I haven't had friends all my life because I just didn't know how to start a conversation. I also have a twin sister with whom we have been in the same class since the 1st grade and after the 7th we did not move because we are better in this school. My sister and I are complete opposites. She's cool and sociable, and I'm a shy loser. The truth is, because of my shyness, if it weren't for my sister, I would be bullied. I read stories of girls bullied at school from this site and from this year. They have at least 1/2 girlfriend, and I'm alone. My sister goes out with her best friends after school and I go home and study. I'm also ashamed to make friends on social media. When I have to read an essay or give a presentation, when I read I spell, and I generally read fluently, in presentations when I say things that are not written, I am very ashamed and I start to block. When I am examined orally, I am terrible, but I am very good at the written test. Sometimes when I'm with my sister we go out with her friends, they're not bad, they're cool. I hate that my sister is not friends with the popular girls in the class because of me, because as my sister she is gone, they bother me the most with the words "Can't you be as cool as your sister?", "Why are you such a loser as you have a cool sister "," Does your sister have anger problems? "," It's good that your sister is otherwise you have left this class "and" We want you to leave the class and your sister to stay because we don't need junk like you. " One time these girls tried to harass me again and my sister yelled at them a lot and almost beat them up and I was sitting. Why am I not as strong as my sister? Why am I so shy?
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You can change as long as you underestimate yourself. Be confident and don't let them harass you. And in 5-6 years you will finish so calm down.
Oh dear .. I don't know how old you are, but it doesn't matter much, you're probably smaller, and I used to be like you .. I was even ashamed to ask ours if I liked something! Yes, my own parents .. But at the moment I am radically different, I will tell you what helped me .. First the music .. This is very strange, but it helped me, namely to listen to chalga! I hadn't listened for years but I just decided to listen once and that's how it happened ... Because the lyrics in most of them are about some chicks with great self-confidence and I just know it sounds crazy, but I don't know how but it helped me .. The second which is that you have to somehow find a friend who is like your sister, let's say, that is, she is very sociable and has self-confidence, because along with her you will change and believe me it will help you a lot! A good option is to sign up for something, which works for you or you just like, for example, tennis, some dancing and such things! You will not say that you are ashamed, you and the others are exactly the same and you can be like them. When you are alone, you can repeat some expressions that make you have self-confidence or you wanted to say, but you were ashamed, it doesn't matter what they are, and so in time you will be able to repeat them among other people! You can also ask your sister to help you, because when I read and see that she stands up for you and she cares! And for the girls who make fun of you the next time they tell you something and tell them "Are you slow because if I tell my sister your life will be sad" and then how can you stumble on something and see how they will stop forever . They see that you don't tell them anything and they do what they want for you, don't give in to them ... I believe in you!
Ooo poor thing you can just be a loser, I'm kidding of course just try to find friends with the same interests or go out with your sister explain and it doesn't hurt