I come up with a specific question - How on earth can I befriend a boy to become my best friend (And stay that way) All the girls (come on most) have very good boy friends. The thing is, I'm terribly shy and I can't even say anything right when I'm talking to a boy. I have a girlfriend who has a best friend - he likes her, she doesn't. I don't want this to happen to me and how can I prevent it? And is it possible to have a friendship between a girl and a boy, without flirtations, sex and such intimate / love relationships?
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Of course, it is possible darling :) although in some cases it happens that one of them sinks ... but anyway - you say that you are shy .. first - do not take this as a complex :) completely you I understand I was like that before, but everything has changed. How old are you? No matter, I can advise you anyway, if it's a little difficult for you to make friends with a boy on your own, why don't you ask a friend to introduce you to a boy. Not to become boyfriends, but just like that - for example you tell her "Let's have coffee tomorrow, but so that we are not alone and get bored, take one of your friends to be a joke" :) and remember - don't be ashamed, because there is nothing unnatural in that your girlfriend with a boy. Behave with him as you behave with your friends - conversations, jokes but the ball .. And then write what happened !! : Р Good luck. К.
Abe, there is no friendship between a boy and a girl, provided that they are best friends ... or rather it is up to time because one begins to feel feelings for the other sooner or later ... the conclusion is from personal experience
To number 2: You know you're not the only one in this world. From your "experience" you claim that this friendship does not exist. Well, from my personal experience I boldly declare that this is POSSIBLE!
Best friends, boy and girl - not possible. Hormones are hormones. And all this connection leads to a deepening of feelings, etc .. So, if you ask me, have a best friend
ITS POSSIBLE! Don't believe them, this nonsense about hormones is a lie! They are just excuses for their parents because their children behave like drug addicts. I've never had a girlfriend - just friends and I haven't dated any of them. And №2, where he thinks that the universe revolves around him and "his personal attempts" to shut his mouth! Female-25 years
Ironically, I agree with all the comments. Yes, a friendship between a boy / man and a girl / woman is possible without sex. Also from personal experience. Again, from personal experience, I can say that things start as number 2 describes. Either you make friends first and then one falls in love, or - as it was with me - in the reverse order: first one falls in love, then you see, that nothing will happen and you remain friends. In this case, I was in love, but they cut me off (I admit - tactfully), because I was one of the shy ones like the author, and the object of my love was the revolving chicks. However, in our quest to stay around her in some way, we became very close and remain so 15 years later. In the meantime, it can be said that we had sex, although technically we are not (I will not go into details), but that does not hinder our friendship. At the moment, the girl in question is quite sorry that she didn't "take" me when she had this opportunity, because her current one is full of shit and they have a lot of other problems, so now the parties have been exchanged. But that's another story. At number 4 I can say that best friend and best friend have NOTHING in common! It doesn't matter if you look at him as a man or as a woman. As a man with friends, you can watch a game, drink beer and play insider jokes at work. As a woman with friends, you can talk about hairstyles, beauticians and aerobics. Friendship between a man and a woman is a completely different movie. Kubrat At number 4 I can say that best friend and best friend have NOTHING in common! It doesn't matter if you look at him as a man or as a woman. As a man with friends, you can watch a game, drink beer and play insider jokes at work. As a woman with friends, you can talk about hairstyles, beauticians and aerobics. Friendship between a man and a woman is a completely different movie. Kubrat At number 4 I can say that best friend and best friend have NOTHING in common! It doesn't matter if you look at him as a man or as a woman. As a man with friends, you can watch a game, drink beer and play insider jokes at work. As a woman with friends you can talk about hairstyles, beauticians and aerobics. Friendship between a man and a woman is a completely different movie. Kubrat
Yes, Kubrat, that's right we only talk about hairstyles and beauticians, we don't drink beer and we don't watch matches and we don't have jokes about work. How are we going to work when we can ruin our manicure or hairstyle? :)
It's possible, and I'm dreaming about it (I'm a boy). Very few want it. For most, sex, kisses and the like are important. NO, THIS IS NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING FOR ME. I've been thinking a lot about having a real girlfriend, but so far I haven't been able to do it. I just don't see the right people for me and that's it. I've tried, it doesn't work. I'm lonely and shy, but I'll last if I can't find it.
It's possible - I have a BFF boy and we're together all the time. There are no feelings between us. We are in the same class and it is a lot of fun. I was shy and didn't talk to boys at all until the 4th grade. Now I only hang out with them because the girls have become some full muffins where they just drool
I am a girl of 13 and I really want to have a boyfriend, because most girls my age are super leagues (make-up, lipstick, short dresses, etc.). I think it is quite possible to have a friendship between girls and boys. Good luck :)
Number 8, the examples were for illustrative purposes :-) I hope you understood what I meant. If it's a question, I'm not a fan of beer and I don't watch matches, and my wife does both. However, I argue that friendship between a man and a woman has nothing to do with gender equality. (And this is true even among gays and lesbians, I dare say.)
I also really want to find friends guys. I'm 14. I'm not ashamed to talk to them, but I'm just not good at talking. When I talk to a boy, I don't know what to tell him. I don't know how to get his attention, to show interest in me, and not to think that I'm bad and not to care. Can you tell me what I could do?
I have a best friend and there is nothing between us and there can be nothing, because that's just the way we perceive things, and we are direct and tell each other everything. So a girl and a boy can be NDP. Sorry if there are spelling mistakes!
I think you can have a best friend too. Try to overcome your shame. Good luck
I have my own opinion that there can be no best friend between a girl and a boy. It is theoretically possible, but practically not, because sometimes one of the two falls in love and begins to feel feelings for the other. At least that's what happened to me 3 times.
Let me give you a piece of advice from personal experience ... You better get together only with boys! Believe me, much better friends are than girls ... and this is nonsense, that there can be no friendship between a boy and a girl ... they don't have to be attracted :) Girls are generally quite hypocritical and we gossip (there are exceptions of course, but they are rare), and boys usually do not have these things (there are exceptions again) ... My company personally is entirely made up of boys and it has been so for a long time and I have never had an intimate relationship with any of them. I have girlfriends of course, but I don't share even half of the things that happen to me - I just don't trust them :))