I'm terribly confused ... I went with a boy for a year and a half. A year ago we broke up at my request. He loves me very much and has not yet lost hope of getting together. The problem is that in my head everything is very confused. I don't know if I like him, I don't know if I feel anything for him, but lately I've been thinking about the possibility of returning to him. And I just decide to tell him and something stops me. It stops me that I will get bored again, we will go for a few weeks and I will want to separate again, and he will not tolerate me to leave him again, nor will I forgive him :( At the same time I think about other guys who But also for him ... for how I want to see him, to hug him, to kiss him ... And then I say NO again! I've never been so confused and I don't know what I'm doing ...
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Well, I don't know the reason you dumped him, but you say you're afraid you'll get bored again. But if you think about him and you miss him, then you have strong feelings. I think try to go back to him, then you may regret not doing it. But you need to clarify what is holding you back. If you really "get bored" again soon and drop it, no one will be happy! Success!
Give him a chance, get together
I really hate people like you! And I went through one of them and it hurt so much afterwards that something in me broke and since then I give it back to all the girls I'm with! One has to make fun of you to respect him!
And I did it - I dumped, I came back, I hurt extremely decent guys, I'm just fickle and I can't stand it. I don't think I can really love and that's where the problems come from. You better leave him alone, you'll hurt him again.
Do boys hurt more than girls?
The problem with me is similar. But my parents don't let me be with him and that also stops me. It's terribly difficult .. and it hurts a lot .. I haven't been more confused until now .. when I go out with him and we talk about before I feel sad that we are already separated but when he's gone I don't miss him very much, but I care about him , I'm interested in what's going on around him and I don't know what to do ..