I'm Tired Of Judges And Moralists

   The world would be a much better place if only people planned and wanted their children, and didn't make them, so that there would be. But unfortunately, everyone is going and we see the results.

   Let me ask again about the Middle Ages, I want to ask about the Middle Ages, tell her again about the Middle Ages ... do we live in the Middle Ages, man of the future?

   I'm tired too, author. This is hypocrisy and illogical thinking, or even lack thereof. Women give sex, men give money. It's like we're in a flea market.

   I also don't want to have children, and when I told acquaintances about it, they judged me for my words. After all, we are in the 21st century and everyone has the right to live their life the way they want. I support you. Here on this site, as well as in general, most are looking to attack someone for their different opinions. And some people just share here, they don't need to be attacked.

   Explain to me now, a woman who loves sex and does it for pleasure and does not think about giving, what do you men call her? Oooh, yes, we must know that we give, because some of the men are not yet old enough for the other.

   I recently read a topic, unfortunately I don't remember the title, but it also affected your theory in part. A man was asking how to ask for sex. Well, somewhere in the comments I came across the opinion of a woman who calmly explained that a woman who has sex for pleasure is often defined as blood. And what about that? I want to point out that this is something that affects women from the moment they turn 14 (already). Your breasts grow before it happens to other girls, you are now officially a sexual object and you tolerate all sorts of comments behind your back. I once wore a blouse with dropped shoulders, which is not the same as a deep neckline. I didn't bend down, I didn't question it, I didn't take pictures in the toilets with a crease in my waist, but I still managed to hear for myself that I was obviously looking for him. I was 16 years old, I felt extremely low. That same year, it happened to a friend who was officially wearing high heels. This happens today to most women I know and have sex with men who are not so close to them. You sleep with someone for the first month - blood, you don't sleep with the first month in question - frigid. This is the secret opinion of a large part of the population, you remember - a public secret. I hide behind anonymity, so I can honestly say that many women are afraid of such comments and even if it is not fear, at least they are extremely uncomfortable with such. For me, things are simple. One has the right to do whatever one wishes. I literally don't care about the others, my life is theirs. Judges have a step there is a meter, you can not please everyone. Let the one who has never been judged for his appearance, his sexuality, his knowledge and his opinion raise his hand. I do not think, that there are such. It's not bad that you don't want a serious relationship and the idea of ​​marriage and your children is far away, but don't deceive the others, it would waste their time. Sometimes our personal views affect others in this way. The mistake is yours, if you do not share theirs in time, if they do not pay attention to the comment and do not take it seriously. Such sincere preferences are said at the outset. Be sure that there are women who will not believe you and will want to change your mind through their love. So be short, clear and emphatic. Some will agree with you because they will have the same opinion, while others will judge you and run away. Both types of women will be right for themselves. However, I would not have sex with you if I have known you for several days and you want it as impudently as possible. Not many women will blindly trust your discretion (not to tell them in detail) and not many will agree for years and years to a light relationship based on sex. Everyone has a biological clock that starts counting down sooner or later. The problem is that a woman can fall in love with you, love you and ask for a family just from you, not from anyone. It doesn't have to happen right away or in 5 years, but "ever" is completely possible concept. Which is the main reason for most of the judges, to whom I don't know if I belong, because I don't care if you get married or not ... because I don't go with you, and I haven't heard the sad story of any of your exes, who she feels hurt by the fact that you don't have serious intentions (maybe she's to blame for not hearing you).

   Bulgarians love to judge and judge others, but they do not see for themselves what they are and how pathetic the picture is. In my opinion, the Bulgarian is a satire on all the shortcomings of man gathered in one place. It is no coincidence that the image of Bai Ganyo was born. There is something fundamentally wrong with this people. To emphasize my thesis I will note the fact that buggery and vulgar come from "Bulgarian".

