Hello! I am a 26 year old woman and mother of 2 small children. I have been living with a man I haven't married for 3 years - he doesn't want to. We have talked about marriage many times, more precisely I have talked, but every time he procrastinates and I see that he is not talked about much. Anyway, that's not the problem. The problem is that I feel unhappy with this man, I see that he doesn't love me even though he says the opposite, and only when I ask him. We hardly talk, we don't discuss anything, we don't have sex regularly, and we don't even sleep together ... I'm in one room with the poop, he is in the other with the baby. I feel unnecessary and swollen from everything and I want to change something in my life. I even thought of leaving him, but I don't know if that's the solution. What to do How do I get out of the trap of loneliness?
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Honey, why is there a man who doesn't love you and who tells you I love you only when you ask him, he doesn't come from inside. Don't bother, it doesn't make sense, what keeps you with him? The children? He will stay again father of your children, with the one difference that you can really meet the love of your life, a man who loves you with all his heart. How can a young family not sleep together, will not talk to each other, will not tell you I love you? This is not life, but torture, I do not want to urge you to leave him, but my opinion is that you should not be with a person who feels that he does not love you. improvement, it is best to separate, especially since you are not married and it will be much easier for you.
What you are telling us is "scary" .... There should be no communication between you, you should sleep separately, that these strangers will understand each other better. In my opinion, IF I am in your place, I will part with him and look for a soulmate. I know it is difficult, but now it is even harder for you ... Gather strength and change your life ....... He is yours. You will find a person who loves you ... I see that you are good, but you are afraid. The years go by ..... Be more determined. SUCCESS Rossiros 49
Honey, talk nice to this young man and if he doesn't know what family and togetherness are, you can say goodbye!
Hey, that's why there are so many women looking for other women for sex. Anyway, sweet girl, the reason for your distance is that you got together too early and maybe because of the child? I'm a 36-year-old man and I've learned a lot about relationships ... You have to know that we men are pretty congested in general. He can't guess if you don't talk to him, but you have to do it gently and understandingly. I know it's hard, but we men are more sensitive and especially yours, which has long been burdened with children, wife, care. So my advice is - be affectionate with him and talk to him more often, telling him in plain text what you want and what you expect. Hint your wishes to him, but never mention a wedding. Only when he feels your strong love, that you like and respect him, the need to help you and your desire to sleep together (make changes with the children),
The fact that you are still together means that not everything is lost. Think about why the gentleman has retired to his rooms - in all probability out of boredom - you are constantly drinking for his marriage. Caress him again, you have other women's weapons - and you will achieve yours. Winnie the Pooh
Nnneee .. Winnie the Pooh The point is that we women (not all of course) feel more secure if there is a marriage. I dare say that once I got burned, I don't even think about marriage. A signature doesn't change anything, on the contrary ... it even spoils the relationship. And this man should explain to her that he is not ready. for marriage, not to separate and HIDE in the other room ... There is no communication between them. Not to bury my head in the sand and run away from problems A woman, even without a signature, should feel safe, loved, wanted. Maybe this is the problem in this case. № 4 You are absolutely right, I am a woman with 49 years of experience and I approached my friend in the same way you mention. And he still admits that he is the happiest with a woman like me. Rosiros
At 26, find someone else to love you!