Hello! I am a 15 year old girl. I sit at the computer for more than 5 hours every day. I'm constantly on the Internet, I'm constantly on Skype, I just don't go out, I don't have girlfriends and I'm a hell of a closed girl. My mother and father constantly tease me that the computer is not my life, that life is outside, but I neither listen to them nor anything ... On the Internet they started with the same ls. That I was super limited to be on Facebook or other sites all day ... What's their problem? Well, to look at their lives, why do they care about someone they don't even know ?! I'm tired of being judged for who I am. After school - computer; This has been my whole life, but so be it! Issue?! I like to sit at the computer like any normal teenager, but what? Am I hurting anyone? I just can't understand most of them ... I don't want advice because I know I won't change,
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Perhaps the criticism is justified. At your age, I only read books, which is an even more lonely activity, ours only quarreled with me. So ... I decided to be here as soon as possible. Enroll in a sport. Let yours, if they want you not in front of the computer, to invest in the best fitness club, for example. You will feel great, you will meet great people. After the gym - for coffee ... In the cafe - internet !!!! As for your behavior on the net - well, write either here or under different names - make a few faces. Don't bother. For example, I hardly use Facebook anymore. Find an alternative.
Listen to your parents, please ... try to find friends outside the internet. I don't have many friends / I have 3-4 in my neighborhood, there are more in school, but they are from another town / village and I can't go out with them / and I also sit a lot at the computer, but when the few I have call me, I go out immediately, as long as it's not too cold and I'm not sick. Find your friends off the internet, it's a lot more fun;)
And I'm in the same situation so I was about 3 years and now I'm 15 I will go to the eye doctor because once I did not think about my eyes as I stood in front of the computer and now I also have no fr except one of the teacher and she travels by bus after a teacher because he lives in a village. Because the town where I live is small and everyone knows his rural work and there is not a single gym, but I found a way to kill my time by studying and training at home http: // fitnesinstruktor. com / is very popular in it you will find useful things about sports and health.
Don't shut yourself in, at least in front of the computer. I know you may like it, you may be calmer, but this is not the right decision. In time you will realize how much you have lost and how much, you actually want to live your life, but then it will be too late. Change something in yourself. Diversity your life. Little by little. I know most of today's children are terrible. Rude, rude, etc. I also know that it is difficult to find real friends and people with whom you can be good. But you have to find someone to go out with. Have fun in a different way than in front of the screen. You have to change gradually, otherwise you will just lose your life for nothing, and he is only one.