   We are all judges and moralists, but everyone professes his own morality and in the eyes of those who profess something else is a judge and a moralist. You also fall into the category of judges and moralists, condemn those who do not think like you (those of the Middle Ages) and impose your own morality (on those who do not want to be one-dayers). On top of that, you start a topic about what is right and what is not, not just to get involved with an opinion on someone else's topic, YOU to tell how your father's children are made. Obviously, your soul is not at peace until you are chewed and spit out, you ask yourself what you will hear later - if you like it, come on, there were masochists long before the Middle Ages! In general, I avoid arguing with people who have not experienced half of what I have experienced, but you are an extremely arrogant and arrogant type - forgive me, but even at 25 I never thought I would give wisdom to those who return from where I am headed. There is still a lot of "Mozzarella" to eat until it shines under your cap, have your beliefs and understandings, but do not force them on me!

   10, exactly these bound, family people judge people like me, like me, as number 4 ... Hey, that's why the author was provoked to release such a topic. Ever since childhood, every person has been brazenly inculcated that when he grows up and will be engaged, he will marry, etc. What about all these donkeys - engagements, models, weddings ... ISN'T THIS A TOTAL IMPRESSION? Well, thank God, a lot of people can't afford this parade, but it's still considered acceptable ... I'm a woman and I also think that sex should not be perceived as something that is' given 'to a man against' something 'most often material, isn't it .. and without that a lot of boys were totally wrong if they didn't have a chance to have sex as teenagers, for this very reason (they get paranoid that they have nothing to' offer ', if possibly any is inclined to ' give 'and stay virgin) Sex is just a mutual pleasure between 2 people. Or 3 (why not :-)). Period. These words that you have arranged for the 'father' are super, instead of telling you, and they sound hellishly ridiculous ... The author doesn't talk about anyone's father. You filmed something pretty cool. You better go eat your dumb cheese and we don't pretend to be very witty, you don't succeed and you won't succeed ... if you want to be 300 years old. Not getting rid of the fact that this topic has become a fact on this site, it spat out to the moderators or directly to the owner of the site - once they have decided that it is okay to release, then you just have to swallow, old man. they are super instead of telling you and they sound hellishly ridiculous .. The author doesn't talk about anyone's father. You filmed something pretty cool. You better go eat your dumb cheese and we don't pretend to be very witty, you can't and you won't succeed ... if you want to be 300 years old. Not getting rid of the fact that this topic has become a fact on this site, it spat out the moderators or directly to the owner of the site - once they have decided that it is okay to release, then you just have to swallow, old man. they are super instead of telling you and they sound hellishly ridiculous .. The author doesn't talk about anyone's father. You filmed something pretty cool. You better go eat your dumb cheese and we don't pretend to be very witty, you can't and you won't succeed ... if you want to be 300 years old. Not getting rid of the fact that this topic has become a fact on this site, it spat out to the moderators or directly to the owner of the site - once they have decided that it is okay to release, then you just have to swallow, old man.

   And the judges that irritate, but the author irritates me the most, defining all women who do not "give" him as frigid and doomed to dissatisfaction. Because we are very broad-minded, it's so modern, but let's condemn every way of life that doesn't bring us out ...

   Most women have unnatural choices for men and judge materially. Many couples do not leave. I had a friend who had a boyfriend - and two were very nice young men at 25, the chick asked for children, and their money was small .. she caught up with a lollipop, just because she has wealth, and her real thrill was with my friend. They were leaving and even looked like a couple in love from a soap opera, surely their children would be far more beautiful and potentially capable of many things. Indiscriminate marriages and having children as needed inevitably threatens the Bulgarian gene pool. nice with nice, unsightly with unsightly. Natural law. :)

   I will not judge anyone, neither the author nor his supporters. But I hadn't noticed this phenomenon for a long time, otherwise so typical for Share. no, namely - the moderator to speak unprepared. Not bad, mods are also consumers, they have the right to comment and comment as much as they want. But to address the author of a comment (I am referring to number 10) which has not yet been published and is not visible to other users, to attack it, teach it, etc., is not fair, number 11, but not at all. Of course, my comment will not be approved, but you should know, ladies and gentlemen, that the site is also visited by people to whom your cheap numbers are clear.

   The author feels guilty that he only wants sex and cannot love and tries to justify himself by accusing others of judging him. Of course - it is biologically set to fuck women, come on, some will still agree. What makes you human, however, is the ability to love ... but some, unfortunately, remain forever only biological organisms and nothing more.

