Hello! I'm a 20-year-old girl, my boyfriend is 21. We've only been together for 2 months, and he's already cheated on me with at least 2 (I'm sure for 2). I want to break up with him, but not before I give it back to him. In fact, I didn't want to go with him at all (because I know what he's like), but he insisted for more than a month, and I finally decided to give him a chance, BUT NOW I'M SORRY. For now, I pretend I don't know anything. I want to make him regret everything and understand that one day he will really need someone (not just to fuck), but then he will be ALONE. I don't want it to sound like I'm bragging, but I think I'm a very valuable person - beautiful, intelligent and kind, and pretty good at sex ...
He just doesn't deserve me. I tried to swallow the fact that he often misbehaves with me, yells at me, and it has happened that he hits me 1-2 times (it's nothing special), not to mention that he stole my phone (after I found out outside). The problem is that I am too naive and patient. Anyway, the glass is already overflowing and I don't want to let him make a mess of me anymore (because that's exactly what he does). Neither he nor anyone else. I'm tired already. I'm just nervous non-stop. And he says that he loves me - hahaha. I'm 100% not the only one who caused this, I want to teach him a lesson, so to speak.
How do I return it to him? I want to deeply regret everything, I don't want to be fucked again. In general, I don't like indiscriminate sex, but now I'm ready to do it, kind of so that I don't fall behind (of course he won't be with a stranger). But that will be just one of the things. I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO??? that he stole my phone (after I found out outside). The problem is that I am too naive and patient. Anyway, the glass is already overflowing and I don't want to let him make a mess of me anymore (because that's exactly what he does).
Neither he nor anyone else. I'm tired already. I'm just nervous non-stop. And he says that he loves me - hahaha. I'm 100% not the only one who caused this, I want to teach him a lesson, so to speak. How do I return it to him? I want to deeply regret everything, I don't want to be fucked again. In general, I don't like indiscriminate sex, but now I'm ready to do it, kind of so that I don't fall behind (of course he won't be with a stranger). But that will be just one of the things. I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO??? that he stole my phone (after I found out outside). The problem is that I am too naive and patient. Anyway, the glass is already overflowing and I don't want to let him make a mess of me anymore (because that's exactly what he does). Neither he nor anyone else. I'm tired already. I'm just nervous non-stop. And he says that he loves me - hahaha. I'm 100% not the only one who caused this, I want to teach him a lesson, so to speak.
How do I return it to him? I want to deeply regret everything, I don't want to be fucked again. In general, I don't like indiscriminate sex, but now I'm ready to do it, kind of so as not to be left behind (of course he won't be with a stranger). But that will be just one of the things. I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO??? Anyway, the glass is already overflowing and I don't want to let him make a mess of me anymore (because that's exactly what he does). Neither he nor anyone else. I'm tired already. I'm just nervous non-stop. And he says that he loves me - hahaha. I'm 100% not the only one who caused this, I want to teach him a lesson, so to speak. How do I return it to him? I want to deeply regret everything, I don't want to be fucked again. In general, I don't like indiscriminate sex, but now I'm ready to do it, kind of so that I don't fall behind (of course he won't be with a stranger). But that will be just one of the things. I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO???
Anyway, the glass is already overflowing and I don't want to let him make a mess of me anymore (because that's exactly what he does). Neither he nor anyone else. I'm tired already. I'm just nervous non-stop. And he says that he loves me - hahaha. I'm 100% not the only one who caused this, I want to teach him a lesson, so to speak. How do I return it to him? I want to deeply regret everything, I don't want to be fucked again. In general, I don't like indiscriminate sex, but now I'm ready to do it, kind of so that I don't fall behind (of course he won't be with a stranger). But that will be just one of the things. I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO??? I'm just nervous non-stop. And he says that he loves me - hahaha. I'm 100% not the only one who caused this, I want to teach him a lesson, so to speak. How do I return it to him? I want to deeply regret everything, I don't want to be fucked again. In general, I don't like indiscriminate sex, but now I'm ready to do it, kind of so as not to be left behind (of course he won't be with a stranger).
But that will be just one of the things. I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO??? I'm just nervous non-stop. And he says that he loves me - hahaha. I'm 100% not the only one who caused this, I want to teach him a lesson, so to speak. How do I return it to him? I want to deeply regret everything, I don't want to be fucked again. In general, I don't like indiscriminate sex, but now I'm ready to do it, kind of so that I don't fall behind (of course he won't be with a stranger). But that will be just one of the things. I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO??? so as not to be left behind (of course he will not be with a stranger). But that will be just one of the things.
I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO??? so as not to be left behind (of course he will not be with a stranger). But that will be just one of the things. I can't think of anything else. I can't take it anymore, I don't know how to deal with it at the moment. WHAT TO DO???
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I don't think it's worth giving it back. Why you have to fall to his level. He will punish himself in time, believe me!
If you do what you want. You may not hurt him at all. Because, as she said herself, he may not really love you. And 2 months is not enough for him to feel such strong feelings that he cannot live without you. And you will imperceptibly become another stupid whore. And for what? And you will not know. But the choice is yours. I just want to tell you that in my opinion. What you think is normal for a "neighborhood whore" woman. And you described yourself as a smart girl. I hope so, and not just to think so. Good luck in life.
