Hello. I am a 17 year old girl. I have liked my friend for about 6 years, but I am ashamed to tell him, and I do not know how he feels. I decided that if I caught a boyfriend I would be able to forget him and in the beginning I really succeeded, but now I think about him again and I don't feel anything for my boyfriend. Although we have been going recently, he claims that he loves me and I don't know how to tell him that I don't feel anything because I am afraid that I will hurt him, but is it better to hurt myself, to stay with him and at the same time to think of another.
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Hello, welcome to real life. Unfortunately, that's the way it is. And I want to be with the man I've loved for more than 15 years but I'm married to someone else. That's why I'm not ashamed to tell him, but run to him quickly, at least after a while, to know that you tried. Good luck.
I am in such a situation too! I love one and live 12 years with another. Well, I see myself with the other de, but with two men sex .... and without protective equipment .... but what to do love! Tell him about your feelings and don't bother anymore.
Hey darling, always follow your heart, because it knows best what it wants. If you love another, do not wait until it is too late, but go and tell him. There is nothing more beautiful than true and pure love! I wish you success.
To number 2 I am number 1 you are happy at least you are with the person you love and I was with him but I abandoned him
Hi everyone, I fell in love with my boyfriend's friend, with whom I have been with for 6 years, I'm afraid to tell both of them I don't know what to do. Give me advice I can't live like this all night I don't sleep and I think and I'm really scared. I think I will end up completely alone
God, if I was with one and I loved another, I wouldn't be able to look myself in the eyes! Not for anything else, but because you're lying to the boy you're with that you love him! You better dump him as soon as possible, because we girls only understand what false love is when they do it to us! Don't do it to him either - he will get hurt and he will pass! You can see from the previous comments that it sucks when you're not with the person you love, but I don't think you should be with someone if you don't love them - that's a lie! Go tell your friend that you are in love with the whole truth! Even if nothing happens, you will try! And even if he is a real friend of yours, even if he doesn't respond to your feelings in the way you want, at least you will remain friends! So here are my 2 tips in a nutshell - FIRST DROP THE BOY YOU LIE TO AND THEN GO AND TELL ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS TO THE BOY YOU LOVE! Good luck!
To number 6. Bai babo not to be met by a bear, that if he meets you he will eat you.
In no case do not procrastinate, but go and tell him that you love him. I made the mistake of keeping quiet about my feelings 13 years ago, and now it's too late because we're both married with kids. And not that I don't love my husband, but I could never forget him. Don't make that mistake because it hurts a lot. Good luck and write what happened.
hi i know you feel bad i understand you but in life you have to be strong and fight it no matter what it offers you. Like you, I suffer and dream of being with one of my best friends. Although I know I shouldn't bother and I should tell him about my feelings, I don't dare. If you stop telling him, I wish you what you want and that you love each other very much. Good luck
don't bother her so you break up with him and so much without explanations and tell another boy you like for years because you go too far with the secrets
I love only 3 years; (and I'm only 17 !!!! I try my best, I fight, I give my best ....; (we both want to be together but the circumstances do not allow it..when I read the comments here ... I thought- IS THIS AWAITING ME IN THE FUTURE? FALSE "TRUE" LOVE?! ... I CAN'T DON'T EVEN WANT TO EVEN THINK .... HOW BAD IT IS ONLY ; (AND MY ADVICE TO YOU IS- DON'T BE SILENT GIRL! I WAS SILENT I WAS SILENT I WAS SILENT AND WITH THIS MY SILENCE AND STUBBORN I LOST HIM! NOTHING WILL HAPPEN, AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU HAVE TRYED!
Hi. I am almost 20 years old! Honey, I'm in a similar situation! It's not easy for me either, I'm dating one of the 3 years, I broke it for 1 week because of the other boy I hate, but I love my boyfriend, and I went back to him, but the 1st is not the same as before, the 2nd is already my feelings for him are hellishly cold, I plan to touch him again, because the past will not return! Look up ahead and listen to your heart, it knows the way to happiness !!! I wish you a lot of success darling .... :))))
From the author: there are already some changes about my case. Of course, they are still at my expense. I didn't do anything about the boyfriend I had. I was cool with him and he became estranged. Again, I was the one who suffered, but we spent 6 months like that. And I still haven't admitted to my best friend how I feel. I just don't know how. And I don't want to lose him as such. What do you think?
Hello, I want to ask you for advice. I have been living with a boy for 3 years and we have been together since 6. Until two years ago I gave everything for him, I could not imagine my life without him, until a nice sunny day when I met a boy who attracted me to many. diligent way, we talk exactly 3 times, but every time I see him I want to throw myself on his neck. I got pregnant and when I told my friend, he didn't stop playing various stupid games, I felt sick, I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, I was constantly nauseous and it was as if he wasn't there, I had small complications and I had an abortion, and then the gray everyday life grabbed us, we didn't talk for almost 2 weeks, because our shifts were different, but he became the "BIG CHILD" and from that moment I just don't stop thinking about others. What to do?