   So ... The author is. First, the topic is not at all about light women who let everyone. The topic is that sex is seen as something that should be "given" to the man in exchange for him to offer commitment and meaningful relationships in return. I am outraged because in another topic an author had asked how to ask for casual sex from women and instead of helping him, everyone attacked him and told him to go to a prostitute at best, because he would only get some very ugly and stuck either someone mentally ill or someone dead drunk at a disco. How come I had a good-looking woman upstairs, and they were intelligent on top of everything? !! Just mathematically speaking, if you look good and try on 20 women, then one or two will tie and have passionate sex. You just have to want it directly without caring about cutting. :)

   So ... The author is. First, the topic is not at all about light women who let everyone. The topic is that sex is seen as something that should be "given" to the man in exchange for him to offer commitment and meaningful relationships in return. I am outraged because in another topic an author had asked how to ask for casual sex from women and instead of helping him, everyone attacked him and told him to go to a prostitute at best, because he would only get some very ugly and stuck either someone mentally ill or someone dead drunk at a disco. How come I had a good-looking woman upstairs, and they were intelligent on top of everything? !! Just mathematically speaking, if you look good and try on 20 women, then one or two will tie and have passionate sex. You just have to want it directly without caring about cutting. :)

   Yeah, there's a lot of truth here. I am the one who, every time she writes a comment that it should not be judged that people here write to get advice, and not to crush them, an avalanche of oaths and unwelcome wishes pours over me. It is usually either to cheat on my husband, or to leave me with the children, and so on. No matter how well-meaningly you try to share some life truth that you have reached, a person is willing to listen, not to hear, but to argue and explain to you why you are wrong. Few are able to learn from their mistakes, and some from other people's mistakes. Whatever doesn't go through your head, you just don't understand. It's good that you've made a decision for your life. It may change. Do not swear in anything that fate loves these things very much. It is important to be happy and fair to the person next to you. With or without children you decide in both cases you can be happy, it's up to you. On the subject of giving ns s * x, I agree with you. Unfortunately, the truth is that men create this feeling of intimacy between people. We say - we slept or we did ... with someone, and from your mouth you can hear - this is her ... While you are like us en masse, and we are wax figures who do not participate in the act, we will judge, to whom will we give. The change in thinking is twofold. then we will judge to whom we will give. The change in thinking is twofold. then we will judge to whom we will give. The change in thinking is twofold.

   Number 14, I sincerely doubt that number 11 is a moderator - at least because he writes illiterately, and this is one of the requirements of the site and is probably checked when hiring.

   When someone attracts you, you WANT to have sex with them, not GIVE them sex. You both want to have fun. Everyone can do whatever they want - there are women for sex, there are women for commitment, but do not impose your understanding as the absolute truth. from the author

   Number 7, have you ever wondered why sexually unconscious girls dress provocatively? Such "khakis" seem very moving to them - and so it is, whoever gets it gets it. And really every woman can live her life without taking into account the opinions of people. And not only to consider it "light", but to really be so. When you behave like a "light" woman, your price drops. Being 20 and very cool, even if there is an opinion about you that you are "light", many will want you for "number" - what do you care at once (for a man), and you have not invested anything. And when you turn 25 and have "rolled up" a lot of pieces, don't be surprised if they think you're only for "that". And your girlfriend of 16, if she's provocative, what to think of her? There was one in 16 who was already with 64 men - help me draw the right conclusions! And a woman, if at 16 she thinks she never wants children, and at 25 she decides otherwise. And what does he do with the 564 "pieces"? Then he will ask: - "How to erase their past?"

   25 did not understand at all what number 7 explained. Or rather, I think that's how he got rid of it. By the way, I recently had a serious friend, a very responsible and smart person who literally understands everything, but one night when we talked about exes and I realized what a large number there is before me (not quite 564, but quite large anyway) and I decided that I couldn't start a family with a man who was with so many other women, he was inside them. It's just not right, at least because it's terribly immoral. And morality is a major pillar of everything we want to be healthy. And it must be placed first. Love, mutual attraction and complementarity are always secondary, even insignificant I would say.

