I'm Unattractive, What Should I Do?

   In principle, there are passengers for each train ... But obviously it weighs on you that you don't have men around you. There is no way the change is minimal and you want men to pay attention to you. One thing to remember in the first place - men like FEMALE women. That is, start looking and behaving femininely. Change your hairstyle. Well, you like the sporty style of dress - there are a lot of cool sportswear and outfits for women who are sexy. Emphasize feminine curves, show a little flesh. Start using cosmetics - first one against pimples, and then buy a foundation, a mascara ... You won't look like muffins, don't worry. It's just that until you learn to look feminine, it's very difficult to find a boyfriend ...

   Man, you are a wonderful girl! I'm telling you without any lies! What do you want us all to be the same? The world is based on the different and I promise you that you will find someone who will appreciate you as you are! I like different people, I don't like these muffins where, as you say, they can't choose a boy. Oh, is that what you want? You know, what's expensive is expensive, it's hard to find, it's hard to buy. The time will come, I promise you! Come on with a smile and move on!

   It is not important to be a super beauty with perfect measurements and proportions. The important thing is to have style - of dress, of behavior. The important thing is what radiation you have. One piece of advice - do a teeth whitening procedure - you have no idea how much a snow-white smile changes the radiance. Choose a hairstyle that is easy to maintain and at the same time youthful. For the pimples - well, I have, and I'm already 37, what have I not tried - I can not get rid of them and that's it. Cover them with concealer and foundation. If you have the financial means, visit a dermatological clinic - they will offer you a large number and outrageously expensive procedures with an unsecured result.

   Hello! You don't have to change drastically to look feminine. You say you're athletic. Start with the clothes. Choose more girly clothes that are comfortable at the same time and do not make you feel like you are not you. For example, if you wear sneakers - change them with some low shoes. Emphasize your cleavage. Not to show off your tits, but just a little hint - for example, with a shirt that is unbuttoned enough, but not too much to see your breasts. You don't have to have tons of makeup to be beautiful. Keep your facial skin clean. Your face should look fresh and clean. You can apply a layer of powder according to the color of your face. If you do not like the idea - do not, but try to make the skin look fresh and clean. Start emphasizing your eyes - 1-2 layers of mascara and a little pencil on the lower eyelid. If your pencil is too black, take a dark brown and lightly emphasize the eye, then rub the lashes 1-2 times with mascara. You can put some gentle gloss or balm on the lips, which slightly colors. This will make you look as natural as possible. Wear your hair loose, parted asymmetrically or as you like. You don't need to have big nails, just keep them in shape. You can apply paler nail polishes that are not intrusive, but add charm. So with a little effort there will be an effect and a change in your self-esteem. You will be an improved version of yourself, not a muffin :) Good luck! F27 Wear your hair loose, parted asymmetrically or as you like. You don't need to have big nails, just keep them in shape. You can apply paler nail polishes that are not intrusive, but add charm. So with a little effort there will be an effect and a change in your self-esteem. You will be an improved version of yourself, not a muffin :) Good luck! F27 Wear your hair loose, parted asymmetrically or as you like. You don't need to have big nails, just keep them in shape. You can apply paler nail polishes that are not intrusive, but add charm. So with a little effort there will be an effect and a change in your self-esteem. You will be an improved version of yourself, not a muffin :) Good luck! F27

   All men look at and like supportive women. You know - makeup, hairstyle, nice manicure, cool clothes ... But there are those who by some coincidence have fallen in love with the complete opposite of these girls. Meaning, it is very important how you behave, whether you accept yourself as you are, whether you like yourself ... these things are noticed by others. There are many girls who prefer to dress in sports, put on light make-up, fresh nail polish, do not look like muffins, and boys also like them. Try it, and then you will see the difference. At the moment you seem indifferent to men ... if you want to be watched - take care of your appearance. And most importantly, you like it.

   When you want the change to be very small, then you will not achieve anything. At least you can make a huge change in your thinking ... because from what I read the lines were '' I'm not, I can't, no, etc., so think about it, and when a person comes out of the comfort zone then grows .. do something you can and haven't done before.

