration I will recommend you if you are not ashamed (it is useless) to tell your friend to buy a water-based lubricant (they are compatible with condoms) and before it penetrates you to do it a little with fingers smeared with lubricant.

   Well, you just have to lie down somewhere and spread your legs. The boy should insert his dick into your pussy and perform reciprocating movements until the semen flows. Basically, that's it. I hope I've been helpful.

   I don't know what to tell you, I'm 28 and I haven't done it.

   Hello dear! I hasten to reassure you that you have nothing to worry about - everyone stubbornly scared me for years, how much it will hurt me, how three days after the act I will walk like-not-say-what, how much blood will flow ... STOP !! There is no such thing, or at least there was none. My friend and I trusted each other very much - and we continue to trust each other, and things happened in a uniquely tender and at the same time passionate way. Blood? There was none. Pain? Also. Discomfort? None. It was just a pleasure. Tips: - drink one shortly before the act; will calm you down. Of course, you don't have to pour. - have condoms and a lubricant suitable for condoms. At such a time you should not take risks. - be as calm as possible. If a dude is a dude, he won't hurt you. If you feel any pain, ask him to stop for a while. - rediscover yourself before the act itself. Get to know your bodies in all possible ways. Touch everywhere, whisper kind words ... Intimacy is important, especially the first time. - when the time comes, let him act slowly and sensually. If he offers to give you French caresses, don't refuse. It helps a lot, believe me. - Create an atmosphere. - find a comfortable place. - Kiss for a long time, but do it spontaneously. - stock up on daily bandages for after the act and lie down for a while after it's all over. - check that the condom does not burst after the end! If there is a problem, buy Escapel and be careful in the future! In general, the key words are LOVE, TENDERNESS, COMFORT. Don't be afraid, because the feeling of merging with your loved one is totally irreplaceable and wonderful. And then you will become incredibly close. You will share something amazing together. Tip: do not rush with the second act. Wait at least a day before making love again. Let your body gradually get used to the new sensations. Good luck, darling, we are with you! :)

   At 16 sex well done to you and your smart mother?

   Abe, when the time comes, it is not said that you should do it at 16, when you feel that you are ready, you let go and you're done. And don't worry, if the boy really loves you, he'll know you're not ready, and if you don't dump him, that's it. Don't feel overwhelmed, and when you really want it :) write what happened

   Wow, №1, it's the horse :) And does a "knot" of "knots" come? Mom, you work hard .. Look at the whole thing (from the opening to the normal sex life) as a process that lasts about half a year. Well, it might hurt a little the first time, but big deal. Then give yourself 1-2 weeks off. Then try again until things start to go smoothly and painlessly. And only then will you be able to "dive" into the experience. In a few months you will no longer remember what was the first time, nor will you care ... in time you will laugh at your own mind now. Boldly forward and that's it! If you can't get aroused and moisturized due to worries - use lubricant as advised №1. Contraceptives? You will not do the job to the end and so much (for that you have hands, a mouth ..)

   It is not said now. Take your time, don't be sorry.

   She is 16 and I think she could do it because there are 11-12 to do it really, so it's not very serious and there was a 13-year-old to do it with a 22-year-old. the mother does not worry because she wants to build trust in her daughter .. and she has nothing to worry about if she believes in her daughter ..

   Don't worry! Be yourself! If you truly love each other, it won't be a problem for you, believe me. You won't even feel when this experience happened. It happens by itself. Live for the moment, do it and then again. I wish you much success!

   Don't have sex at such an early age. There is time.

   Let me also express my opinion. You have nothing to fear, I went very little with my friend and not to set a bad example or something like that, but things happened suddenly without us thinking about it. I was 17 he was opening a girl for the first time even though he had other connections. It wasn't scary and it didn't hurt that much. Well, there was a little blood. If you think the person next to you is serious and loves you, things will happen. We did it, I was afraid of a serious relationship and we broke up. After that I was the initiator of our gathering and so we have been together for two years and we are even expecting a baby again at our request. Don't worry if you don't think you're ready, but if you think you want to be with him and if he has serious intentions for you. Take this step. And do you know my last piece of advice is to talk to a close or loyal relative or friend. :) congratulations from me and good luck