   True in the real and unfortunately condemned opinion of number 13. Very true and painful, judging by the assessments. Do only women enter this site here? They don't get the connection with the main one every time, but it's very obvious here .. :(

   Author (number 23), you still don't seem to understand that no one imposes their understandings as absolute truth - not me, but you started the topic to impose your own understandings, and maybe to get support from thinkers like you ??? Once you have posted a topic, you should be ready to hear different opinions from yours - you can accept them, you can ignore them, but arguing with dissenters is still a kind of intrusion of your opinion. In fact, from all your thoughtful statements, it is not clear (at least to me) what you want to share with me - you do not want to get married - well, who is raping you? You are looking for something easy, but it turns out that not every one of you swears - are those who don't let you in guilty, are they the judges and the moralists, that they weighed you and didn't want to be with you? Who blames and judges whom - I have nothing to blame you for, nor to judge you for anything, I just accept that everywhere in life it is like that - some get to work, dig and work in a certain direction and expect a result, others go from pot to pot, dig through the garbage and are happy if they come across a nut. The will is yours, but in terms of your life, do not try to tell others which way is better to go, provided that you have never been this way.

   Author, an infinitely pleasant surprise for me is your topic. I am glad that a 25-year-old man thinks this way. No, young friend, this is not about medieval thinking, but about generations damaged by socialism. I have some memory of those times and I remember the total demagoguery and hypocrisy that was imposed as the norm then. My mother left her own father to die like a dog in a country house, without providing him with even hot water and normal heating for the winter for years, but after he once quarreled with my legal husband to make love on the couch of the villa, raised a terrible scandal that we were "dirty", "immoral", "perverted" and so on. And yes - according to her, we are not a "normal family" because we do not want to have children. And we do not want because we met at a more mature age and the enthusiasm to become a parent for us has long since lost its appeal, just other things concern us. In addition to being sexually inadequate, this socialist-damaged tribe is mercantile to the marrow of its bones. Due to the fact that it was artificially kept in the same degree of poverty, ie the natural instinct for obtaining prey was suppressed, now this generation feels inhuman greed to have more and more. So what kind of thinking do you expect the heirs of these people to have? What do you want their children and grandchildren to be? I saved myself because I am an extremely independent thinking person and I did not catch the contagion of the local mentality. That's why it's so nice to meet a like-minded person, younger than me. Do not be surprised, in Bulgaria the moral scale is as follows: - I will give you sex if you give me money. - I will not work well, but you will pay me well. - I have to give birth to a child to touch the father's wallet, and when the child grows up, he will support me while I'm alive. - I will not pay taxes, but I want the garbage to be transported regularly, although I will throw it wherever I want. - It's not my fault that my toilet was clogged, it's the politicians' fault. - I will not buy a tram ticket, but I want the trams not to be late and to be well heated. - I have no education or I have pushed some university there with threes. Well, why does that mold from the Sorbonne take 5,000 euros as a young specialist, and I start with 500 leva? What am I below him with? - Only idiots eat healthy! I smoke, drink and eat chips. And health is to blame for my illness. Doctors on soap! I will not continue, of course, because this is a topic for a book, not a forum post. My concept is clear. My eyes were opened to the picture in this beautiful country Bulgaria largely from this site and therefore I follow it with interest. I live here, I work here, I love my friends here, I love nature here, I love traditions here. But I hate the Bulgarian bum mentality.

   Ha, that's nothing. Once, a year or two ago, there was a topic in which a married woman shared her feelings for another man. As you can guess, the haters were on a level :)) That she was a whore, immoral, mean and what not ... I told her that I was in her situation, but I did not give in to emotions and I refused a person with who we liked because of the price and love her husband and what do you think? Again hate. What was I thinking, I was a whore too, no matter that I didn't cheat, my poor husband is better alone than with "someone like me" and so on. Well, no pleasures!

