Damn, damn I'm tired of being insulted for being ugly. What have I done to them for God's sake. What Not everyone can be perfect. It can not! How I deserved it. I can't look like a model. What can I do that I have brown eyes and darker skin, I'm tired of being insulted because of my appearance. What can I do that I am not 40 kg (1. 58 45 kg), what can I do to be liked. Someone will always insult me. Today a friend was coming home and we saw a boy I knew. He continued on his way with me and at one point told me that he knew she was a girl and he wasn't sure about me. He literally told me I looked like a boy. I felt terrible. I think I will gain 35 kg so that they don't insult me. After he told me, I sat like a blast. And now I'm sitting and writing this stupid story and I'm thinking "what's wrong with me"! ???? Do I have to start straightening my hair every day, go with makeup and be dumb and show off with my couples and threesomes? They came up with all sorts of nicknames for me - worm, grozmin, yellow tooth ... I just wanted to share .... And to pour out my soul.
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Your biggest mistake, darling, is trying to please everyone. First, that it is impossible, second, stupid. There will always be people who will like your appearance and those who will not like it. You can't change that, you just accept it. You wonder what you did to them, but you didn't do anything to them! Why should there be a reason for them to treat you badly? Nowadays, everyone behaves badly simply because it's fun! Don't try to be a muffin, yes, you might be liked, but is that what you want? To be something you really aren't, just to please public beauty ideals? Better not. There is nothing you can do other than just try to overcome the attacks and insults, and take the first step towards loving yourself. Some people never succeed, but if we don't like ourselves, how do we expect others to like us? It's cliché, but it's true. I used to be insulted for being ugly, I don't know what, but you know, I made sure I didn't care. It just happened somehow. And most of all, I started looking for the things I personally like about myself. And I found them. Since then, I love myself the way I am, both as a character and as an appearance. :) And I'm not affected by any negative opinions at all! I hope it works for you too! As long as you are influenced by other people's opinions, you will be an eternal slave. Is that how you want to spend the rest of your life? Think and success! Since then, I love myself the way I am, both as a character and as an appearance. :) And I'm not affected by any negative opinions at all! I hope it works for you too! As long as you are influenced by other people's opinions, you will be an eternal slave. Is that how you want to spend the rest of your life? Think and success! Since then, I love myself the way I am, both as a character and as an appearance. :) And I'm not affected by any negative opinions at all! I hope it works for you too! As long as you are influenced by other people's opinions, you will be an eternal slave. Is that how you want to spend the rest of your life? Think and success!
why don't you answer him, but let yourself be offended and keep him to yourself? respect must be won. next time if someone talks to you like that, don't be silent but answer. and remember that not everyone is obliged to like you, but everyone is obliged to respect you!
no! you didn't deserve it at all, no matter what you were. It's just that those around you are liners. Don't leave them indebted.
This is the case at school, unfortunately ... Those who do not meet the "standards" for beauty are crushed. I have experienced it too. I will not write you the super impractical comment "Don't pay attention to them", but I will advise you to start changing yourself, but without doing nonsense :) You know your weaknesses, work on them. Don't copy the muffins. Puberty is coming soon and you can seriously become an ugly duckling, a beautiful swan. Success!
In my opinion, go to a beautician, fix your eyebrows and remove the hairs from your lower lip (no more than BGN 5-6). Straighten your hair not constantly but at least once a week buy makeup a little foundation and mascara will do a perfect job. Be smart this will be your biggest plus after all we are women we have to support ourselves. You remind me as a child and I was that ... ah how cruel children are
You have nothing to do with it, except that you allow the opinion of people who are many times less important to tell you that you are not beautiful. On the contrary! You are much more than them. Being rude and judging people only by their appearance does not speak well of yourself. So, darling, stop but really stop being influenced by the opinions of such beings and learn to accept yourself as you are. Don't even think about changing for anyone, because if someone really likes you, it will be with all your advantages and disadvantages. Remember one thing - there are no perfect people, but that does not mean that we should have complexes about our imperfections. Be happy as you are and love yourself! :)
45kg doesn't sound like much (depending on how old you are). And you shouldn't take offense at idiots, ignore them. For appearance - you should pay attention, but not overdo it. If I knew what you looked like, I could give you someone else. advice ... so .. There are a lot of failed individuals in the schools, there are more normal and decent people in the university. Push there.
You should never pay attention to such petty people! Be yourself. Everyone has beauty. I'm sure you're not ugly. Most likely they are making fun of you because you are silent to them. When someone tells you something bad, answer him too. Don't let any complex, disrespectful other idiots ruin your self-esteem!
First, brown eyes are the best. Second, there are enough beautiful dark-skinned women, such as Latinos. Third, you are probably 13-14 and at that age it is a nightmare, in general, if you are not a moron, any pottery is very difficult. You're hardly even ugly.
There are these drummers everywhere, darling. I suggest you talk to your mother and move you to another school, or even another city. If you perform well in front of your new classmates, you will find friends much faster. For a start, get closer to the men in the class. Women are bare water, they will always spoil you in front of someone. Don't shy away from anyone, pay attention to everyone because I know from personal experience that if you pay attention to specific people and you don't talk to others, you don't approach them or so on, then they turn to you. Well, someone will probably meet again to say another word to you, but there are such complexes everywhere, be yourself and don't let anyone else change you! ;) QQ
Honey, my feeling is very familiar! You are not fat! In general ... Don't pay so much attention to the insults as to your appearance and everything will end
Put it from one leg to the other as people say - and to look perfect there will still be no pleasure, accept yourself as you are and don't be interested anymore
Please - these are people who can't live without hanging out with someone, laughing and making fun of them - not to mention those who stand aside without a word to peel and just grin - straight assholes !! !! I know them, don't give in to them!
off then everyone has fevers, it is not the most important thing to be beautiful, then beauty is up to time, the important thing is to be able to cope in life, then children are with such people in general There will also be a lot of bad things.