   Author, hardly the pimples are the cause. What kind of character do you have? I guess you're shy and closed. This reduces the chances of appealing to people who are looking for a woman with the behavior of a prostitute, but do not ask them for money except for a taxi to take home in the morning. Even if you don't dress like the aforementioned women, men don't notice you. And the reason is clear - a woman may have the face of a vampire, but once she dresses provocatively and is ready to have sex without commitment, she is the top. I have seen thousands of confirmations of this rule. This is the philosophy of most modern men - superficial and dying. You can do something about pimples, but I suspect that your condition will not improve significantly because the big problem does not come from you. Number 3, and you have no idea how much worse the increased sensitivity of the teeth is than that,

   From the author: Thanks for your answers. To number 7: Yes, you could say I'm a little shy, but I don't think I'm closed. I have many friends (both men and women) from a wide range of ages. I am constantly with some of them. I don't think that's the problem. But how to say - I do not like a person at first sight, (unlike some acquaintances), and then to like someone, I do not know what to do, I mentioned above that I can not flirt. All the boys consider me a friend, and nothing more. I was told that I speak too directly, maybe intercepted by my communication with boys ... But I have another problem - with my speech, not that I stutter, but from time to time I want to say something, but I stop and I can't to continue. I have been asked many times if I am a foreigner.

   Well, if you don't put on make-up and you realize it, well, start putting on. An ordinary gentle lipstick according to your complexion, will it be a problem? I assume that if you are athletic you have a great body, especially when you are naked - something that is quite attractive otherwise women, but in clothes can not boast. Bet on it! Tight dresses, neckline / even with a smaller bust it still happens /, there are various tricks. Surely there is a way to consult on the Internet there are already many things, such as style and colors of dress. There are also many grandmother's recipes for the skin, which are not expensive and are applicable at home. I'm left with the impression that you just don't want to change outwardly, am I right? Whether you want to look like a muffin or not, in order to attract someone visually first, you will have to jump over a bit and stop kicking stubbornly. That is, leave the men's tracksuits, bet on your long thighs in tights figurative for example, a knee-high boot, a little makeup and perfume. To look feminine does not mean to become a muffin. You also have a problem with femininity in adulthood. Are you dancing Latin with a tracksuit or what? Show breasts, show ass, show smile and make-up eyes, otherwise you will be waiting for someone on a white horse forever ....

   Change can never be small and conditional. And what will happen when you become a mother and the change is drastic? Will you kill yourself? Change moves the world, man is born, grows old and dies. If you are now afraid to "change" for the better, what is left when time changes you against your will and irretrievably? Why do you think that makeup and new clothes in different styles will change you? Are you so fragile and so easily surrendering yourself - will another garment ANOTHER PERSON make you? If you think so, you have a serious problem and we have no way to help you here. External change, which is not plastic surgery, but some make-up and some kind of gender, do you think they will change you as a person? No, they will just help you attract someone as a woman. If that's what makes you sick and you prefer to play cards, to swear and push the ball with your male friends, then you will be the eternal friend, but not an intimate one. My advice is to dig deep inside yourself. And one more thing - you don't look confident and brave at all, I'm surprised you're an athlete! You should be brave, assertive, ready for change and action, and you what ... You whine, you complain, you want something, but you set a bunch of conditions. Well it doesn't happen that way. Life is a struggle. If the boyfriends don't stick to you, you have to work a little harder! Just like in the field - work, discipline, work to achieve goals and success. ready for change and action, and you what ... You whine, you complain, you want something, but you set a bunch of conditions. Well it doesn't happen that way. Life is a struggle. If the boyfriends don't stick to you, you have to work a little harder! Just like in the field - work, discipline, work to achieve goals and success. ready for change and action, and you what ... You whine, you complain, you want something, but you set a bunch of conditions. Well it doesn't happen that way. Life is a struggle. If the boyfriends don't stick to you, you have to work a little harder! Just like in the field - work, discipline, work to achieve goals and success.

   Skin quality depends on 80% of food, cigarettes or alcohol. Revise what you put in your mouth, cosmetics are just the rest of the question.

   When I look - you are a strong character, so you have to take someone down - most likely in life you will always be stronger. You don't need to change, you just like someone, look them in the eye two or three times and you're done. That's enough for men.