   I am now joining the subject, but I generally support number 33. Well done, good observations! I have come to the conclusion that the vast majority of the shortcomings of the people here come from their lack of FAITH. As the Bible says, "Everything is possible for the believer." For the unbeliever? Draw your own conclusions. Here a lot of people don't believe, they don't believe that things are getting better - "hopefully but hardly", they don't believe that someone wants to do them good unselfishly, they think that everyone wants to fuck them and they have become cunning and distrustful, praising are what kind of understanders and thugs they are. They think that success comes when they fuck someone else and not through discipline, effort and perseverance. Because they have no faith, they only look at the benefit and doing the right thing properly is left behind. Because they have no faith, they are looking to sell themselves, instead of achieving, they are pessimistic, cynical, greedy and materialistic, etc. In general, the lack of faith has catastrophic consequences for the population as a whole here and has turned them into greedy and cynical beings filled with bitterness, resentment and malice, who either forget themselves indefinitely and inflate disgustingly if they achieve any success in the second way or fall into depression and develop insurmountable complexes for their own value and self-esteem. This is the so-called mentality of scarcity, in which a person has shrunk in his shell and is constantly afraid of being deprived of something, of being fucked, of being harmed. The opposite and correct worldview is the worldview of abundance, where one believes, one is self-confident and knows that there are opportunities everywhere, that one can achieve whatever one wants as long as one puts in the necessary effort, honest work, discipline and patience. In general, the lack of faith has catastrophic consequences for the population as a whole here and has turned them into greedy and cynical beings full of bitterness, resentment and malice, who either forget themselves indefinitely and inflate disgustingly if they succeed in the second way or become depressed. and develop insurmountable complexes for their own worth and self-esteem. This is the so-called mentality of scarcity, in which a person has shrunk in his shell and is constantly afraid of being deprived of something, of being fucked, of being harmed. The opposite and correct worldview is the worldview of abundance, where one believes, one is self-confident and knows that there are opportunities everywhere, that one can achieve anything one wants as long as one puts in the necessary effort, honest work, discipline and patience. In general, the lack of faith has catastrophic consequences for the population as a whole here and has turned them into greedy and cynical beings full of bitterness, resentment and malice, who either forget themselves indefinitely and inflate disgustingly if they succeed in the second way or become depressed. and develop insurmountable complexes for their own worth and self-esteem. This is the so-called mentality of scarcity, in which a person has shrunk in his shell and is constantly afraid of being deprived of something, of being fucked, of being harmed. The opposite and correct worldview is the worldview of abundance, where one believes, one is self-confident and knows that there are opportunities everywhere, that one can achieve anything one wants as long as one puts in the necessary effort, honest work, discipline and patience.

   Thanks. Finally to hear something meaningful and clever. I thought I'd find some advice, but I'm just upset by the haters. This is not for people who are not conservative. Sheep thinking prevails. Let's summarize. Infidelity is terrible, sex only within the relationship. You have to have a serious relationship, family and children, your life is boring and if you bend the end a little - you are like that, you are like that. I'm sure that 99 percent of the people on this site dream of living like mine, but firstly they don't have enough and secondly they have so many opportunities and can't achieve it. I apologize, but just because you're fat, ugly, and congested doesn't mean I have to listen to your complex advice. To the author: ok, non-committal sex, you sound like a normal, average man. Live, if you fall in love a lot, you will think. Apparently there is no suitable woman now.

   I think that people have reasons not to trust anyone! These 28 years of "democracy" have forced believers to stop believing and not hope in vain. The feeling that someone is constantly fucking you is really hovering all around us, and people have reason to believe and think in this degrading way. The possibilities you are talking about are too distant and illusory for the average person to believe in. Apart from being illusory, they are not available to all people, because in order to succeed in any field, you need TALENT, among other things listed above by you (number 35)! This system (capitalism) gives endless opportunities only to talented people in certain current areas of activity. Everyone else can only succeed by using bullying and fraud, or if they have "

