Hello! My grandmother, who throughout my life so far has been an example of the "most dignified and combative" person I love very much ... I have the feeling that she is leaving !!! She turned 89 three months ago, and although at that advanced age, she still moved without the aid of a cane, and she was also often visited by prospective students for literature lessons for free. But in the last few weeks she started to lie down, she doesn't want to eat, she can't get out of bed and I started to worry a lot, because my grandmother is a very special person for me, I was more attached to her since I was little. , told me stories from her time, shared with me interesting moments from her life and teaching career, and later directed me to the teaching profession. I lock myself in my room at night and cry like a little child, because somehow I feel very sad and I feel that he is slowly but gloriously walking towards the End.
I have such a strange feeling. I can't calm down, because for the second week she's been lying down and not getting out of bed, and she's not sick, she just suddenly went to bed. I have always been afraid of the moment when one day he will leave and I still feel that he is close. It's just that for me she is a person who will understand you in any situation, she is not like the rest of her peers with rigid thinking, she always gives me advice from her point of view, she even gives an example from the life of a Bulgarian author of literature and that really it affected me a lot. I just don't think I'll survive her loss! and she wasn't sick, she just suddenly lay down. I have always been afraid of the moment when one day he will leave and I still feel that he is close. It's just that for me she is a person who will understand you in any situation, she is not like the rest of her peers with rigid thinking, she always gives me advice from her point of view, she even gives an example from the life of a Bulgarian author of literature and that really it affected me a lot. I just don't think I'll survive her loss! and she wasn't sick, she just suddenly lay down. I have always been afraid of the moment when one day he will leave and I still feel that he is close. It's just that for me she is a person who will understand you in any situation, she is not like the rest of her peers with rigid thinking, she always gives me advice from her point of view, she even gives an example from the life of a Bulgarian author of literature and that really it affected me a lot. I just don't think I'll survive her loss! he even gives an example from the life of a Bulgarian author of literature and this really influenced me a lot. I just don't think I'll survive her loss! he even gives an example from the life of a Bulgarian author of literature and this really influenced me a lot. I just don't think I'll survive her loss!
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It is for this reason that I speak to everyone on this site who has problems and does not know what to do to pray to the True God. His name is Jesus Christ. Pastor Plamen Petrov writes on YouTube every Thursday from 9 pm there are prayers and teachings. God helps, heals even today. He who believes will be saved. There are also testimonies. Seek me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest, saith the LORD. It is not a sect, it is not a lie, but it is the truth. God teaches togetherness, unity help everyone. God can help everyone.
Maybe the moment is really approaching, as you feel it. I can only advise you to spend as much time as possible with her and talk about all sorts of topics. If there is something you want to know about your family's past or just from bygone times, now is the time to ask her. Be close to her and support her. Older people need to be busy and active with something so as not to give in to old age. In this line of thinking, you can play some board games if your grandmother is in shape. You can make her show you various recipes you want to learn. Just keep her busy with something that cheers her up.
Her age is not small, but do not "write her off" like that without a doctor, a diagnosis ... I hope it is something correctable and treatable. Seek medical advice.
A bow to your grandmother! This is a former BEL teacher! And the teachers have gained knowledge and experience for a while - they can always explain to you what was written in the textbooks - things related to socialist upbringing, how there were September people, Chavdars and pioneers then! Your grandmother is a very valuable person! Pray for her to get back on her feet! Why didn't he ask her what was wrong with her, what excited her, was she worried about something, why was she lying down! There is always a reason!
Unfortunately, this is life, dear ... your grandmother is many years old and at one point the body and the soul say: "I can't anymore!" ... you have to come to terms with that. Look at it from the good side - your grandmother has walked a dignified life path!
It is more frightening when small children are left without their parents and parents lose their children. This is not experienced or complained about. And your grandmother is 89. It is quite normal for the end of those years to come to her. No one is eternal.
F 67 I'm not afraid of the end. I am a Christian and I believe that earthly life is not the End. I read that one anticipates these things. Your grandmother was a valuable person and lived a meaningful life. You were blessed with her advice and presence. Thanks also for what she did for you. Otherwise, a doctor may be an elementary disease.