Hi, my story started 9 years ago when I was 16! I had an affair with a boy who I didn't like very much, but during the circumstances I got pregnant and we decided to get married. I wasn't very sure what was waiting for me, but obviously there was no one to give me advice. From the beginning when my daughter was born she was patient somehow, but then on the part of my husband, numerous lies, frauds, infidelities began, she did not give 5 money for me for our child. He reached for my own sister and first cousin. We separated for 1 year and he came to pray for me again and I returned to him. And after 7 years I am again faced with the dilemma of whether to leave or stay? I always stopped because of our child, but it just became unbearable. I don't care, sometimes he beats me and drives me away, he hasn't supported me for many years, etc. She threatens me that if I leave she will be without the child and I live because of her. Please advise me something!
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I wonder what else you are waiting for! This is a great disrespect from you to you - to suffer such harassment, why? I have been divorced for 10 years, believe me I know what it is like to be beaten, insulted and humiliated by the father of your child and the man you loved. Take your child and abandon him forever, because this harassment will never stop .While you are healthy and upright and young, you will manage without him. And remember something very important - it is better for the child to live only with you, but calmly, than with the two of you, but in subtle scandals, beatings and fear. you have decent parents and loyal friends to support you in your decision, I do not see what else you are waiting for! Up head-the world does not end with one / man / jerk-excuse me for the expression. I wish you all the best!
Why do you even think. After thinking about your child, save him immediately from this bullying, save yourself. You are so young, just think how many good moments could happen to you, and if you stay - hardly! You are independent why you allow some to make fun of your life! Get out of there and good luck !!!
Come on, hop and get out of there. There are already protection agencies that can help you. You don't need him for anything, and if it doesn't help you financially, don't think about it, girl, the child will be happier without such a father.
I think he treats you like that because he feels that you are something more than him and he can't accept it because when he bullies you he takes over or at least he thinks so. I am in a similar situation too, but I don't think the time is coming and you are suffering.
THERE ARE LAWS FOR MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HARASSMENT. SEEK YOUR RIGHTS, HE CAN'T TAKE YOUR CHILD SO EASILY, PROVE IN COURT ABOUT THE ATTACK ON YOUR SISTER AND YOUR CLUB. GOOD LUCK