Hello! I am 17 and I have a friend with whom I have been for almost 3 years. He is 23. The problem is that after all the daily monotonous and unreasonable arguments, the thrill disappeared. How do I dump it? All our friends are together, we go out every day, we have so many memories together. We parted dozens of times but then we reunited. I don't know what has been happening to me for several months, and there is a boy I was with during the period when my boyfriend and I were separated. And so I went crazy for this boy, even though we didn't have a serious relationship, but I'm too proud to show my "madness" to him (and he's a womanizer). And now when I see this boy, my heart pounding and my stomach shrinks, and he is the only one who has ever impressed me with the behavior of a macho, light "hooligan" but at the same time a mature, self-confident man. You know these types of men who grab you with their charm ... well, he's one of them. So ... I love my boyfriend but he doesn't have those qualities that drive me crazy. For 3 months we have had almost no sex (once a week only) against my will ... I just can't get aroused :( How should I do it? And I don't want to hurt him, because there are rarely people like him ... .
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Hi, I just posted exactly the same story :) I'm in the same situation. In my opinion, in this situation it is best to admit to your partner that things are not going well and that love is no more, but I know from personal experience that it is not so easy. I myself have been trying to share it with him for 2 months, but somehow I am afraid of the consequences and that I will miss him too much :(
Hi, I just posted exactly the same story :) I'm in the same situation. In my opinion, in this situation it is best to admit to your partner that things are not going well and that love is no more, but I know from personal experience that it is not so easy. I myself have been trying to share it with him for 2 months, but somehow I am afraid of the consequences and that I will miss him too much :(
Well, there's nothing to dodge. You sit at a table and talk like adults, you tell him things as they are. If you don't break up with him now, you'll hurt him more in time. Don't ruin someone else's life because of your guilt !!!
Consider me baht tell him the dude doesn't bother him then try not to post a topic here with the title "he doesn't know what he wants" or "this womanizer hurt me a lot" good luck to both of you but I sincerely wish him to the dude not to you