   Up to 36: Everything is very good, but there is also a small problem in what the author wants from life - a free and depraved life, for an indefinite period of time. However, it is known that each of our actions or inactions has corresponding consequences. Your actions, and those of the author, will also have consequences one day. However, I suspect that you will not like them very much. You both, however, hope that one day after you get a good living, you will find a serious partner. But how do you expect to find one, having lived a depraved life all your life, and with a concept that is radically different from the accepted social norm? And more importantly, how do you expect to keep it to yourself, with these freedom-loving understandings of a relationship? What about him, how can I believe you are sincere with him? Look, I'm the last person to judge you, but these so-called social norms, which you so vehemently deny, have been established for centuries before us, and there is clearly a reason! They lay the foundations and set the framework of society. Do you realize that without this framework, there will be a complete collapse of values ​​and degradation in society. If we all become "liberated" like you, where will it end? If your parents didn't want children and family, would you happen? You can't crack your head all your life, and say to the hundredth girl / boy, "I love you, you're the man I've been waiting for all my life." Love, it is true that it endures everything, but don't you want too much of it? One of the ladies here said that she was especially upset when she heard men say that they had fixed someone there ... It wasn't very cultural. But I think that attitude, addressed to some ladies, is exactly what it should be. Women, whether they sell or choose their men, are still the same fuck if they do it often enough and more often. The same logic applies to men, but at least in my opinion with less force. Somehow it is much more brutal to imagine a woman who has been with 20-30 men later explaining herself in love with some idiot grinning. Just imagining this episode, and all the romance that she has in her soul, suddenly evaporates. We can all be like you, but we don't do it, if only because we don't hurt the people who will one day truly love us! Although we know that they will forgive us almost everything. Everyone decides for himself what rules to follow in his life, and what boundaries he can cross. So, that it is your personal job how you will live your life. Just so that in the middle of the road, you sit and talk about what it was.

   Let everyone live their life as they want. And looking in someone else's bowl and clicking your tongue are typical Bulgarian techniques. Some people are really better off not having children. A child must be wanted and loved, not created because it should be. I myself still have no children. I want to, although I realize that this is the biggest responsibility and it scares me a little. However, I do not think that if I lose a child it will ruin me - on the contrary. I find funny people who say that they live for their children and there is no other joy for them. This is sad. When these children grow up, who will they live for then? !! The grandchildren will be waiting obviously ... As for the non-committal sex - there is nothing wrong, as long as you are free. And don't do it with everyone because it's already a whore. Everyone has needs, the young and healthy body wants its own. It's kind of unnatural to stay dry for months or years, waiting for the right person. If you find it, great! The problem with most non-committal relationships is that one of the partners falls in love. Normally, when you sleep with someone more than once, some people develop other emotions ... besides, you talk more or less and get to know each other. I don't believe you're grabbing the door by the legs. Although there are probably some. Finally, everyone has the right to live as they want. As long as it doesn't bother the others. And Bulgarians should learn not to be shocked and not to get angry with foam at the mouth, if someone is different and does not fit into their ideal ideas about a man or a woman. Lina 32 in addition, you more or less talk and get to know each other. I don't believe you're grabbing the door by the legs. Although there are probably some. Finally, everyone has the right to live as they want. As long as it doesn't bother the others. And Bulgarians should learn not to be shocked and not to get angry with foam at the mouth, if someone is different and does not fit into their ideal ideas about a man or a woman. Lina 32 in addition, you more or less talk and get to know each other. I don't believe you're grabbing the door by the legs. Although there are probably some. Finally, everyone has the right to live as they want. As long as it doesn't bother the others. And Bulgarians should learn not to be shocked and not to get angry with foam at the mouth, if someone is different and does not fit into their ideal ideas about a man or a woman. Lina 32

   36, where did you come from, chicken? How are you sure I'm jealous of your life, so I don't even know what it is - I can only judge by some indirect signs, such as "I'm sorry, but just because you're fat, ugly and congested doesn't mean that I should listen to your complex advice. " Your statement in general shows that you are weak, beautiful, grown-up and do not have any complexes - is this your criterion for a quality person ??? Well, if all this were true, you wouldn't be hanging out on this site and looking for like-minded people, but you would have sex with someone like the author of the topic - tell yourself now where exactly your cap is tightening, what are your summaries for, you've already reached the maximum of your mental and physiological comfort. I've only heard that "a dog that barks a lot doesn't bite," and you started barking at passing cars,

   Number 37 I'm 35, you may be shocked, but my opinion is that you don't need talent. You just have to persevere and not give up and you have to believe in it. I remember an interview with the boxer Kubrat Pulev in which he generally said that when he started training he was neither the fastest nor the most talented, but he was in the gym every day to train while the others gave up one by one. So you need perseverance and things get easy.

   Comment number 5 is an excellent response to the author's statement. Other comments are unnecessary.