It really doesn't make sense. Apparently that's how he understands life. Get away from him as quickly as possible, find a valuable person to be happy with. Only at 20, life is ahead of you. Don't tune in to revenge. Fate will give it back to him. Trust me.
Big mistake. And if he doesn't care about you, and excuse me, that's how things look to me. And what is the meaning of revenge. Live your life and do not ruin it with nonsense like revenge. In 10 years you will laugh at such an act.
No sense in telling you now - I don't wanna ruin the suprise. Why should you do it for the sake of it, and not for your own pleasure! And even if you do, then what ... You will be satisfied with a satisfied day, two ..., but then I assure you you will regret it. So head up, life is in front of you, and never be with a man to give him a chance! I wish you a lot of success and only positive emotions!
Darling, I was the same way until a month ago. But for me, infidelity was every day. I forgave him for 3 months and I couldn't take it anymore. I told him to stop but nothing happened. we started fighting and arguing, I spat in his eyes and insulted him with anger. Because I knew he was doing it to hurt me, because he had been hurt before. in the end we broke up 7 times in 1 month, he kept apologizing to me and I came back again and it was the same. We finally met at the disco the next day after I left him for the last time. We quarreled, he made me beat me, and he only asked me why I was doing this ... He insulted me and with my malice I yelled and tore the front cover of his car with the inscription "I love garbage". I felt very good to tell you, he is looking for me to beat me and cut my hair, but when we met again, I slept with them, he did not touch me with his finger. Now I don't want to see him even though I miss him a lot, but the important thing is that I got him back and now his friends are making fun of him. You better not poison your nerves, make fun of him and beat his jester because you won't get far
And I thought it was an option because I've been in a similar situation but it's not there are two options one is if you like to make him understand what kind of woman is next to him and try to evaluate you, but not in the way who you think through those little female secrets ... and if you don't love him, beat his jester while it's time ... because if you fall in love it becomes scary ... LOVE IS BLIND ... and it is possible to fall into its trap .. .GOOD LUCK!!!
Why punish yourself for it? I'm sure he won't care at all if you cheat on him. He dumped him!
First, you learn how to behave, a smart and well-mannered girl will never use expressions like "make fun of me", second, if you had such a high dignity, you would never tolerate this attitude, to shout at you, insult you even more. -a little encroachment. He cheated on you at least twice in 2 months, what kind of love are we talking about then? She thought to herself. And even if you take revenge on him to make you feel better, I doubt it. And even more so if you sleep with someone else, you will only hurt yourself, you will be the whore and he will be the playboy.
DON'T LISTEN TO THE OTHERS !! THERE IS A WAY TO MAKE HIM PITY AND DESERVE HIMSELF !!! Why am I saying this? Well, because so far I've had 2 girlfriends who have had the same case, namely to be with some garbage who does not know how to behave, and I suffer from this job, because whatever I say, they first agree, and then they do something else, but ... I'm sorry - at least in the cases I know the mistake is in the girl, because it's not right to blame people for not being what we want them to be. It's not said that you have to sleep with someone to make them feel sorry, a play can always be played and without "sacrificing", I would help you, BUT NOT FOR YOU, but because I want to have the pleasure of making such idiots, who do not know their place to SUFFER! [email protected]
No Sense of Returning :) The bull threw his finger on his head like a digger Let him do whatever he wants away from such ungrateful people :)
Honey, I know what's wrong with you, mine is such an idiot, the trick is to have fun with other people, what you think of under "have fun", to expose it to his friends, to tell shit about him to people he depends on, without him to know, of course, to throw away his favorite clothes secretly, and most importantly, if he ever gets upset and starts talking to you about some sentimental topic like childhood, memories or some such boza, show that you are not interested and start doing something else right away ... You don't know how it works. Oh, and also make fun of him and make fun of him as you remember. Make it a rag and you will see how it will start to serve and respect you. They only understand from you
You can make friends with his "wives" and in a few days you can invite your new friends and they will understand everything! Unless, of course, they know
I do not want to offend anyone but some comments are really "whore" .... and to the author-if you do what you thought you will only regret, I share the thinking of number 2 but number 10 is right somewhere .... But most nice and easy for you to dump it that's still yes
Listen now: 1) you put his number in a newspaper with ads Adam is looking for Adam - write something like passive looking for anonymous sex, the terrain is secured. Let them set his phone on fire. 2) you profile him on a dating site and start writing dirt on various men on his behalf. If someone intends to beat him - even give him the address. 3) you make an attractive female profile and talk about it. You take him off for a while and then invite him to a villa where you are (for example outside the city), tell him to take flowers or something, take him out of the car and start telling him on the phone that you are coming, just a minute - until he gets out , let it freeze a bit. Come on, good health :)
Get away from him, what will you give him back. Run as far and as fast as possible. There is nothing to sit and do nonsense. And in general, how can you sit next to someone who hit you? Even if you call it "nothing special". Abe hey (((((: have a little dignity.