What do you pay attention to them ??
When they insult me at school, I take my headphones and play music ... fuck what they think! However, if you are attacked, defend yourself ..., but in general, do not be affected by the opinion of such complex beings.
If you are 1. 58 and you are 45 kg. it's good. In my opinion, the girls between 1. 58 and 1. 68 are the ideal height. In addition, for 1. 58, your weight should be over 48kg. definitely. You need to gain at least three kilos. Can't look like a model? Well, it's nice that you don't want to look like a concentration camp inmate or a prisoner - dry, skinny and tested. Why straighten your hair? For some, straight hair is beautiful, for others - curly. Go with the hairstyle that suits you best. Makeup, moreover, doesn't make you dumb. I don't think a little mascara and gloss would hurt anyone, on the contrary - they make you more colorful. The same goes for necklaces, scarves, earrings. The important thing is to be able to combine attributes, colors and fabrics. Also, how can you complain about your eyes and skin color? The brown eyes are almond-shaped and the brown skin is cinnamon. If you're stupid and bragging about couples and threesomes, I don't believe they respect you. Exactly the opposite. You have to stand out with intelligence. The spiritual is part of beauty. This boy wanted to annoy you. Why are you attached to him? I think I'm pretty, but I've been given nicknames like yours at school. I also didn't go with make-up and nice clothes / but with the difference that I spent a lot of time outside of school /. But as a teacher I was like a nun and they made fun of me. Well, in the end, despite my aggressive outbursts, my self-esteem collapsed and I fell into a hole. But why should you be tied up too? You know ... if you develop low self-esteem, and you don't realize what you can and how much it costs, if you don't get out of this situation quickly, it will be difficult for you to sociologize in "real life". These are people who kill complexes. and if you fail to deal with this garbage, you will become susceptible, you will become a rag ... because when you leave school, other such complexes will be able to manipulate you, provoke you and others. And when that happens, you won't get better. If you're not strong enough, I mean. 1. Just try once to see if you will like to put on make-up. And hair is an important part. And never make up "because you have to". Make up only if you need it yourself. You can try to buy new clothes if you have money, of course 2. Second - do not blow yourself away from COMPLEXARI. You have the full right to file a complaint against them, to file a complaint. Talk to yours. Don't talk to teachers that they will either do nothing or interfere and confuse everything. Turn directly to the director. you are subjected to systematic mental harassment, which will have a strong influence on the development of your personality !!! Respond to the aggressors! you should not be silent! but the important thing is not to break out in aggression, because then you will not have the right to file a complaint or complain. 3. Third - keep in mind that you can be a great beauty / although you do not realize it yet /, but because cruel people see that you succumb to other people's influences, they try to crush you by instilling various things in you. 4. It's not good to follow the clichés - the model is not always super beautiful. A big idiot can't be beautiful either, because stupidity is written on her face. Dark skin is not a bad thing. For me personally, such skin (it still depends on the person) seems sexual and erotic to me. And a man who brags about something bad is a simpleton and an unscrupulous guy. So you let yourself be brainwashed at the table and you put all sorts of clichés in your head. 5. Just be yourself. Otherwise they will not respect you. When I was a teacher, I was harassed for years. Eventually they saw that nothing had "changed" me and left me. but I fell into a hole ... and just out of the hole, I was crushed in the new place. Because the new harassment started when I was in the process of mental recovery and I was still unstable. And so it becomes a circle. And if you're not strong, everything can go to hell. So don't give up! Did you hear? You don't have to be a victim, you have to be a hunter. and in the new place I was crushed. Because the new harassment started when I was in the process of mental recovery and I was still unstable. And so it becomes a circle. And if you're not strong, everything can go to hell. So don't give up! Did you hear? You don't have to be a victim, you have to be a hunter. and in the new place I was crushed. Because the new harassment started when I was in the process of mental recovery and I was still unstable. And so it becomes a circle. And if you're not strong, everything can go to hell. So don't give up! Did you hear? You don't have to be a victim, you have to be a hunter.
# 10 Why do you have to move to another school, and even to another city, just because of some haters ??? !!!
Girl, believe me you're wrong to pay attention to them. They want to: 1. Make fun of others to look cool 2. Challenge you, humiliate you in every way 3. Keep quiet so you don't have problems Listen to me - tell the director that they are annoying, insulting, etc. because they think they will go unpunished, and you shouldn't get caught up in their numbers !!!
Look, DON'T CHANGE to please anyone. And no, you don't have to straighten your hair every day or put on make-up. Everyone is beautiful, absolutely everyone! I am sure that you are very beautiful and believe me, whoever should like you, will like you as you are! My advice is not to pay attention to them, this speaks badly only for them! Believe in your beauty, and the natural is the best! Good luck, darling!
If you want to be like them, let no one stop you but yourself. To be happy you have to do what YOU want! And to be what YOU like! :)
These individuals in our time make me very nervous ... I was also crushed and "I didn't pay attention to her" and what? I'm sorry now. If you get dumb or they call you ugly, just read "The Ugly Duckling" over and over until you get in the mood ... You just don't care ... Dark skin? Darker hair? I'm sure you look great ... It's just that everyone has a different idea of beauty ..
Why are you lying to us? Why do I feel like you are a sweet and beautiful, different girl? : 3 ^ _ ^